Does He? Options

[x3Death.By.Knife...]

Well, I bet there's probably another topic similar to this one.

Anyway, I like this guy at school. I've known him for 3 years. The first year I knew him, he asked me out. I would have said yes, but my parents told me that I wasn't ALLOWED to date. [ I was in 6th grade then ] Now, since the end of last year, I've started to like him. My friends keep telling me to ask him out. But, the thing is, I want him to ask me out. We talk every couple of days. Its not everyday, but we say 'hi' to eachother in school. & Obvioulsy since I like him, sometimes I look at him, and a couple times I would see him looking at me.

What do you think this is? Does he really like me again, or is it just my imagination? What does this seem like to you guys?

Er, I know that it's not much information to go on. But I would make me feel better if I got some replies from some others. =]

[jEllyBeaNs]

talk to him and find out. :)

[x3Death.By.Knife...]

But, you see, heres another thing. I want to tell him that I like him, and then I don't. One reason I don't is because, what if I tell him and he only thinks of me as a friend. Now he'll know I like him, and our friendship will change, because he knows I like him more than a friend.

[gnawxela]

well... that's the tradeoff, or have one of your friends do it?

i would talk to him more until you're both comfortable and then you'll naturally know what's up

hope this helps

[jEllyBeaNs]

well if he knows that u like him more than a friend, then i say make a move or somethin. thats wut i would do, but hey, i really dont kno. sorry. :(

[o0olaalaa]

ask him thats all i can say. cuz sometimes if you ask someone to ask you the message gets all screwed up. just go to the source. which is him

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

But, you see, heres another thing. I want to tell him that I like him, and then I don't. One reason I don't is because, what if I tell him and he only thinks of me as a friend. Now he'll know I like him, and our friendship will change, but he knows I like him more than a friend.

But, you shouldnt be afraid of that. I mean of course you will be, but its better knowing than wondering what could have been.

And you cant wait for him to ask you out, because he might be waiting for the same thing. You just have to muster up some courage, grab some balls, and ask him out.

[*krnxswat*]

dude. you're asking our advice on if he likes you based on this information: "he looked at you."

you little douche bag

maybe you should tell him how you feel when you learn how to spell "allowed"




"one two three four five.."

can you read that "allowed" please?

[_sarcastic_]

you can't just wait for him to ask you out, what's wrong with you asking a guy out?
the only way you're going to find out if he still has feelings for you is to ask him

[*krnxswat*]

seriously. i wouldn't mind it if a girl asked me out. (:

[Ilaem]

TALK TO HIM
Gawd
Find out
Besides girls asking guys, there's absolutely nothing wrong

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Well if you're not sure; then maybe you should just take a risk and ask him out for yourself. It's not always about the guy asking the girl out. Why not be different and break the pattern. Good luck.

[misoshiru]

well, just plain looking at you, doesn't necessarily mean anything.

just talk to him. and the thing about being scared of "ruining" the friendship is plain bullshit. afterall, you live only once. why wonder when you can find out.

[xFaith]

if there is something ive learned from the past few weeks it is that you should always act right away when you like someone. you will regret it later.. i think your chances are pretty good :) just go for it!

[topsyturvy]

Like o0olaalaa said, he's the only source for that information unless he told his friends.

Now, if you don't want to ruin it for the two of you, you can go and find out from his friends. But suppose he DIDN'T tell his friends. He COULD get mad at you for making a mess.

IMO the fastest and cleanest ways to solve this is to either ask him out or wait a little bit longer.

[*mipadi*]

In my experience, expressing your interest probably won'y ruin the friendship--even if it does cause a bit of awkwardness initially, that should quickly blow over. However, waiting is the problem--if you wait too long, he won't be interested anymore, or someone else will come along. You only get one shot at growing up--you might as well take a few risks along the way, if the rewards are valuable enough. If I were you, I'd just say something to him.

[x3Death.By.Knife...]

dude. you're asking our advice on if he likes you based on this information: "he looked at you."

you little douche bag

maybe you should tell him how you feel when you learn how to spell "allowed"
"one two three four five.."

can you read that "allowed" please?

It's a flippin' typo, don't spaz over it, god.



Anyway, I'd like to thank everyone who wished me good luck, and gave me some POSTIVE advice. Thanks <3

I think that I'm almost ready to talk it out with him.

[HybridCountdown5]

well, if ur in middleschool, its prolly just a little crush that might have ended w/ your refusal the first time, but if he sees that if he attempted again you'd say yes, the crush could come back...if u want him to ask u out tho, keep hinting at it! <3

ooh ooh! this is what u could do!
mk, have one of ur friends say to him, "hey, x3Death.By.Knife. has a huge crush on u!"
and have ur friend tell u how it goes! If hes like "oh huzzah, i like x3Death.By.Knife. too" then ur in buisness!
but if hes like "....oh...i just consider x3Death.By.Knife. a friend..." then he asks you about it, u can be all like, "oh that silly friend of mine, i said nothing of the sort! they're always doing things like this to annoy me!"

its totally foolproof!