Love... Polygon(?!), triangles r bad enough. ever been in 1? |
 Dec 1 2005, 06:11 AM
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 damn, right!  Group: Member Posts: 368 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,547  |
Okay, I'm in a very weird situation right now... here's the catch:
There were two girls, both are my friends, and they like this guy, Takashi. Takashi... well, he likes me. I don't know what the heck happened but one of the two girls ended up liking one of my guy best friends too. My guy best friend, whom is like a sibling to me, told me that he likes me. And then there's also this fact that Takashi and Kuya (big brother, my guy best friend) are friends. As if that's not complicated enough... The elder sister of the guy I've been in love with for seven years (he doesn't know) told me that a friend of 'guy' has a crush on me...  I dunno if it's true, though. But his friends, including 'guy', constantly tease him whenever I pass by.Well... that's currently my situation right now. Sorry if it was long... how about you guys... ever been in one? |
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Dec 1 2005, 06:27 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
ohmy. that IS really complicated indeed. i guess, all i can say, is if you really do like that 'guy' then just stick to liking him perhaps? good luck on this.
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Dec 1 2005, 07:52 AM
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 because i'm worth it Group: Member Posts: 990 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,643 |
 that is some hard problem there..i think you shud tell the guy friends that you already like someone - "guy" and say get those cleared first.. |
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Dec 1 2005, 10:15 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Wow that's complicated, i don't think i understood it all.
 I agree with yanners, if you like someone stick to it. Maybe other guys like you but if they really do want to get with you then they'd better make a move. And you wait until they do. |
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Dec 1 2005, 10:40 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,087 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 36,491 |
well all i can say is dont go after the guys that like you. only go for the guy you like. and the rest will work it all out, or not. it might be a big mess. but at least you wont be too deep into it
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Dec 1 2005, 02:08 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
yeah; it was hell b/c the two boys hated each other.. at the time i was going out with my boyfriend, this other boy thats in my class liked me too... we used to flirt alot, [yep, behind my boyfriend's back]... my boyfriend was in a different grade than me anyways... soo, then on, i started to have feelings with this kid in my class... told me alot of stuff that hes been liking me for a long time [two yrs] and that he wants to get with me.. i felt bad b/c i wanted to be with both of them! .. im not that kinda girl though, so i played my recent boyfriend for the boy in my class... [yeah dumb move] but i really felt for him b/c he treated me wayyyyyyyyyy nicer than my ex [in this situation].... we went out for 2 and a half months.. it turned out it wasnt worth breaking up... although i dont regret the times we shared =).. with my other ex [the first bf] me and him are GOOOOD friend =)
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Dec 1 2005, 04:03 PM
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 you`re undeniable Group: Member Posts: 1,136 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 283,828 |
well it's just "crushes" and "liking," so i don't really see the problems. just stay true to your OWN feelings, and you should be fine.
it's not like anyone is sleeping with anyone elses mom or something.
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Dec 1 2005, 08:17 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 174 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,248 |
haha yes...
except mine was: best friend going out with guy me going out with guy's cousin me liking guy with about 4 other guys who liked me on the side =D |
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Dec 1 2005, 09:03 PM
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 Cockadoodledoo Mother Fcuka!!! Group: Member Posts: 1,438 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 296,088 |
nope, never been in one (thank god!)
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Dec 1 2005, 10:41 PM
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 "my girls rock balenciaga and smoke mad marijuana" Group: Member Posts: 2,089 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 70,049 |
yeah kinda. i think. yeah thats confusing but oh well i get your point!
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Dec 1 2005, 10:47 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
once i had eight friends liking the same guy. it was crazy.
i'm glad i've never been in one. |
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Dec 2 2005, 02:08 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
I've been in one. Three guys and two girls. We were all actually friends at first but we were so busy going after the one we liked that we forgot the most important thing - our friendship. Now none of us really talk with each other anymore. The five of us never really sat down and talked about our feelings. We only talk with one another but never as a group. Somehow I keep thinking that things might have turned out alright if we've talked.
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Dec 2 2005, 07:20 AM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols wow thats so complicated...and im not sure i understand it...blehh someone help me so i can help..hahaha
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Dec 2 2005, 11:41 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 153,708 |
you've been in love with someone for seven years and havent told them?!
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Dec 2 2005, 04:51 PM
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damn, right! Group: Member Posts: 368 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,547 |
QUOTE it's not like anyone is sleeping with anyone elses mom or something. that would be just plain... freaky.QUOTE you've been in love with someone for seven years and havent told them?! i don't want to, he's already happy with his life, why ruin it? I'm weird, I know |
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Dec 2 2005, 10:35 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 235 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 148,772 |
oh goodness..yu are defintly in trouble huh? hmm had happened to meh b4 over the summer..well..which guy do yu like the best? if yu like the guy fo 7 years... yu could tell him...but i mean..if yur afraid that would ruin his happy life..then... just stay friends with him...and wait..mayb he WOULD like to go out wit yu sumday *winks*
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Dec 3 2005, 03:16 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
QUOTE(deus_ex_machina @ Dec 2 2005, 1:51 PM) that would be just plain... freaky.i don't want to, he's already happy with his life, why ruin it? I'm weird, I know  You're not weird. I think you're sensitive and compassion for one another.
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Dec 3 2005, 08:49 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
if you like one of the guys go for it.
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Dec 3 2005, 01:05 PM
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Dude, I drew a visual aid. Even THAT got confusing.
So, you're saying that three guys like you, two girls like one of the guys that like you (Takashi), and you're in love with one guy that's not one of the three guys? Ahh, I see now. I say let your friends deal with the situation with Kuya and Takashi on their own. Go after the guy you're in love with. Deal with that. |
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