when you want what you cant have.., etc etc |
 Jan 10 2006, 01:01 AM
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theres just something about being attracted to someone who you know doesnt want to be with you. its kind of "exciting" in a way. but once you realize a relationships going to develope, and it does happen, you start getting bored.... or is that just me? when you think about the situation, it sounds like the person's only challenging themselves to see if they can get the person or not, and then drops them once they get what they want [sounds pretty F'd up doesnt it]. but when you're actually in the situation, it feels like you've been tricked by your own feelings into believing something will work out between you two. scandaloussss..
god i hope im not the only person who feels this way |
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Jan 10 2006, 01:18 AM
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Most people would feel the same, hence the saying.
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Jan 10 2006, 04:17 AM
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 I love Havasupai Group: Member Posts: 1,040 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,878 |
"Jerry, Jerry, Jerry, Jerry, Jerry, Jerry."
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Jan 10 2006, 05:53 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
It happened to me but it actually took a long time for me to grow bored.
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Jan 10 2006, 06:35 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
I don't think it's happening to me at the moment.
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Jan 10 2006, 07:07 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
of course it's happened. maybe it's happening now. i'm not sure.
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Jan 10 2006, 02:04 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
that's never happened to me before because i don't enjoy playing games with people's feelings.
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Jan 10 2006, 03:41 PM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
that happens to me sometimes. i feel really bad because i never even realize it.
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Jan 10 2006, 06:24 PM
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Yeah, I agree, I feel the same. It's kinda just human nature to feel that way. It has nothing to do with "playing games with people's feelings".
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Jan 11 2006, 01:40 AM
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 Reading make us speak good Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 344,733 |
well, considering the crush's I have consist of ppl who Iv'e never talked with and will never be with but the ppl I actually know and like I'm bored with I consider this to be true. But I agree it's a bit messed up.
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Jan 11 2006, 06:20 AM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
Oh, god yes. i have the same thing/problem. But then, i just try to hold on to the relationship anyway.. Its really annoying.. but sometimes its good too :) If its really "the one" , you wont get bored.
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Jan 11 2006, 06:45 PM
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i personally think that the only fun part to the whole i like you, you like me situation is the chase. it's fun getting to know the guy/girl and trying to win their heart over because we want our feelings for them to be returned and i think that's mostly just it-- except maybe with a few signs of affections, too. it's like selfish conscience kind of thing.
oh, and no, i'm not trying to say that i'm the type to play games like that. it's just one big game of love and war. |
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Jan 11 2006, 06:50 PM
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 It eats you, starting with your bottom. Group: Member Posts: 1,999 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 160,674 |
That has never happened to me before, but I am very careful when it comes to relationships, hence not having very many. I have absolutly love the person for me to even consider going out with. Then make sure they feel the same way. that has happened twice in my life. I guess I'm like that because toying with people's emotions is horrible. You can make a person die by that, and I don't mean physically.
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Jan 11 2006, 07:04 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Thats never happened to me. When i like someone, i whole heartedly give myself to them, which is one of my curses.
But, Even thought it is messing with people heart, i could understand how youd feel that way. |
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Jan 12 2006, 11:58 AM
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 speechless Group: Member Posts: 869 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 163,564 |
I use to be like that. I wanted someone, got that person, got bored and got rid of 'em. But know I think I've settled down and I'm currently maintaining an ok-ish relationship right now.
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Jan 12 2006, 05:57 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
omg thats liek how i feel... i would wnat this one person attention and wnat to be with him and stuff... but when i have him.. and we're dating... things are just different... i don't wnat to be with him anymore... its like the getting soemone is the fun part teh flirting and touching hands and hugs and stuff... and like i would wnat to see that person when they are not around and stuff :S thats a part of being single that i really liked it was fun, but i've been with my bf for 2 years in feb.
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Jan 12 2006, 07:34 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
I think it's human nature to always want more than we have, we're never satisfied. It's very hard to control those feelings.
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