First Loves, Feelings and some thoughts. |
 Jan 14 2006, 08:23 PM
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Coming from a personal expereince itself. First Loves are truly hard to forget. No matter what that person will be take residence in your heart in someway. But often they are on your mind. First thought when you wake up and the last one before you sleep. No matter how many males or females you begin to date or know...they will always be there. Lingering memories that seem to fade but are still there.
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Jan 14 2006, 08:25 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
What are we discussing ? o_o
If you wrote that, its beautiful. It seems like a passage from a story. Belongs in writing maybe? , unless there is something to discuss. |
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Jan 14 2006, 08:30 PM
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Heh. . I forgot to put in that part. Sorry. How was your first love? That's pretty muc hthe discussion. I think this might have been repeated though....but like the feelings that come with it, hardships, and just in general talking about it.
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Jan 14 2006, 08:40 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols my first love.....hmm to be honest..i want to admit that the past times that i've been "in love" i came to find that i really wasn't...hehe so yeahh....those feelings were all false feelings to me..so therefore i can not explain my first love...
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Jan 14 2006, 08:43 PM
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hmmm. first love. ide have to say that ive never been in love. ive only been in one relationship...and it wasnt really love. it was more of a friendship. im still waiting for love :/
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Jan 14 2006, 08:44 PM
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 I think my first love was daring. But it had all end in friendship or not even friendship. He broke my heart and over the summer we hung out and he asked me out again but I was scared he would break my heart again. and so...I said "lets just be friends for now". He had tried really hard to be my friend but he couldn't wait so he completely avoided me.
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Jan 14 2006, 08:44 PM
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I've noticed that happens quite often. Where people sometimes confuses merely liking someone with love. I used to know a girl who everyday would come to me and say "I love Mark, he makes me soo happy!" then not even a week later she loves someone else. A repeated cycle.
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Jan 14 2006, 08:47 PM
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QUOTE(jessichacha @ Jan 14 2006, 8:44 PM) I think my first love was daring. But it had all end in friendship or not even friendship. He broke my heart and over the summer we hung out and he asked me out again but I was scared he would break my heart again. and so...I said "lets just be friends for now". He had tried really hard to be my friend but he couldn't wait so he completely avoided me. I'm so sorry to hear that. That happened to me too for a little while. |
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Jan 14 2006, 08:59 PM
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Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
My first love was ... I cant even explain. He made me feel beautiful. I never wanted to be without him. I felt special, wanted and like i was wanted. I felt, so many things at once for him. My heart felt like it was being squeezed and my stomach did flops. When we kissed, when we touched,hugged or anything else, it felt electric. Like enery currents shocking through me.
I felt sad, even before he was gone. I would, and did, lots of things others would never do. It was the same for him. I really didnt know what I would do without him, but I was forced to. He died. And Im pretty sure, that if he didnt. Wed still be together. Im young, but I have experienced true love. |
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Jan 14 2006, 09:08 PM
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QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Jan 14 2006, 8:59 PM) My first love was ... I cant even explain. He made me feel beautiful. I never wanted to be without him. I felt special, wanted and like i was wanted. I felt, so many things at once for him. My heart felt like it was being squeezed and my stomach did flops. When we kissed, when we touched,hugged or anything else, it felt electric. Like enery currents shocking through me. I felt sad, even before he was gone. I would, and did, lots of things others would never do. It was the same for him. I really didnt know what I would do without him, but I was forced to. He died. And Im pretty sure, that if he didnt. Wed still be together. Im young, but I have experienced true love. I'm sorry....I am young as well. I am only 14. He is 16 and with someone else. I'm sorry. |
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Jan 14 2006, 10:02 PM
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 Sharie. Group: Member Posts: 2,429 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 103 |
You know sometimes it's hard to figure out if it's LUST or love...if you're really in love. And I knew for the two other guys it wasn't exactly lust, because for me, when I start to like and then love someone...it's hard to stop. It's like, you'll never truly forget what you had with them, you know?
But right now, I know I'm in love with him. I care about him so much, when I see him cry for anything (especially for me) I just want to cry. When he smilies, no matter how crappy I feel, I smile genuinely. I know if anything happens between us (we're going through really bad times right now) that I'll never EVER forget him or stop loving him one way or another. I know if I really really have to let him go one day...I would never really "get over" him. You can never get over someone you love, you can only move on. Love is when...looks don't matter; when the heart and personality and care is all that matters. All what's inside. Love is not just butterflies in your stomach or your heart beating faster. Love is when you see it in their eyes, love is when you want them to be happy more than yourself. Love is when they're in your mind every single second...literally. I mean, it's first love, isn't it? It's your first time realizing what love really is...so it would be the most unforgettable experience and the biggest change in your life. |
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Jan 14 2006, 10:10 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i don't think that anyone can forget their first anything.
my first love was my first boyfriend and we shared plenty of firsts  we were both young and i suppose i was too young for him, he was 16 and i was 14. i just entered high school and everything was so new and different to me...i ended up breaking up with him because i felt that he was smothering me. i kind of regret leaving such a great guy but it was for the best, he deserves much better than me.we've both found someone new anyway |
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Jan 14 2006, 10:49 PM
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my first love....we really were into each other, realllly into each other, then she screwed me (not literally) and i wasnt going to deal with drama or wait for people. now i am with someone else, and she gets all jealous about it, o well, her loss, she brought it on herself, but it pokes into my mind once in a while, i wont lie.
first thought when i wake up and last when i go to sleep....definately not the first love, my first and last thought is definately my current gf. <3 Alyssa. |
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Jan 14 2006, 10:56 PM
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I think my first love WAS actually love ( i just can't explain a 6 month relationship as "lust")
He...was something special. Like you said, he'd be the first thing i though of when i woke up, and the last thing before i went to bed. I'd cry in fear of losing him, but find myself smiling the very next moment because of something he'd said or done. He was my first hug-that-lasted-over-3-seconds, first hand-hold, first kiss. I loved the feeling of rubbing my cheek onto his. Everyday seemed to have sparkles and be filled with laughter. The feeling of comfort and belonging when i looked at him is something i'll never forget. It felt so....right. The memories slowly fade away, you try to forget, you really do, but its so hard. Everytime you think back, its always heart-warming, sometimes tearful, sometimes regretfull, sometimes greatfull... but always-beautiful. |
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Jan 14 2006, 10:58 PM
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You are so right i dont think you will ever forget about your frist love because its number 1.
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Jan 14 2006, 11:12 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
my first love... i'm not sure if it was considered LOVE... since i hardly knew him, but i felt this connection, and it was him who started everything... *sigh* i dunno. i can't forget about him
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Jan 14 2006, 11:53 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Hmm, my first love. I'm still with my first love, and I know it's love because I care for him so much, he's constantly on my mind, and I just want him to be happy. When he's sad, I'm sad too; when he's happy, so am I. I know that I will never forget him no matter what: he's shown me so many things and taught me so much. He's always been there for me and supported me through everything. Everyday, he makes me feel special, and I know that he loves and cares for me deeply too. He means so much to me and I know I will never regret being with him. He is my best friend and my only one. <3
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Jan 15 2006, 12:35 AM
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mood: content Group: Member Posts: 2,063 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,325 |
I idealized my "first love" [I wouldn't say love but w/e] and then I found some faults and then I didn't like him anymore. Yea, I gotta stop doing that.
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Jan 15 2006, 08:43 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
broke up with my first love a couple of days ago. it was wonderful at first, but then he started to turn into an a$s for some stupid reason, but i'll always remember my first love.
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Jan 15 2006, 01:19 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
My first love was great. We started going out in 6th grade, broke up in 8th because he moved to Texas. We stopped talking until about 3 weeks ago, and it has definitely stirred up some feelings I didn't think I had for him anymore.
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