when a boy asks you... |
 Jan 13 2006, 11:08 PM
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ok well this guy, yeah we flirt w. each other and crap, but yeah he asked me to get him a drink but yeah ill have to walk like forever to get it for him, w. his money, but yeah if i say no will he think i dont care about him but i just didnt want him to think he could control me you know? so yeah what should i do in those situations?
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Jan 13 2006, 11:12 PM
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what drink? orange juice?
 and yeah, he's gonna control you like a lil bitch. cuz your grammar sucks. |
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Jan 13 2006, 11:16 PM
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 Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
so yea, like i dont kno wut you should do, so yea! haha jk :D
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Jan 13 2006, 11:28 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
mm.. just do it this once.. but try not to always do everything.. it will make you seem like his lil bitch. but anyways.. cheyah.
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Jan 13 2006, 11:31 PM
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 Nobody Knows... Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,659 |
TEENAGE MUTANT NINJA TURTLES...GO RAFAEL YEAH!
I think he's either trying to get your attension or just taking advantage and using you...Go into more deals e.g. relationship details. blah |
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Jan 13 2006, 11:37 PM
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 Tell your mom that I don't love her anymore Group: Member Posts: 214 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,659 |
just run away with his money
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Jan 13 2006, 11:47 PM
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Moved to Relationships
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Jan 14 2006, 12:21 AM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
wait... why would you get him a drink and bring it over to him? like to his house? if it was like in a lunch line or something but.... i really think he's using you. to get a drink or like be his maid
 it doesnt really seem like he likes you 
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Jan 14 2006, 12:21 AM
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Don't.
You do it once, he'll keep on pestering you about it. |
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Jan 14 2006, 12:29 AM
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 in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
Psht, I'd tell the ass to get it himself. I wouldn't really care if I liked him or not, I'd still tell him to do it. Not because he's a guy and he should be more gentlemany to girls, but it's his own drink and he can get it himself.
If he gets the chance to feel like you're easy to control, he'll use you. It's much better to make him respect you for having your own opinion, and not letting other people boss you around. |
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Jan 14 2006, 12:29 AM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
QUOTE(Ryan @ Jan 13 2006, 11:37 PM) just run away with his money  heck chea! lols.. just kidding...hehe if that was me i wouldn't do it..do i look like a maid to you? i think not...or you can get him to come with you..hahahaa iunno...i just wouldnt do it..you know...he would think he has his reins over you.... 
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Jan 14 2006, 01:02 AM
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 Moonlight Dreams Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 203,581 |
guys= bas****s
they'll go to any extent to flirt with girls, make u do everything they want u to do, be really sweet to u when they wnat their stuff done, and one fine day ditch u to settle with some other girl they call "beautiful" or "pretty"... EXPERIENCE my dear... |
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Jan 14 2006, 03:02 AM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
It's really easy. You say, "get your own drink".
You say this because: (1) You don't want him thinking that you will do anything for him just because you have feelings for him. Trust me. Pretty soon he'll start asking you other things besides getting him a drink. (2)You do it once, he'll keep pestering you about it. Just like seon ho said. (3)He should be a man and get off his lazy butt and get his own drink. You don't want to date a guy like that. Trust me. |
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Jan 14 2006, 08:29 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
make him get his own drink, this guy isn't even worth dating if he's like that, and if you keep helping him get a drink. he's going to think it's alright to ask you to do other things for him and will keep bothering you
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Jan 14 2006, 12:44 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Tell him he has legs. He can walk over to get his own drink. But youd be happy to go with him (:
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Jan 14 2006, 01:01 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
just say.. i dont want to get up and get ur drink, do it yourself? i though u were a man huh?
and then he'll be like "lol... w/e" or unless he says something else, keep away from him. |
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Jan 14 2006, 01:16 PM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
hmm i would do it for him but i think that's just me.
if you do it for him you'll seem like a such a sweet and selfless person. AND then you can make him do stuff for you after the fact. "heyyy remember when i got you that drink..." etc etc.
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Jan 14 2006, 02:36 PM
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well, he could be trying to get your attention in a very poor manner or he's just looking for a servant. since i'm an idiot, i'd probably get it for him.
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Jan 14 2006, 04:11 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 350 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 49,692 |
Hardly any guy has told me to stuff like these for him. When they do, I just tell them I'm too lazy or just say/do something, and they won't push it any further. Meh. Normally guys don't do that because they rather do stuff like that for me instead =P. But yea. If it's every once in awhile, it's okay. Don't let him think that he can use you though.
Just do it if you think it's right. If not, don't. |
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Jan 14 2006, 09:27 PM
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 ALLISON Group: Official Designer Posts: 3,372 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 310,259 |
dont always do it, and if your afriad to say no just joke with him while sending the message "no" like:
Boy: Can you get me a drink? Girl: No! Go get it your self lazy pig! *laughing* ^^ of course, dont say it in a mean way ------- ok..that was lame but I couldnt think of anything else...hopes this helps you ~~ msz. hixfive clickaty-clack |
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Jan 14 2006, 09:54 PM
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 Sharie. Group: Member Posts: 2,429 Joined: Dec 2003 Member No: 103 |
Hah. Put him to the test. See next time if HE would do any favor for you. After that, judge a little what kind of guy he is.
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Jan 14 2006, 10:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 889 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 42,392 |
don't do what he tells you to.
you be TOO nice and he'll lose interest. men enjoy the chase. |
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Jan 14 2006, 10:43 PM
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 Brand New Colony Group: Member Posts: 100 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 52,078 |
meh. it happens. for you.. say f**k off and get urself a drink. and a Cup-a-Noodle (duunnno why they are good
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Jan 15 2006, 01:25 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
I think you should try the same thing back to him, and if he says no, then he's just using you, and is being very controlling.
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