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letting go isn't easy..true or false?, is this true or false?
lillaydee88
post Jan 6 2006, 05:56 PM
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To let go isn`t to forget, not think about, or ignore. It doesn't leave feelings of anger, jealousy, or regret. Letting go isn`t winning, nor is it losing. It`s not about pride. It`s not obsessing about or dwelling on the past. It isn`t about loss and it`s not defeat. To let go is to cherish memories but overcome them. Letting go is having the courage to accept change, the strength to keep moving. Letting go is growing up.


Letting go isn't easy.



just to let you know i wrote it and if you dont think so...i wrote it with a lil help of someone else
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 06:01 PM
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Depends on the relationship.
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 06:01 PM
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i agree with you. letting go isn't easy. it's really hard for me.
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 08:22 PM
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Letting go isn't easy at all.
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 08:48 PM
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it's so extremely hard for me. i'm still trying to let go and there wasn't even a substantial thing...

but for some people it's easy. they just accept it and move on... *sigh*
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 08:59 PM
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this is so true...letting go is extremely difficult for me. well, sometimes it does depend on the relationship. but for me, even if the relationship was horrible, theres still those moments in the relationship that i miss and want to recapture. but i know that things happen for a reason. so, even if its not easy i still try to let go... ermm.gif
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 09:00 PM
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i'm having that problem now. of course letting go isn't easy (unless s/he is an asswipe).
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 09:00 PM
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Oh, it's true. It's DAMN true.
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 10:09 PM
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well it really depends on how well the relationship and the emotions between the two people are. letting go must be the hardest thing in the entire relationship process when your heart's in the right place.
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 10:23 PM
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This is nice (: Looks like it may belong in writing though ?

And, it is very hard to let go. Sometimes, we think we have let go, when all we really did was move on. ( Big difference )
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 10:39 PM
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QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-]b @ Jan 6 2006, 7:23 PM)
This is nice (: Looks like it may belong in writing though ?


i dont understad
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 10:47 PM
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I meant, it looks like a piece of writing. A poem. Hence, why i said it looks like it could belong in writing.
 
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post Jan 6 2006, 10:50 PM
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Letting go isn't easy . =[
 
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post Jan 7 2006, 02:31 AM
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True, letting go isn't easy. I can speak from experience sad.gif
 
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post Jan 7 2006, 02:34 AM
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Yeah it is...

You only let go if you want to let go; you have a reason to let go, so what's so hard about it?

There are plenty of fish in da sea. =]
 
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post Jan 7 2006, 11:39 AM
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that is so true. it isn't easy to let go. i'm still trying to let go of my relationship, cause it's not working out. but i can't.
 
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post Jan 7 2006, 01:14 PM
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Well, it depends on the relationship. If you both really liked each other, then letting go is extremely hard. But, if it was abusive or something, it should be easier to let go.
 
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post Jan 7 2006, 02:31 PM
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QUOTE(Hiphop d[-_-)
b,Jan 6 2006, 10:23 PM]This is nice (: Looks like it may belong in writing though ?

And, it is very hard to let go. Sometimes, we think we have let go, when all we really did was move on. ( Big difference )
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if she actually wrote it then yeah but she most likely didn't.

to some people letting go is hard but they have to realize that there are reasons as to why you have to let go. it's not too hard for me anymore, i give my all in a relationship and if it doesn't work out than it wasn't meant to be and i walk away.

hmm, did you really write that now? stubborn.gif i'm sorry but i'm not too gullible and i hate plagiarism.
 
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post Jan 7 2006, 08:42 PM
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letting go isnt easy; true... its hard to let go of somebody.. i moved on [in a relationship now] but sometimes i wonder what my ex is doing.. =/ not so good.
 
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stay busy...and keep your mind on track...times seems to fly by that way on relationships and getting over people...
 
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post Jan 7 2006, 11:39 PM
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she said she wrote it, but i think it's more about a question than people commenting on her work.
no, letting go is -never- easy. even if the relationship was abusive. there has to have been something that kept you there, so getting rid of it is difficult
 
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post Jan 10 2006, 12:39 AM
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To let go is to cherish memories but overcome them. Letting go is having the courage to accept change, the strength to keep moving.

Perfectly true.- i tried it and it works. I managed to let go in 3 weeks! It was a very intense feeling i had for him. I have accepted he's getting married to someone else. I'll always cherish the memories of the times i spent with him. No regrets! happy.gif
Letting go is not that hard..if u really try it with all ur inner strength!
 
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post Jan 10 2006, 03:08 AM
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letting go isnt easy.
letting go sucks.
because you really dont want to, and its not like you have any choice.
you can be miserable forever..
or you can let go, and hopefully be happy again someday...
 
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post Jan 11 2006, 12:08 AM
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100% accurate and well written. kudos.
 
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post Jan 11 2006, 12:48 AM
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For me letting go for me was more coming terms with the idea the guy i loved would never love me. It meant I had to release all dreams I had for us. It was hard and took along time but i think im over him.
 
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post Jan 11 2006, 10:04 PM
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You wrote it? I've seen that on someone's xanga before huh.gif but anyway. Yes, I agree letting go can be hard. It depends on the relationship though. If you loved that person. That's definately not gonna be easy to let go.
 
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post Jan 15 2006, 07:45 PM
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Yes, letting go can be very hard. Especially if you're faced with the past every day at school.
 
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sure isnt.
 
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