best friends and love, what shoud i do |
 Nov 19 2005, 02:25 PM
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 Some 1 plz find me, help me find my way..my way bak 2 bliss  Group: Member Posts: 288 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,748  |
i love him he is my best friend and he loves me two just not the same way i live him... i would like to be more than just friends but i dont knw if i should tell him.. we have spoken about it in the past and he has said that he chreishes our friendship more..he has thought about us going out at poitn in time
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Nov 19 2005, 03:24 PM
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Ask yourself this, is a relationship with him worth your friendship? You'll get your answer right away. Besides if you guys are really close, and he loves you like a bestfriend, why do you want more.
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Nov 19 2005, 04:03 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Ehhh... I went out with one of my guy bestfriends (it only lasted like 2 weeks, we were super compatable too) and after we broke up, we didn't talk for like a month, it was super awkward, and we lost our bestfriendness. We're just friends now.
So.. Are you willing to risk it? I say you try to find another guy. |
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Nov 19 2005, 04:37 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
^agreed. are you willing to risk your bestfriend-ness to become something more. ask yourself.
well if you have talked about it before, why not bring it up again, maybe he might change his mind. if not just find another guy like aznhunnie6o1 said |
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Nov 20 2005, 08:23 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Well they're ^^^ right, but not all relationships have to end like that.
Sometimes even after breaking up, they stay best friends. And it's actually easier to break up when you're closer to him. For me, that is. I think you should give it a shot if you really like him. But if it's only the thought "Wow he's hot, i'd like to kiss him", then forget it. Make sure you want to be his girlfriend for the right reasons. |
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Nov 20 2005, 08:27 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Not all best friend turned couple that break up areall awkward. Some boys dont even think of " It might ruin our friendship " And some of them are not even worried about that. I say you tell him, If you love him that much, and you simply cant live being just his friend then you should take a chance so one day you dont look back and wish you did.
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Nov 21 2005, 01:21 AM
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yeah i agree i mean sometimes if you go out with your friend, when you guys break up it just wont be the same.. it may be just weird/awkward, or even worse you guys might stop talking ...so just ask yourself what the person said is he worth loosing a friendship over?
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