Girls Virginity? |
 Dec 13 2005, 09:47 PM
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 Hi, My Name is Evan  Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 153,786  |
I was wondering that, when a girl have sex for the first time of her life. Does it suppost to bleed? I am still confused on this situation? Some said yes and some said no? For you girls who have lost their virginity, when you had sex for the first time. Did you saw or felt any blood? Thanks
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Dec 13 2005, 10:51 PM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
yea when girls have sex for the first time, most girls do bleed. because the guy breaks the girl's hymen, and that's what causes the bleeding. but sometimes girls can break their hymen stretching or excercising, so they don't bleed the first time they have sex...
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Dec 13 2005, 11:28 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
in health class i learned that you're not supposed to bleed after you lose your virginity because your hymen is a loose piece of skin. plus your hymen can break off when you're riding a bicycle.
if there is bleeding it means some inner tissues have been torn and that is baaad because it can get infected. i did not bleed but it was one of the worst pains ever when i lost it. |
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Dec 13 2005, 11:56 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Some girls bleed, others don't because they could have broken their hymen by using a tampon, horseback riding, etc. It differs with each girl.
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Dec 14 2005, 12:23 AM
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 Oreo Nazi >=) Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 281,794 |
QUOTE(V_TEK @ Dec 14 2005, 3:47 AM) I was wondering that, when a girl have sex for the first time of her life. Does it suppost to bleed? I am still confused on this situation? Some said yes and some said no? For you girls who have lost their virginity, when you had sex for the first time. Did you saw or felt any blood? Thanks  do you mean when a girl HAS sex for the first time IN her life. IS is SUPPOSED to bleed?...some SAY yes and some SAY no...Did you SEE of FEEL any blood? x.x sorry, pet hate is when people dont spoke right. x.x don't mean to offend. well anyways...uh, I'm still a virgin but I heard that it bleeds sometimes and that's normal. btw does anyone know if doing gymnastic moves like the splits and stuff will break your hymen =/ |
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Dec 14 2005, 12:54 AM
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QUOTE(blackxpearl @ Dec 13 2005, 9:23 PM) do you mean when a girl HAS sex for the first time IN her life. IS is SUPPOSED to bleed?...some SAY yes and some SAY no...Did you SEE of FEEL any blood? x.x sorry, pet hate is when people dont spoke right. x.x don't mean to offend. well anyways...uh, I'm still a virgin but I heard that it bleeds sometimes and that's normal. btw does anyone know if doing gymnastic moves like the splits and stuff will break your hymen =/ You mean when people don't SPEAK right? hah sorry i couldn't help myself. |
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Dec 14 2005, 01:32 AM
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 Hey People Group: Member Posts: 199 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 94,295 |
lol i didn't know that it bleeds since i heard this. I don't think i wanna ever lose my virginity now then.. it'd be werid if all the sudden i started to bleed down there and the guy thinks that im having my period.. lol.. im strange
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Dec 14 2005, 01:35 AM
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Oreo Nazi >=) Group: Member Posts: 234 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 281,794 |
QUOTE(airtightdiver @ Dec 14 2005, 6:54 AM) You mean when people don't SPEAK right? hah sorry i couldn't help myself. its an intended pun.... |
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Dec 14 2005, 02:05 AM
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 durian Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 13,124 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,860 |
QUOTE(Chii @ Dec 13 2005, 8:28 PM) in health class i learned that you're not supposed to bleed after you lose your virginity because your hymen is a loose piece of skin. plus your hymen can break off when you're riding a bicycle. if there is bleeding it means some inner tissues have been torn and that is baaad because it can get infected. i did not bleed but it was one of the worst pains ever when i lost it. Really? I heard that the hymen has a tinnny little hole in it, in which the menstrual cycle flows through. Then, when it is broken, it might or might not bleed, depending on the person. And even if it does bleed, it shouldn't be a lot, since the hymen is thin. Thin, but tough. But hey, I didn't have health class, so who knows, lol. I guess I learned something new today :] |
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Dec 14 2005, 09:26 AM
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Hi, My Name is Evan Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 153,786 |
Sorry for asking you ladies but it concerned me a lot. Well the story goes something like this.....
My girl and I dated when we were 12/14...now we're around 16/18...we had broken up and hooking back together a lot. Anyways, one summer we broke up and each of us found ourselves a new partner. I got myself another girlfriend and we did everything except for sex. When I came back to my real girlfriend, she asked me "so have you done anything to that girl?" I did everything except for sex...and I asked her, "What did you and that guy do?" She said "well I was naked and he fingered me?" (Sorry if this isn't pg13, I got to be specific.) So I thought oh, she's still a virgin and so am I. Later we actually did have sex for the first time of my life, but then it's weird... She didn't bleed? I heard from a good friend of mine saying that it should bleed because his girlfriend bleed when they first had sex and she's like 20 while my gf is like 15 at the moment. If she wasn't a virgin and she lied to me, I would be very upset because I lost it to some player. You see, I like to loose it to someone I love a lot...like someone who I will spend the rest of my life with but it feels like she's a player. When you girls who lost it to the one you love and you guys break up...don't you feel sad and do whatever it takes to get him back because he's the one who broke your virginity? Well in my case I want her back no matter what but she acted like she don't even care or need me. I was like what the hell? So I was thinking to myself that she lied to me. When she was naked and that guy fingered her (I mean the only reason a guy would fingered the girl is to make the girl more horny then after that intercourse, correct?) They must have sex... I bet she didn't want to tell me because she would think that I would think differently of her. But boy, I am pretty upset...I thought she was the one but she's not and now I lost it. I mean it's a once in a lifetime experience and I want to lose it to my wife...not some slut!! What do you guys think? |
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Dec 14 2005, 07:45 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
^that sucks, you should ask her in a nice way... have you cheated on me on the long run? you know.. im sorry for that tho, that must suck!
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Dec 14 2005, 07:57 PM
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 can't touch this Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 323,184 |
Well, I'm sure if she lost it to him she would've said something. But really, they don't always bleed. I broke my hymen in gymnastics!
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Dec 14 2005, 08:35 PM
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 Kermit the frog = <3 Group: Member Posts: 2,315 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,215 |
::meep:: reading this topic kind of turned me on. i'm not sure about the bleeding but I know that it's painful for a girl. i'm saving myself for marriage
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Dec 14 2005, 08:37 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,224 |
You know what? Your girlfriend could have broken her hymen when the guy fingered her. Just because she didn't bleed when the two of you had sex doesn't mean that she's not a virgin. I think that if you really care about her, you should just trust what she says. If she really cares about you, she wouldn't lie to you. That makes sense, right?
And about the bleeding: I didn't bleed at all, and I've never done sports, been horseback riding, or done gymnastics. My sister, who has done all three of those, bled so much that her boyfriend thought that she had her period. So it's different for each girl. Some girls don't even HAVE hymens. And some girls have hymens so thick that they have to get them surgically removed before even using a tampon. And also! The only reason a guy would finger a girl is to make her more turned on for sex? REALLY?! Fingering is a part of foreplay, but honestly, that is NOT the only reason. And if you think that's the only reason, you need to really think long and hard about what it means to be sensual with someone, and what it means to <i>really</i> pleasure a woman. And you know what, even if your girlfriend wasn't a virgin before you two had sex, doesn't mean she's a slut. If you really care about her, you shouldn't use that kind of language to talk about her. And even so, it's too late. You already lost your virginity anyway. |
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Dec 14 2005, 08:39 PM
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hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
She might not bled because she uses tampons, or maybe because she was fingered, that would have broken her hymen and she wouldn't bleed. There are other reasons why she didn't bleed other than because she already had sex.
If you're so worried, then ask her. |
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Dec 15 2005, 07:36 AM
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Hi, My Name is Evan Group: Member Posts: 52 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 153,786 |
ahh, you guys just don't get it... 2 summers ago she was with that guy who fingered her...i supposed, then after that she hooked back with me again. Then i did all i can to be with her but it seems like she doesn't even care or got sick of me. She said she only broke up with me because her parents doesn't let her date. Then i believed her, then i found out that she now have a boyfriend. I don't know, if she really lost it to me then she would only love me. Even if I do something major wrong...I am still her first love?
When we first had sex, and then she went home...it doesn't seem like she is that excited? sighz...i don't know, yeah I know my virginity is gone...just that I want to lose it to the one that i would spend my life with...now she's gone and with another guy, ...i'm sick of her lies. Sorry... 
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Dec 15 2005, 02:23 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 34 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,224 |
Ah. so you're upset because you think that she should be dying to be with you, since you're the one she lost her virginity to.
Well. I broke up with the guy I lost my virginity to. Because he was a jerk, and a pot-head, and I didn't care about him anymore. I did love him, but things change. He told me that he's still in love with me, but I just don't feel anything for him anymore. Things change. people change. You say that she wasn't that excited after she had sex with you... Maybe she regretted it. Maybe you weren't the person she wanted to lose her virginity to. And now she's dating someone else. She probably told you that her parents won't let her date so that she didn't have to tell you that she doesn't like you anymore. There isn't a point to wishing that you lost your virginity to the girl you are going to spend the rest of your life with, because you already lost it, and this girl isn't with you anymore. So, I say, make the most of it; move on. Someday you will find someone who you love very much, and who loves you the same. You could tell her that although you aren't technically a virgin, you would like to pretend that you are, and that she is the first woman you've ever had sex with. It's worth a try. |
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Dec 15 2005, 04:22 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(airtightdiver @ Dec 14 2005, 12:54 AM) You mean when people don't SPEAK right? hah sorry i couldn't help myself. i'm confused if you knew that she was the kind that would dump someone after she gets tired of him, why still lose your virginity to her? maybe it was your firstlove. why not ask her if you're not sure if she was still a virgin before you guys had sex. that's the only way you're going to find out and some girls bleed some don't. she most likely already broken it doing some activity or while being fingered |
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Dec 15 2005, 04:22 PM
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<3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
QUOTE(airtightdiver @ Dec 14 2005, 12:54 AM) You mean when people don't SPEAK right? hah sorry i couldn't help myself. i'm confused if you knew that she was the kind that would dump someone after she gets tired of him, why still lose your virginity to her? maybe it was your firstlove. why not ask her if you're not sure if she was still a virgin before you guys had sex. that's the only way you're going to find out and some girls bleed some don't. she most likely already broken it doing some activity or while being fingered |
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Dec 15 2005, 05:30 PM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
i was afriad of that once..rofl
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Dec 15 2005, 10:30 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 324,413 |
when girls first have sex sometimes it bleeds yes. it all depends. ...
if the girl has used tampos before that could have popped her cheery. if ot then yes it might bleed. <-if you pop her cheery. and if she hasnt used tampons and she does not bleed, then her cherry has not popped. 
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Dec 16 2005, 08:27 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
There's no way to tell for sure if a girl's a virgin, except for maybe if they get examined by a doctor, and even then, it's hard to tell. You're going to have to take her word for it on this, and if you can't trust her on something like this, why should you think that she should love you? love is built on trust, and if you don't trust her, there's gonna be a very very limited amount of "love" between you too. Also, I think that there'll be a part of your heart that belongs to anyone you have a relationship with, maybe a little more to someone you had a "first" with (first kiss, first time having sex...etc). However, that doesn't mean that she's going to love you indefinately for the rest of your lives. I don't know all about your situation, but I think you guys have fallen out, and even though it's going to hurt to let go, it's probably time for you to move on. There'll always be a part of you that'll still like her, but it's probably for the best.
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Dec 16 2005, 09:41 PM
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omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
Yeah I mean you can't exactly tell....
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Dec 17 2005, 02:13 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Not everyone bleeds. Just because she didnt bleed doesnt mean shes not a virgin. I think if she told you that she lost it with you, you should believe her. But ask her about it. Some hymens can be broken while stretching , like mines did when i was 7. Others get it broken during intercourse, which sometimes causes minimal to regular bleeding.
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Dec 17 2005, 11:05 PM
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my gf is not virgin either .. but now we have married since last October .. but for me virgin nor virgin is not important .. as long u love her ..
.. i think u also not a virgin right .. i wonder if you masturbate  before ...
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