Advisor of the opposite sex, ill clarify in the post... Options

[Oranite]

Hey guys, have anyone of you ever had a really good friend that was not your bf/gf that helped you out with relationship problems and gave you advice and hints and vise-versa that is of the opposite sex? Like for me I have a really good friend named sarah. She helped me out alot with my problems and I think I helped her out as well. Shes this really good friend a cross between a gf/sister(i know really weird )whos there to help and love you but only to certain extents... you know what I mean? Do anyone else of you have someone like that in your life.

P.S. If there actually is a post exactly like this then feel free to close it and give the link plz.

[silver-rain]

Hmm, I actually don't have a friend like that. Eh, I don't really like talking to others about my relationship. Hmm, over the summer, I was one of those friends to my friend; I helped him through his relationship.

[redpeony]

Of course, that perfectly describes my ex boyfriend's best friend... who also happens to be one of the best friends of my current boyfriend. He actually used to like me, but I wasn't really comfortable with that.. so he's pretty much my best guy friend now and he actually tells me things that my boyfriend says about us . It's sparked a fight here and there but I am so glad it's happened because I got to hear the truth. He tells me about his girl situations too and yeah... we basically just look out for each other and give each other honest opinions. Tis pretty awesome.

There are also a few other guys whose opinions I truly value. I love how guys aren't empathetic all the time but rather give you advice as they really mean it and can sometimes snap you back into reality.

[NgocQuyen]

lols why but of course i have friends like that!! =) hehe i have lots of guy friends that are really really close to me..and thats an advantage to me and them because from me they can learn how girls think and from them i get to explore the mind of guys...so not only do i get more moral support from them they're excellent at giving me any guy tips hehe me = LOVE all my guy friends

[steezahh]

i have friends like that. i think everyoen should.

[_sarcastic_]

i don't think i have friends like that, i would like to though.

[_suzie_]

yep... jealousy creeps in here and there on his part . and mine recently so maybe its not such a great thing

[lit0chinagirl]

yeah, i guess i can say that i do. i helped him with his breakup and he helped me with mine. it was weird how he called me that night after he heard about it from my ex because i was mad at him earlier for meddling in my relationship-- i was being too stupid and stubborn to realize that he was only trying to help. it's great because we can say whatever to each other now but i wouldn't date him. he's like a brother to me.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

A lot of my guy friends are like that for me, and i seem to find most of my guy friends come to me with their problems.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

Nope, not of the opposite sex. But I do have one, whos been there for me, whenever I need her. And she gives the best advice.

[topsyturvy]

Yes, and i love him. As a friend.

He's ALWAYS there for me to answer my questions about guys and their seemingly weird thoughts, intentions, and actions.

[angelrevelation]

i have one. he's like my best guy friend. and i've been the 'advisor' for a guy as well. it's not TOO uncommon i think

[LittleLulu]

i think so...but it was never with someone that i'd see on a daily basis. first of all cuz i dont have that many close guy friends. and..i usually end up liking my "best guy friend"...or if not like, we date for a while anyways.

in my experience, its only the men who are interested in me that bother to be my friend. all the other dorks just act as if i dont exist. Unless they need homework help, that is.

[teeners4]

haha yea....i have 3 actually ^^

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

To many people i am that person who helps , gives advice and comfort. But ...!

Believe it or not i have alot of people that i can talk to,but not really for advice just someone who can comfort my decisions and understand me (just to talk to) i think thats why im not depressed cuz i talk about wuts going on in my life haha....these people are mostly ex girlfriends , girls in general and a few guys that i can connect with

[sprezzatura]

Same here. I tried to save his relationship with his gf but I just stopped to a certain extent, or probably because I am jealous of the gf (which is alsmo my friend) because I have never had one before.

[SSJ Kenshin]

I absolutely have friends like that. If I need advice about my girl and our relationship, I can come to them and get their insight.