what?!?, he's charming, but he hurts, literally.. Options

[towntown2]

ok, there's this guy in my class. he's nice and we always joke around.
he puts my chair away our class stacks them in the back, i flirt, we flirt.
he hugged, i hugged.
he slammed a heavy door shut when he knew i was coming, hurt my arm, and smirked. i yelled. he kept on walking.

jerk? does he have crush on me? guys, what do you think?

[silver-rain]

I really don't think he has a crush on you, unless he just has a weird way of showing it. He sounds like a jerk, what kind of guy would do that? I say forget about him.

[mzbbc]

immature guys do that. like, hurt you and push you and shove you and shit just to get attention. i don't get it, but i think they like to provoke you, so they'll get a reaction.

if he's a nice guy, he's probably just flirting but an attention-whore.

[Chii]

either he likes you and doesn't know that he hurt you so badly or he wants you to like him and he just wants to toy with your emotions/feelings.

[towntown2]

the door didn't hurt me that much, it's the fact that i saw the door swing immediately after he went out.
i just went, "HEY!" and he smirked.

i also find him staring at me a lot..so that's weird and unsettling.
i'm giving him an unspoken ultimatum until wednesday (before thanksgiving), if he keeps on being an a-hole, he's out. i'm not wasting my school year on him.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Maybe he thought it was a fun flirty thing to do and get your attention. I myself think its not a good flirting mechanism to try and knock somone over with a door.

Theres a possibility he might like you. Hugging and staring doesnt necissarily mean so. Flirting could mean he likes you, or he could just be a flirt.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

i may be wrong but are you still in elemtary school? cuz i notice u said stack the chair up...hrm... well iono how it is now, god i feel so old saying this but "back in my day" haha when peoplle liked each other we'd hit them(not in a way that it would deal serious injury lol) or poke em as a sign of flirting, he may have just did that to flirt and went a lil overboard.....or yea hes a jerk lol

[NgocQuyen]

lols..sometimes guys have a weird way of showing girls how they feel, and visa versa(i think thats how that goes..i forget) hehehe...i mean its a possibility that he likes you and he just thought that slamming the door was a sure way to show his affection, or...he dont like you and is just a big donkey. but why dont you ask him? how old are you by the way that comment ^up there made me wonder...

[seremela_culnamo]

i may be wrong but are you still in elemtary school? cuz i notice u said stack the chair up...hrm... well iono how it is now, god i feel so old saying this but "back in my day" haha when peoplle liked each other we'd hit them(not in a way that it would deal serious injury lol) or poke em as a sign of flirting, he may have just did that to flirt and went a lil overboard.....or yea hes a jerk lol

Haha. I'm in my last year of high school and the janitors got so frustrated that they make us stack the chairs. Lmao. A drag but it cuts class short by 5 - 10 minutes! Yay =D

Anyway, yea. He's just being immature. Or the dirty truth: just using you. Like if he flirts and all that, why would he be like that to you? Then again, guys are sometimes immature. He probably doesn't know how to react. Or he was like, "should i hold the door for her?" Next thing you know, it slammed itself or he did it just to ease up the moment. I dunno. This has never happened to me, except perhaps sometime a couple of years back with my guy friends. But I can kick their ass if I want to

[topsyturvy]

How old are you?

Back in fourth grade, i remember a guy who used to go out of his way to make me miserable. He started rumors about me, he dissed me, he cussed at me. Then one day i found out he liked me all along.

When he found out that i found out, he started acting nice to me.

Unfortunately for us ladies, some guys take forever to mature. From personal experience, i think he really likes you.

[misoshiru]

he's acting pretty immature, maybe just to get your attention. there's the possibility that he likes you.

[_suzie_]

most likely, he didnt intend to hurt ya.

[BOLIN_Vee]

FLIRTING IS BULL!

[NyCaZnShOrtAii]

sounds like a dumass =X

[*RiC3xBoy*]

Does he think you have cooties?

[hottiebheibi]

if you say you always caught him staring @ you... i say he likes you but HE REALLY HAVE A JERKY WAY of saying it... you might want to confront him 'bout the way he treated you...

[eccentricity__]

How old are you?

Back in fourth grade, i remember a guy who used to go out of his way to make me miserable.  He started rumors about me, he dissed me, he cussed at me.  Then one day i found out he liked me all along.

When he found out that i found out, he started acting nice to me.

Unfortunately for us ladies, some guys take forever to mature.  From personal experience, i think he really likes you.

That's what happens; guys don't want you to know that they like you so they act like jerks, then when you find out, well you already know, so they act nice. Heh.