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[pandamonium]

i just feel like i have no friends. when i need someone to comfort me she is not there. cuase she either out with her boyfriend working or getting drunk. and then my other good friend is only there for the good times and backs away when i am depressed.

i just dont know what to do cause i have two really good friends but they dont even like each other but now when i am depressed they arent there for me. and now at this moment i feel like i have no friends.

i just dont know what to do. i feel like i should restart and just make new friends.
i might just even go to a college in new york just so i could get away and start fresh.

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

I know how you feel, believe me. Do you feel like you have two friends who would be there for you but turns out they dont have "time" or the mental stability to handle your sort of problems ? If not then .. er.. ignore that.


If you really want one of them to understand that you need them, pull one of them aside and tell them seriously you really need to talk. If they are a good friend they will listen. I hope this helps =\

[Chii]

i know what that's like as well...but sometimes, you have to stop relying on other people to solve your problems and look out for yourself...

besides, some people just don't know how to talk to people when they're feeling down...

[c4rL4]

make new friends =]
even if you have other close friends. it doesnt hurt making new ones.
be outgoing. =]]
and if its botherin you so much, talk to them about it.

[Tribal J_Rome]

man, i was in that EXACT situation last year. my two best friends who used to be better friends before i met them both weren't friends anymore. when i was depressed[which i was always, it was an up and down thing] i felt like i had nobody cuz i kinda didn't. one of them was a flake and didn't do much for me and the other was a macho man, a tough guy. i ended up screwing things up so i lost literally all of my best friends including them both and ironically after that happened they became best friends lol. the conclusion was, after 2-3 months of depression i was able to make new friends. nice to know that a group of people was missing a Jerome in their group and then I came along lol. i guess i'm sayin don't throw yourself into seclusion and be all heartbroken about this, go out and make new friends if urs aren't being the friends they should be. it might be hard, but it's worth it from my experience.

[EXPLO5ION]

I know exactly how you feel. Just try talking to them, and make some new friends. Like hiphop said, if they are really your friends, they will listen to you.

[topsyturvy]

Like hiphop said, if they are really your friends, they will listen to you.

... and start over if they don't

[_sarcastic_]

it's time you find better good friends.

[_suzie_]

try and make a few more friends, and dont totally rely on just those two people. in my opinion, that kinda person is a bit of a crap friend if they only give a shit when they feel like it. meet new ppl and join new stuff or something, just have fun..

[sense.n.style]

make new friends... make good friends... better friends... friends who get along......... u get the idea.

[*mipadi*]

People grow up; sometimes their relationships need to grow with them.

[NgocQuyen]

awwh i feel the same way all the timee... it makes me all depressed and junk too..and i got to the extent...where i got tired of it..and i dont need them anymore..if they were my friends they would be there for me....and they would make an inititive to talk to me and stuffs... but yehh......you just got to make new friends

[ParanoidAndroid]

i just feel like i have no friends. when i need someone to comfort me she is not there. cuase she either out with her boyfriend working or getting drunk. and then my other good friend is only there for the good times and backs away when i am depressed.

i just dont know what to do cause i have two really good friends but they dont even like each other but now when i am depressed they arent there for me. and now at this moment i feel like i have no friends.

i just dont know what to do. i feel like i should restart and just make new friends.
i might just even go to a college in new york just so i could get away and start fresh.

I'LL BE YOUR FRIEND..........


but when you really don't have friends to lean on to

you can try to be strong


take your sad thoughts and memories with you until the end.


When I get depressed, I promised myself to remember every single good and bad thing that happened, so i can make those memories my pillar of strength. because memories are what help you get out of depression. When you think of the good and bad times, you know that you'll make it. You know you won't break down. because you have people and thoughts and strengths.