obsessed friend, she's obsessed w/ me! |
 Nov 11 2005, 06:47 PM
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Okay well theres this girl, lets just call her Nikki. Well Nikki and I met last year and at first she seemed nice you know just someone to talk to not a friend. But this year she is seriously obsessed w/ me. She calls me everyday pretending she forgot her homework although I'm only in 1 of her classes and ends up inviting herself over. Plus she always copies me. Like for example I started wearing my charm braclet a few days ago and guess what-BAM! tomarrow she wears her charm braclet. And yesterday I wore my levis guess what she wore today?-Levis. She even copies off my paper sometimes. And it's really hard to avoid her because 1.)She has the same Homeroom. 2.)Her locker is right by mine. 3.)She has one class with me and always follows me. Now she thinks that we're best friends-and I do't even want to be her friend anymore. She is so annoying like I'll be studying in homeroom and she'll hover over me and say what are you doing then if I have my pencil pouch out she'll take it open it find a pencil take it then say can I have this and before I can answer she says thanks. And I'm like Nikki give it back and shes like Gosh Steffie I was just looking. I could just say I don't want ot be friends with her anymore but she's really sensitive and it'd be hard w/ her in homeroom and my locker everyday with her moping around. Plus I had this dream that I said I didn't want to be friends w/ her anymore and then she got ran over by a car. So what should I do???? She drives me NUTS!!! NUTS, NUTS, NUTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! So please help me, please, please, please help me and I will do my best to repay you because you don'y know how crazy she makes me. Thankyou in advance!
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Nov 11 2005, 07:00 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
TALK TALK TALK TALK!
Tell her to leave you alone! How else is she supposed to know that she is annoying the hell out of you? |
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Nov 11 2005, 08:17 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols wow
 if i was in your position i would seriously not be so patient...  lols i would definately tell her straight up because she seems like the type of person that wouldnt understand not unless you tell her face to face  hehe..i mean its not really your fault she's getting on your nerves right? 
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Nov 11 2005, 08:22 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Try subtly rtying to show her your not her best friend. Ignore her calls, but still answer a few times then simply fade it off to not answering at all.
Or you can just go the easy way out and tell her to leave you alone forever and ever. |
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Nov 11 2005, 10:04 PM
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 unrequited love Group: Member Posts: 1,007 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,788 |
well your going to be having to tell her either way.
if you were really annoyed by her then you would end it. either way somethings going to happen. you end or she'll be stalking you for the rest of your life |
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Nov 11 2005, 10:42 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(skp86 @ Nov 12 2005, 6:47 AM) I could just say I don't want ot be friends with her anymore but she's really sensitive and it'd be hard w/ her in homeroom and my locker everyday with her moping around. Plus I had this dream that I said I didn't want to be friends w/ her anymore and then she got ran over by a car.  HAHAHAAH. Don't you just wish so  Well, if she's sensitive, i guess that's just too bad for her. She chose to be obsessed with you, and you don't like it. So let her know. A while ago one of my friends would copy EVERYTHING i do and even copy my test papers sometimes so i decided to be mad at her. Then she backed off
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Nov 11 2005, 11:10 PM
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 My name is really Matt... if you care. Group: Member Posts: 1,442 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 258,234 |
i dont think i could tell her straight, b/c id feel bad after... she looks up to u! be flattered... it means ur cool enough to copy!!!! no 1 wants to be like me
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Nov 11 2005, 11:20 PM
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naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ Aww that's not true
 But understand that this friend of this girl is mooching off her grades as well. Would you like having a clone that has everything you have and does everything you do (but is probably uglier than you )?
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Nov 12 2005, 05:46 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
just tell her, or subtly drop hints.
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Nov 12 2005, 08:33 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
I know how you feel.
But I was 14 and the kid was like 9. I rode my bicycle around my neighborhood, and he follows me everywhere. This kid thinks I'm racing him, which I'm not, but actually I'm trying to STAY AWAY FROM HIM. I told him what I felt, and he ignored it and went. I don't care, I'm lonely, I want to play with you. It got me so annoyed. He's looking out his window 24/7 waiting for me to come outside. If you do tell your friend, I hope she doesn't act childish about it. |
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Nov 12 2005, 10:45 AM
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 Anime Freak Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,064 |
talk to her about it.. if she doesn't get it tell her straight foward
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Nov 12 2005, 09:01 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,793 |
I know what your going through. I been there before, and I still am now. You have to be honest to her, stop pertending you like her, its not worth it in the long run. Either talk to her, or just avoid her completly. Go to your locker at different times if you can, sit somewhere else in homeroom. Although it may hurt her feelings, she will get over it, and just think of her not driving you crazy all the time. Lieing and pertending is doing anything.
I went through this, and just told this girl I never liked her, she got over it, and was upset for the first week, but she had to know, pertending is hard, and totally not worth it. You should tell her before its too late.
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Nov 13 2005, 09:54 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,055 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,796 |
QUOTE(ChEeR A HOliC Xo @ Nov 12 2005, 10:01 PM) I know what your going through. I been there before, and I still am now. You have to be honest to her, stop pertending you like her, its not worth it in the long run. Either talk to her, or just avoid her completly. Go to your locker at different times if you can, sit somewhere else in homeroom. Although it may hurt her feelings, she will get over it, and just think of her not driving you crazy all the time. Lieing and pertending is doing anything. I went through this, and just told this girl I never liked her, she got over it, and was upset for the first week, but she had to know, pertending is hard, and totally not worth it. You should tell her before its too late. We have assigned seats and assigned locker times:\ |
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Nov 13 2005, 10:24 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,746 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,125 |
QUOTE(lilxl0ser @ Nov 11 2005, 8:17 PM) lols wow if i was in your position i would seriously not be so patient... lols i would definately tell her straight up because she seems like the type of person that wouldnt understand not unless you tell her face to face hehe..i mean its not really your fault she's getting on your nerves right? I wouldn't be patient. For example, there was this girl Jessica who followed people around. She started following my girlfriend and I around. I got a bit fed up with her always being there, because whenever I was alone with my girlfriend her head would pop out of nowhere and say "HIII!!!" So I um. I told her to f**k off, and that I didn't want her anywhere near me. You can't do that however, because you're probably not evil like me. But you should break it to her slowly. Like, over time. One day say "Stop doing that, it bothers me!" about something little. And gradually increase the amount of times you say that per day. Soon later, she'll realize she's annoying. |
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Nov 13 2005, 05:06 PM
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 "Silly me, I thought this was a free country" Group: Human Posts: 1,666 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,913 |
Just tell her to give you space... if she's really your friend she'll understand and she'll give you space... if she doesn't... then... she needs to get some help.
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Nov 13 2005, 06:44 PM
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QUOTE(simx @ Nov 13 2005, 6:06 PM) Just tell her to give you space... if she's really your friend she'll understand and she'll give you space... if she doesn't... then... she needs to get some help. ohh that perfect! I'll just say Nikki(i'm still not gonna say her real name)gimme some space. QUOTE You can't do that however, because you're probably not evil like me. But you should break it to her slowly. Like, over time. One day say "Stop doing that, it bothers me!" about something little. And gradually increase the amount of times you say that per day. Soon later, she'll realize she's annoying. Tht might work too I'll just be like Nikki stop asking me that or Nikki stop following or Nikki stop hovering over me its annoying! Yesssss!!!! I can't wait to try them both tomarrow |
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Nov 13 2005, 11:39 PM
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 appealing only because they are just that unappealing Group: Member Posts: 211 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,673 |
you should start copying HER....show her how it feels to be bugged...everything she does to you...do it to her...follow HER around...get my drift...mhm...okay...well, good luck with that....
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Nov 14 2005, 12:12 PM
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eh...just have fun with her... she obviously looks up to you. start seeing the good side of her. its seems like you're focusing on the clingy side of her
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Nov 14 2005, 03:57 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,055 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,796 |
QUOTE(_suzie_ @ Nov 14 2005, 1:12 PM) eh...just have fun with her... she obviously looks up to you. start seeing the good side of her. its seems like you're focusing on the clingy side of her I don't think she has a good side from my point of view but thankyou for trying to help. |
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Nov 14 2005, 05:58 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 148 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 278,575 |
just tell her that ur happy she looks up to you and sees you as a faashion icon but that she has to try to find some ways to be unique to. he he it was funny i didnt realize till halfway through the story u were a girl and i thought that she had a cruch on you. well its still a possibility
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Nov 14 2005, 08:02 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,055 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,796 |
QUOTE(miss-_-guitar @ Nov 14 2005, 6:58 PM) just tell her that ur happy she looks up to you and sees you as a faashion icon but that she has to try to find some ways to be unique to. he he it was funny i didnt realize till halfway through the story u were a girl and i thought that she had a cruch on you. well its still a possibility lol look at my sig of course I'm a girl!!!! |
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Nov 14 2005, 09:50 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
in class remind her to copy down her hw
and just ditch her like that *snap* run to another friend..go to class...say you really busy..say you got issues...just try to ignore her...be like oh i can't hang out with you today...oh well gotta go.. |
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Nov 16 2005, 03:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,055 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 174,796 |
^That would work well I just would ditch her and say I was busy! Thx:smile:
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Nov 16 2005, 04:01 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
hmm maybe get a friend to tell her
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Nov 16 2005, 05:22 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 153,708 |
''I don't think she has a good side from my point of view but thankyou for trying to help.''
thats really nasty... just dont hang out with her then. no one's forcing you |
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