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 Dec 21 2005, 08:46 PM
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okay, so I had this crush on this one guy, who liked me back, but whenever we got to talk by ourselves, we had nothing to talk about. So I thought, well, I'll make friends with some of his friends so we CAN actually not sit in awkward silence.
soooo....i did, and I still really like him. but...now he just thinks of me as a friend because i'm always around. gah i'm very confused. part of me wants to not be friends with his friends...and the other part of me doesn't want me to like him at all...because now he's a close friend... |
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Dec 21 2005, 09:13 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 75 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 282,125 |
if you guys never have anything to talk about...maybe you arent right for each other
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Dec 21 2005, 09:18 PM
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Tiffany <3 Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,685 |
You should be friends and make friends with his friends
That way you don't feel awkward around them And you have something to talk about with them Don't be shy around him Be yourself Don't worry GOOD LUCK!!! |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Dec 21 2005, 09:35 PM
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QUOTE(Trumpetman4eva @ Dec 21 2005, 9:13 PM) if you guys never have anything to talk about...maybe you arent right for each other ^ that doesn't mean anything. It could take sometime for them to open up. I guess you can either try to see him as a close friend as well. Or you can keep on trying, if you ever have trouble talking to him. Go home the next day and think of some things that you guys could talk about. Corny but it works. |
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Dec 21 2005, 09:40 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Are you sure he thinks of you as just a friend ?
Try boldly telling him you still like him, and ask him out. Or just try flirting and dropping hints. But as everyone says (with which i sometimes do and dont agree ) boys cant take hints. |
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Dec 21 2005, 09:51 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
talk about anything, both of your interests, teachers, classes, the weather, what you're going to be doing for christmas etc.
don't worry if you don't have anything to talk about now, it'll gradually just come naturally. |
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Dec 21 2005, 10:00 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
tell him how you feel...
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| *mipadi* |
Dec 21 2005, 10:30 PM
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QUOTE(Trumpetman4eva @ Dec 21 2005, 9:13 PM) if you guys never have anything to talk about...maybe you arent right for each other I concur with this statement. |
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Dec 21 2005, 11:09 PM
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 in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
Stop looking at this as a bad thing. Unless he told you yourself that he thinks you're just his friend because you hang out with all his other friends, then you can't be sure.
He might be thinking that, but at least you get to spend time with him this way, to get to know him better. Being a good friend is a better way to get to know him than to just sit there and have nothing to talk about. |
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Dec 22 2005, 08:42 PM
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 Pretty Rad Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 202,955 |
QUOTE(iNyCxShoRT @ Dec 21 2005, 9:35 PM) ^ that doesn't mean anything. It could take sometime for them to open up. I guess you can either try to see him as a close friend as well. Or you can keep on trying, if you ever have trouble talking to him. Go home the next day and think of some things that you guys could talk about. Corny but it works. Ditto... but my theory is.. maybe hes too shy to say anything to you. And maybe its just not the fact that there is nothing to talk about, its just the fact that you two are too shy to talk to each other. |
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Dec 26 2005, 11:01 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(Trumpetman4eva @ Dec 22 2005, 9:13 AM) if you guys never have anything to talk about...maybe you arent right for each other Sometimes true. For me it took half a year to open up though :| Did he tell you he thinks of you only as a friend?? If not why not ask? |
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Jan 18 2006, 10:11 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
I think if you're debating it then you should just wait for something to make you sure of your wishes. Just wait it out.
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