Cousin Separations? Options

[BeyondElite]

I feel like I want to die. My life is over, I guess. My cousin and I are now separated. We had this fight, but I was just trying to do it for her own good. Now I feel like I don't want to go online anymore. Nor to talk to someone. I feel numb. I feel heavy. I feel strange. I just feel weird. Please help me.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Maybe it would be easier to help if you could explain the situation.

But , if your cousin is your cousin, and you believe that blood is thicker than water, then in due tike things will get better,

[BeyondElite]

Well, we promised each other not to communicate with eachother whatsoever. Okay, here's what happened. I changed her passwords, because she's getting off the hook. Then she changed my Yahoo, which is very important to me, because I was waiting for a reply from my teacher. Then, she gave me back my password, and I am being greedy. I left her waiting for 5 minutes in AIM, and when I went back on, she changed her mind and made a new MySpace. And she promised me that she will never add me, and what have you. I asked for forgiveness, but I just waisted 10 minutes saying sorry to her. I feel like a jerk, changing her passwords. But that was my responisibility. Her old sister (which is older than me too) told me to change her passwords when she gets off the hook, so. Gosh, I want to die right now.

[_sarcastic_]

well she can't not talk to you for the rest of her life, i mean after all she is your relative. maybe instead of changing her passwords you could have just talk to her about it and tell her how worried you were. tell her that you were doing it for her, and that you care about her alot.

[topsyturvy]

^ agreed

Put a note that says "I'm sorry for what i did, please can we make up?" (or something of the sort) in a big box of chocolates. Then put that big box of chocolates in front of her door, ring the bell, and run.

Hey, you didn't completely break the promise. It's not verbal or online communication.

[waccoon]

well she can't not talk to you for the rest of her life, i mean after all she is your relative.  maybe instead of changing her passwords you could have just talk to her about it and tell her how worried you were.  tell her that you were doing it for her, and that you care about her alot.

Sometimes people don't want to talk to their relatives. I know people that have gone ten years without talking to their parents. ;/

Anyways, I don't think you had the right to change her passwords, regardless of who told you to. It's her password, and her account. If she wants to get off the 'hook', she needs to do it herself.

[BeyondElite]

Well, actually, her mom and sister suggested me to do so, for disciplinary actions, since they can't control her from going online. Even when her mom (my aunt) changes the computer's passwords, she can still get in. She's like addicted. That's why they put me in charge on it. Anywho, I called up her sister last night. She'll try her best to confront her sister for me. But if it won't work, then it's my responsibility to go ask for forgiveness myself when I go to their house this Christmas. I don't want to see us, not talking this Christmas. It's so ashame of me trying to do so. I need more advice though.

[aera]

you did it for her good, so i'm sure she'll come to realize it later. the next time you see her, just ask her if she would listen to you and tell her why you did that. if she won't, do what K!$$ said, and write it to her in a box of chocolates. unless she doesn't like chocolates.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

You did it for her own good and shes needs to stop being so selfish and realize that. If this whole vendetta is held on over some changings letters, that is ridiculous. Talk to her as soon ans you can and just tell her you did it on her mom and sisters orders. Are you filipino ? If you are, use the respect your elders wishes thing. That should get her. [ not that no other race does that. Its just Filipinos are HUGE on respecting elders ]