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 Nov 26 2005, 01:19 PM
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 DAM ITS SHELBY  Group: Member Posts: 105 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 22,864  |
 It's so hard finding a guy now a days because all they want is "BANG BANG BANG". lol. do any of you ever feel that if your a slut guys don't like you and if your not a slut they still don't? are there major respect issues with boys you meet now? its hard being a girl. 
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Nov 26 2005, 01:51 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
actually, i think most guys would rather have a non slut as a girlfriend and most guys don't just want to have "it." it's just that the media is promoting the idea.
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Nov 26 2005, 03:09 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 153,708 |
^ aera , you *do* live on earth, dont you? teenage boys = bundels of hormones...
yeah banana_jamma, i get your point about them being hypocrites over the whole girl thing. just be yourself , f**k what any guy thinks. the perfect dude for u will like ya for you, not what group you stereotype yourself into. ;) |
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Nov 26 2005, 03:23 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
don't give into the hype, guys don't want sex, they want blow jobs. sex is too much work...and there's the risk of pregnancy.
but anywho, just keep your clothes on and eventually you'll find some guy who'll wait until you're ready to take the next step...unless that's what you want. i hate how girls who are labelled as sluts if they sleep with more than one person, or actually anyone at all, sometimes we just want some too with no strings attached. |
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Nov 26 2005, 03:45 PM
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QUOTE(banana_jamma @ Nov 26 2005, 1:19 PM) It's so hard finding a guy now a days because all they want is "BANG BANG BANG". lol. do any of you ever feel that if your a slut guys don't like you and if your not a slut they still don't? are there major respect issues with boys you meet now? its hard being a girl.  yeah, i actually do feel like that sometimes. a couple of weeks ago i went through a situation where i thought that this guy liked me for who i was, (he was a junior and i'm a freshman) but i soon came to the conclusion that he's a dirty son of a bitch that only wanted to hang out with me because he thought that i was an easy freshman. guys like that are no good. but i met this other boy who's a sophomore and he's the complete opposite of the junior that i dated...so i'm hoping that he's different than most of the other guys i know. |
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Nov 26 2005, 05:08 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
It IS hard.
I've gotten the "F*ck Buddy" offer more than a few times, and the actual relationship offer only twice. It's unfortunate that so many guys are interested in only ONE thing and don't even feel like they should be committed to get it. I actually agree with aera on one thing. Of the guys I know, they'd be willing to bang a slutty girl but wouldn't want to be her boyfriend. They have considerably less respect for girls who do exactly what they're doing. |
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Nov 26 2005, 05:51 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
yes... at my school, almost no guys even bother to try to get to know you unless you're slutty or something.
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Nov 26 2005, 06:05 PM
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 Proud to be an Anime Otaku Group: Member Posts: 667 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 165,004 |
Everyone wants the slut at my school but I've labeled myself as "OFF LIMITS" written in red, guys who want a f**k buddy better get the hell off my territory.
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Nov 26 2005, 06:23 PM
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 L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
QUOTE(Chii @ Nov 26 2005, 4:23 PM) don't give into the hype, guys don't want sex, they want blow jobs. sex is too much work...and there's the risk of pregnancy. this girl is the smartest person here |
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Nov 26 2005, 06:49 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
It is getting REALLY hard to find a good guy.
The guy I like now is a pothead. ._. But.. I messed up my chance with him.. Most guys are very hormonal, but there are probably still some guys left that have atleast some dignity.. Right? QUOTE(Chii @ Nov 26 2005, 1:23 PM) don't give into the hype, guys don't want sex, they want blow jobs. sex is too much work...and there's the risk of pregnancy. And I agree with her. :] |
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Nov 26 2005, 06:53 PM
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yes, chii knows her stuff.
i use to feel used because it seemed to me that all he wanted was to make out and to cope a few feels. yeah, i was stupid and let him because i was caught up in the love thing. i use to resist but then something in me let it slip. yes, i can say it with a straight face that i did love him. well it depends. there are SOME good guys out that there that wouldnt dare to do that hormonal stuff to their girl or some just get over or tone down on that phase in the relationship. |
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Nov 26 2005, 09:18 PM
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*scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
QUOTE(_suzie_ @ Nov 26 2005, 4:09 PM) ^ aera , you *do* live on earth, dont you? teenage boys = bundels of hormones... yeah banana_jamma, i get your point about them being hypocrites over the whole girl thing. just be yourself , f**k what any guy thinks. the perfect dude for u will like ya for you, not what group you stereotype yourself into. ;) well, underneath the wannabepimp attitude, yes. |
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Nov 26 2005, 09:23 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
I don't totally agree. There are plenty of guys who are looking for a blow job or a quickie, but there are also plenty who are looking for a nice girl, and a real relationship. I can honestly say that my last boyfriend was that kind of guy.
[Edit] I don't get the topi title...? 
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