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post Nov 16 2005, 12:41 AM
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For some reason, girls at my school (and other places) just seem to hate me and be jealous at me. Most of them don't like being friends with me, however, I have more girl friends than guy friends.
Those close girl friends I have are b*tchy at me and ignore me, say I am so not "cool" (but what's the standard of "coolness"? The answer is none.) Despite that, I have only one girl friend that I can depend on. I need to thank God if they don't gossip about me. The distant girl friends are okay though. But those close ones, eww. For those that I aren't friends with, they don't even talk to me unless they have to.

On the other hand, guys are really friendly to me. I have several guy friends and I have nice relationships with them. They are always on my side and really caring.

What's the reason behind it? I don't get it. Why do girls hate me and guys are so caring to me?

To Clarify: I only have a couple (like ten) are guy friends, the rest of my friends are all girls. I don't think I am good-looking but probably the reason why I don't get along well with those girls because I don't conform and not follow the popularity.

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post Nov 16 2005, 12:58 AM
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post Nov 16 2005, 01:01 AM
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all the years of my research on females ive learned one thing. all girls are envious , bitchy or flat out just hate other girls.
 
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post Nov 16 2005, 01:24 AM
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A lot of girls don't like me either.
Maybe it's because you aren't as superficial or something? People can spot someone who doesn't conform pretty easily. But sometimes it can just be all in your head, everyone's so paranoid about themselves.

I think your pretty cool. happy.gif
 
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post Nov 16 2005, 12:03 PM
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it might actually be because you're good looking. girls are usually catious around good lookin girls

anyways, just mingle and be a little more friendly. alot of people who didnt used to talk to me found out i was quite friendly and nice, and vise versa. its lal about communication
 
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post Nov 16 2005, 12:10 PM
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it might actually be because you're good looking. girls are usually catious around good lookin girls


Haha, that made me smile.

I have the feeling that you're sort of bragging in this topic. >_> Dunno why.

If you're good-looking and have lots of guy friends, they're probably jealous of you and hate you for being popular with the guys.
 
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post Nov 16 2005, 05:31 PM
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''I have the feeling that you're sort of bragging in this topic. >_> Dunno why.''

me? mellow.gif
 
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post Nov 16 2005, 05:35 PM
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it could just be that they're jealous you're prettier than them. mellow.gif

yea, girls are always bitchy about things like that, so don't even worry about it. if you like hanging out with guys, then just go with that.
 
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post Nov 16 2005, 06:45 PM
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maybe thats why girls hate you because your so popular with guys. and thier jealous....a well known fact.
 
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post Nov 16 2005, 06:53 PM
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^I agree with Lindsey over here...

want to peg stones with me? _smile.gif the targest are those girls you mentioned
 
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post Nov 16 2005, 07:11 PM
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QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Nov 16 2005, 6:53 PM)
^I agree with Lindsey over here...

want to peg stones with me? _smile.gif  the targest are those girls you mentioned
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uh oh..there you go again with that pegging business..hahahaha

uhh...iunno maybe its because they're not really true friends? haha...true friends dont be bitches to you..thats just..not right..if i were you i would be like itch dont be jealous because im sexy and i have more guys trying to holler at me! stubborn.gif
 
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post Nov 16 2005, 07:18 PM
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^I'm a proffesional stone pegger... i get paied to do that stuff
 
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post Nov 16 2005, 07:20 PM
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QUOTE
ApocalypseAelis  Posted Nov 16 2005, 12:10 PM
I have the feeling that you're sort of bragging in this topic. >_> Dunno why.

If you're good-looking and have lots of guy friends, they're probably jealous of you and hate you for being popular with the guys.

I agree. Even with the bragging part. >_<
 
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post Nov 16 2005, 08:22 PM
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I would do anything just to have great guy friends that I could count on no matter what, the guys in my school are all assholes and only searching for one thing. And I'm pretty girly, so I have a lot of girls as my friends, but theres a lot of drama, because every girls are drama queens. But yea, maybe they envy you, and want to stay away from what they cant have. Don't take it as a bad thing, they could be just jealous of you. Therefore all the more power to ya! happy.gif
 
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post Nov 17 2005, 11:32 AM
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you probably just did something. You probably ruined ur rep and dont know about it, ur attitude it probably messed up, u dress slutty, idk. its best to ASK them
 
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post Nov 17 2005, 11:45 AM
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me? mellow.gif


No, not you, haha.

Just to de-spamify this:

If your close girl "friends" are bitchy to you, try to talk things out with them and ask them if there's anything you do that they don't like or anything. If they continue to be bitches and don't listen, drop them! :D You have your guy friends.
 
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post Nov 17 2005, 12:16 PM
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Heh. Girls can be like that. I agree with ApocalypseAelis. If these people treat you like crap, they aren't your friends. Ask them why they "hate" you so much. Hopefully, it'll be all in your head. _smile.gif
 
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post Nov 17 2005, 02:16 PM
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QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Nov 16 2005, 7:18 PM)
^I'm a proffesional stone pegger... i get paied to do that stuff
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HAHAHA, I'm the one who usually pays you!!!
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post Nov 17 2005, 03:59 PM
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QUOTE(Retrogressive @ Nov 17 2005, 2:16 PM)
HAHAHA, I'm the one who usually pays you!!!
ROFL
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wink.gif yup

anyways back on topic... It's alright if those bitches hate you. You can't control their feelings, all you can do is try to handle it on your own.
 

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