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For the past five years or so, I been sexually confused from time to time but have been in a relationship with a guy before.
There has been this one friend/ girl who I;ve had feelings for and she is bisexual. but the type of girl she liked were never like me. They just seemed so pretty and smart. She was always so good to her friends and to the girls she liked but she always suffered from unrequited love and her friends never treated her as good( always canceling,never calling back)
I've always tried to be there for her because I always cared about her. I know she wants certain attention but everytime I gave her my care sometimes she pushed me away.
Ever since last year she liked this one girl and this girl is really pretty,smart,socialable shes just everything to her. This girl has a boyfriend and I know my friend is hurt deep down but she still has hope for them to be together. Last month at a party we made out playing around but thngs didnt change with us but then the other day it was our friends birthday and we were all hanging out and we tend to flirt sometimes. Us and two other friends were talking about alot of random stuff and I went to turn off the lights( my eyes started to hurt) but the room was pitched back and then she kissed me. .I felt something it wasnt meaningless and she asked me to be with her that night but told me to answer her the next day. When I left she told my other friend nice things about me and the next fewdays everything went pretty good . .for the first time in months I was really happy even thought she was a girl it didn't matter I really cared and I was happy with her . .We werent together but we were like dating I guess . .She would blush and turn red around me and I was able to make her happy which made me extremely happy because thats all I wanted for along time . .to see her happy . .but to see her happy from me . .it was just amazing

Today i got a note from her saying that she wanted to end everything between us because shes in love with the other girl and dosn't want to hurt or use me . .

I felt really hurt but didn't understand why. I know everything must come to an end but I didnt think so soon ..
I just wanted to be the one to make her happy
the girl she likes leads her on and is gonna hurt her
she deserves so much better than that

I dont know . .
any advice

thanks =)

[Nicolatofu]

It may sound weird, but telling her that the other girl is just leading her on will make you look jealous. If you were to tell her, she might take it that you don't want her to be with anyone else evern if that's not the way you mean it. Try giving her a little space. Sometimes it's better if we learn from our own mistakes.

[ParanoidAndroid]

awwwww, if she doesn't like you as much as before.. well that's life for you. But you can try and be there for her in a different way then you used to. And why won't you give that new girl a chance? I know she has the one you love but sometimes it's easier if we think more for them then for our selfishness

[*~*SHy*~*]

It seems like this girl is confused and does not know what she wants out of life. And because of this she hurts others and you. Though you want to be there for her and always try to help her, you have to think for your self first. Give her some time to think about what she did and confront her in a while about what you really felt. Tell her how you wanted to help her and still is going to. Though she likes another girl, she is never going to get her. It seems like she just want her to be happy as you just want her to be happy. remember express your self don't repress

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

You cant help if shes in love with another girl. At least she ended it, being your friend, and telling you she didnt want to hurt you. Maybe in time if she falls out of love with the other girl she will want to take another chance with you. It sounds like she also might be confused, but yet doesnt know what she wants. So there is a chance you guys can be together sooner. Just stick by her.