Is this.., normal? Options

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Okay. Just 2 days ago. I found out my ex had eyes for someone else. I was heartbroken because we were really close and what not. He was like, to me. An all american love story. We chatted for hours maybe even til 2 in the morning, I'd walk him home and everything =] but after we broke up he led me on...in a way. We were FWB. He told me we had to get over each other. The next day he asked the girl he liked out. I hate seeing them together I feel like ripping my eyes out rather than looking at them, happy together. I watch him obsess over her like he did when we went out. And it breaks my heart. But yes to the point. I have not only changed emotionally but physically as well. I try to be happy for him, but it doesn't quite work. I can no longer attempt to eat anything. If I try to feed myself, I feel like throwing up. I get in my suicidal mood and wind up wanted to cut myself. [but i don't]. Is this normal for a 13 year old to be going through?

[shortiiex]

your still young...just get over him
you want a guy who wants you and he isn't that guy
you have plently of years to search for someone else
since you're still 13 just TRY to forget about him and focus on school

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Depends, what exactly is "normal?"

[Rachel]

Sweetheart, you are thirteen. There will be other boys, plenty of them. You are in middle school, don't let him get to you.

Good lord, it wasn't like this guy was the love of your life.

[_sarcastic_]

yeah it's pretty normal. but you're only 13 still got tons of time to look for the right guy. sooner or later you'll get over him. he's moved on so should you

[kayemo]

Awww...that's perfectly normal. I've only had one boyfriend, myself (and am still with him) but with other guys that I've liked it was kind of hard to see them with someone else. Not now, of course, but then it was.

Don't let it get to you too much. A much better boy will come around for you.

[silver-rain]

I agree with Rachel. It sounds normal, but then again, you're young. Don't worry about it. There will be other guys.

[x3Death.By.Knife...]

Sweetheart, you are thirteen. There will be other boys, plenty of them. You are in middle school, don't let him get to you.

Good lord, it wasn't like this guy was the love of your life.

Er, On the contrary. I tdon't think you should want to cut yourself, or commit suicide. But I do know what it feels like. There was... er, is a guy that I like, and it really depresses me every day when I wish I was huggingn him or talking to him. Truthfully I think that you should tell him how you feel.. and if he doesn't seem to care.. you should at least TRY to get over him and relize that there MIGHT not be another chance.

er, I'm 13 too.. just for the record

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Yes, its normal.
And Rachel is right, you are 13. There will be other boys, and yes your feelings will fade. I know what its like to feel like your going to never stop loving an ex, or someone you really liked but you will get over him, and you will start liking other boys.

[vash1530]

wow thatt sux
just do your best to move on
when ur that young you cant expect to be with that person 4ever.

[steezahh]

wow i found out something so weird about *ehmm* today.., i cant even believe my ears. all the days we spent together were gone, ruined by this deep dark secret his friend told me. it all happened today too! wow... i feel like shooting myself for falling for his tricks man. but yeah im 13 and right now i feel like killing myself. gosh. so bad. i wont i know. its too harsh to do. but im in that mood. i dont know what to say to you since your in the same situation, but stay strong and what im going to do is go to the park and mall and try to meet new people. if you know what i mean. stay strong! im trying too...