ex boyfriend keeps asking for help Options

[LittleLulu]

my ex and i broke up over a month ago. i was really really hurt.

lately hes ALWAYS been asking me for help reguarding homework. Im not over him yet. I still want to talk to him but i feel so used when i help him.

we dont talk at school or anything, but almost everytime i go online hes asking for homework help.

part of me really wants to talk to him. i do miss him. but the other part of me is so pissed off. and i just want to slap him. its so self-contradicting that i dont know what to do.

its like how i want him back but i know its a bad idea. I care about him way to much but our relationship was an unhealthy one.

what on earth am i suppossed to do?

[Hiphop d[-_-]b]

Tell him he cant keep asking your for homework help ? If it bothers you so much that he only talks to you for homework, subtly bring it up as a joke but make sure he gets the idea. Maybe like jokingly say something about how he only talks to your for homework.

[Tribal J_Rome]

maybe he's doing this as a way to get back into your heart? iono, just an idea.

[shesnothxc]

you need to find out what he wants. if he REALLY wants homework help, he could go to anyone...the fact that hes asking you means something...talk to him and make sure you let him know how hurt you still are.

[c4rL4]

talk to himm. tell him how you feel. maybe he feels the same way as you do.
he might just be using you also. dont let your feelings be all "i need him."
just make him want you more.

sorrie if im not much help. ><

[topsyturvy]

I hate situations like these because he can either be trying to "get back into your heart" like Tribal said, or he could just be using you

It's all 50-50 chance and there's no way of finding out besides asking, but i wouldn't go, "Hey, are you using me or do you want me back?"

For now, i guess you should assume he's using you, because if he really wants you back, he'll find another way to talk to you besides over homework

[LittleLulu]

...i should help him...cuz its part of being a good person, to help others.

i want to be a good person. but in my heart i hate him and love him at the same time.

...................this is so retarted.

[coconutter]

Just talk to him say, look do you like me or something, if you feel uncomfortable say, I don't do homework! Then hang up.

[mouse_3k]

tell him to either use his brain or that u wanna be his friend other then a homework buddy

[_sarcastic_]

if you don't want to keep helping him, tell him.
maybe he's trying to get your attention

[NgocQuyen]

i would tell him if he wanted my help for homework he needed to ask me something off the topic of 2+2 (if you get my drift)...lols tell him he needs to stop just talking to you because he needs help with homework... by the details you give it does seem like he's using you no offense...but yehh...i dunno...if it were me though i would just say eff him if he only knows how to talk to me when he needs soemthing

[*liquidize*]

the guy wants you back.

hes madly in love with you and hes too much of a P**sy to start a convo about other things. give him that bj!

[lit0chinagirl]

my ex did that once but you see, he asked me who my teachers are and we only have one in common ahaha. he asked about some work for that class once and i was surprised. luckily that teacher doesnt give us much homework

anyways, it's good that you want to help him but like they all said, he could be using you or maybe he's just trying to soften things out between you two? he might still want you or maybe he just wants a friend. you can always try helping him a little bit more and see where he's trying to get at. if he just wants homework, he's probably just using you BUT! if he tries to go into other friendlier subjects, he might want you back or a friendship.

good luck

[LittleLulu]

i actually havent talked to him this week. Although im forced to still see him and meet eyes atleast once a day. sadly. i'd really rather just not see him at all.

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

Usher - Burn.

thats all im gonna say.