just askin...., about long distance relationship. |
 Dec 10 2005, 07:49 PM
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 im NO ordinary! akO ay taO!  Group: Member Posts: 385 Joined: Dec 2005 Member No: 314,294  |
it has been seven (7) months since i left her in our country... now we are to far from one another, but we promise to always text or call and to never find anyone else.... now i really miss her, but i just can't go back to our home country, Because my family (parents) decided to stay here for maybe 5 to 6 years...
 i really love her, i miss her, and i trust her for our promises.. but what i'm asking is "does she felt the same way as i do?" and yes, im crazy about her! (our second anniversary is in Dec. 24) |
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| *mzkandi* |
Dec 10 2005, 08:10 PM
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Moved to Relationships
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| *mipadi* |
Dec 10 2005, 08:26 PM
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(Not sure why this is here, I'll attempt moving it again.)
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Dec 10 2005, 08:34 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
Aww that's so sweet. Why won't you just text her or call her? Visit over Christmas? And since we're not your girl we can't really say how she feels.
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Dec 19 2005, 08:41 PM
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i feel the same way towards me n my bf. hes far from me, hes goin to be gone for a year. n we've promiss to keep in touch n wait for each other. he tells me he loves me n i love him. but i really dont know at times whats he thinkin n feeling. |
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Dec 20 2005, 06:33 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
long distance relationships are hard, you have got to communicate alot i mean ALOT and have alot of trust on each other. i'm in one right now, and it's not working out very nicely. if you want to know if she still have feelings for you, call her up, talk to her online and ask her
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Dec 20 2005, 08:01 AM
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 F**k me Beautiful Group: Member Posts: 3,126 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,124 |
Ask her and you will find out.
Long distance relationships between cities which are couple of hours away...sort of do able... relationship with someone in another country...dear god.... remain friends and if u guys still have feelings for each other when u come back then its all good....but if u found someone else, eh shell find someone too |
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Dec 20 2005, 10:55 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 102 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 288,931 |
One of my best friends is in one and although it kills them to be apart so long they are still one of the best couples I know and they are crazy in love still after a year. and they're in different countries...they just see each other during long breaks. i havn't seen my crush in like a year and a half and im still crazy about him, so its very possible that your girl's still crazy about u too!
 Buuut it does depend on the girl...just talk to her and see. Some people can handle being far apart and others just need someone thats physically there for them nearby. just think tho, when u do see her again its going to be 10 times sweeter!! If you're wondering how she feels, SHE's wondering how YOU feel, so tell her! tell her tell her...its really hard to i know but part of teh challnge i think is just to put youself out there. haha...i think this turned into a self lecture, but hope it helped u too! 
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Dec 20 2005, 11:02 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 4,882 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 47,064 |
wow in different countries for 5-6 years?? Well it does depend on how much you plan on visiting each other, too. And since you two have already established a good relationship for the past two years, you might be able to work it out. Don't automatically give up; it's worth a shot, but if things don't seem to work out, then maybe you guys should take a break until you're able to solve things and pick up where you left off when you're able to see each other more.
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Dec 20 2005, 07:31 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
it's really not fair to promise that you'll be together and won't find anyone else. so many things can change in 5-6 years, as you get older maybe she isn't who you want and maybe you are not what she wants.
but either way, if this is what you both really want then it can't hurt to try. if you two stay together, stay together because you want to not because of the promise. if you or her finds someone else than that's that. not many people can have a relationship consisting of a phone call or text messages for 5-6 years... and 2 years is not a long time, when you get married 2 years will fly by. if this is real love, it will work out in the end. |
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Dec 21 2005, 12:56 AM
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Senior Member Group: Duplicate Posts: 459 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 308,469 |
you cant visit your home country? save up. its gotta be a round a 1000 for a 2 way flight.
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| *krnxswat* |
Dec 21 2005, 11:05 AM
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moved on. it's not the end of your lives. do a favor for you and her and just move on with your thing. find someone else. she'll most likely be flirting with other guys
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Dec 28 2005, 01:07 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Talk to her and ask her if she wants to keep the relationship this way or give it up and end the pain for both of you. ASK.
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