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[islandkiss]

I have a boyfriend... it's odd.. even though he never seems to treat me "right".. when I'm with him I feel like he's the perfect guy.. Idk I get this fuzzing feeling inside when he kisses me.

The problem is, is that we started dating too early.. we hardly knew each other.. but we were so "in-love" already.. yep.. love at first sight.. well anyway, now we never really are able to talk to each other like we talk with friends. well anyway I am positive that I don't have the courage to break up with him.. what should I do?

[Winter]

Hmm I was once like that. I went out with a day only four days after I met him. But in that four days, we talked for hours and hours everyday. So it might be different...

We were very much in love with each other. But yeah, there is that problem when you start going out with someone too early. You don't really know each other.

When we went out, we knew a lot of random stuff about each other. We had all those random stuff in common. But as we started going out, we found out a lot more about each other. We had so much in common, but also so much difference.

So I think that perhaps it would be best to have a short break. Tell him that you're uncertain and that you'd like to be friends first to get to know him better.

[mglbaby]

juss be patient n try to be around when he needs u he'll open up one day.

[LiNHy POO]

that happened with me b4 too! i didnt know him really well... but i wasnt attracted to him either...

but in your case... its hard talking to one another... so one of yall has to start to open up more... this takes sum time... so try opening up more! if u open up... he will too!

[silver-rain]

Oh wow, that was the exact situation my boyfriend and I had. he was like the perfect guy- and i loved being with him- but we barely had anything to talk about- and sometimes we'd just repeat the same conversations. but then we broke up...

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[MemoriesxFaded]

yeah my boyfriend never seemed to treat me "right" to and yeah when i'm around him i do feel as if he's the perfect guy. But then again, it was love at first site. i talked to him once and he talked to me and we just went from there...with a little help from my friend and his friend (they were dating that time) and we've been going out for 5 months and during that time, we never really talked that much. i mean, the first 2 weeks or so was really great and then we started drifting apart...i was really really shy and so was he so yeah. when we're around each other, we don't really talk....we just sit there (pretty sad actually but hey, that's how it was)...so your answer kinda like my situation is that:

just do what your heart tells you to do. i didn't have the courage to break up with my boyfriend either cause it was love. but then again, he was the one who broke up with me... but the thing is, do you really wanna break up with him?

sorry if i wasn't much help..i tried...when it comes to love, i'm not really good at it

[Note]

haha...i have a gf only. she treats me alright and i think i treat her the same way. anyway if you wana try and open up, try going to a coffe shop with him. that will lossen both of you up. if you don't drink coffe then go to somewhere quite. it works for me!

[XxMaUiChIcKaxX]

hi!
well yeah i think you should tell ur boifriend if u havent breakin up with him... that u think u all should just b friends...or say sumthin...i think i lost the feelings i had for u i jus want u to kno that we no longer should be boifriend and ghurl friend....idk haha im the kinda ghurl dat has long/ short realationships i mean i go really long 6-9munts n then like 2-5 daes haha well yea say to him n dont get some1 to trust me guyz hate it! the think that u dont have enough hmMm "balls" to say it to them well i hope i helped u!!
CHANY

[Chopstikx]

just get to no him better...one of my X'es is like my best friend...so i cud talk 2 her a bout anything....

[illushun_eyez]

mhmz. thatz really hard i have been through it. especially if you are a very kind person who dont like to hurt otherz. wellz, what i would do iz think it over first about your feelingz. talk it over with a friend or someone you really trust. then if you finally know what yuo want to do then do it. and when you do live it with no regretz. first before doing anything think it over about your feelingz the good and bad thingz. then what ever your heart feelz like doing then do that without second thoughtz. good luck!

[islandkiss]

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[sWtAzNsMiLeS]

omg! dat happened to me too~ we went out for 6 days because i knew it wouldn't last.. i mean what's the point? so just tell him the truth, your opinions and thoughts and tell him dat u wanna take a lil break.. at least so u can get to kno him better

[illuminessence]

It's simple. START NOW AND TALK TO HIM! Make sure you express your emotions clearly and say "we need to talk about some serious issues." It is a no-no if you guys can't even communicate cuz what happens once you two fight?

[tinababy143]

you guys should start talking now..whether its talking the same way you talk to friends or talking about whats wrong with the relationship..one of the most important things in a relationship is communication..you should tell him how you're feeling and see if you guys will both be willing to work it out

[AzNl2iCeB0i69]

Well... For me and my last gf... its the exact same thing for your situation..

STORY: I met her a few days because she IM'd me out of nowhere.. However i found out that she asked my S/N from one of my friends.. We started talkin a lil bit on AIM then we would talk to each other in school.. After 3 Days.. She said she liked me and i did like her too.. We got 2gether on her BDAY.. We talked on the phone for hours and hours.. I think the longest 1 was about 12 hours.. LoL Yea ..We learned about each other during the time when we were going out.. normally you do that b4 2 persons get together.. But i guess every1 just has their own different ways... No1 expected that it would last this long.. We were together for 6months and 4 days... However something went totaly wrong. which i have no clue.. Guess we didnt have enough space... So we ended up breaking up.. which was.. 3 days ago.. and our last anniversary was on the 21st... life isng just fair..