do guys really act that way? |
 Nov 11 2005, 01:27 PM
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 Toria  Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,588  |
I alwayz get mad at my boyfriend for the stupidest things...like If he didnt call me back at a certain time or If I can talk to him for at least 10-15 min. a day I get so mad and take it out on him...He loves me to death and says that nothing I do can irritate him or make him mad at me...
question I wanna know Do guys really do that? and feel that much in love to let his g/f flip out a little? I LOVE him to death and I'd do anything for him.. I get scared of loosing him cause of my attitude:( whats ur opinion?? |
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Nov 11 2005, 01:34 PM
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 Jus Sweet Chocolate Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959 |
well i think u need to calm down a little. u kno you love him to death, and u dont wanna lose him, but u dont wanna be too attached to him, like waiting for him to call u every 5 min. some guys will get annoyed. so just try not to get mad over the little things.
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Nov 11 2005, 01:38 PM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
the two of you may love each other to death and all, but you shouldnt insist that he call you at a certain time everyday. im pretty sure not everybody's schedule is that same everyday. like what jEllyBeaNs said, you should calm down a bit. shouldnt this be in relationships?
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Nov 11 2005, 01:38 PM
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 ^ Mrs. Jonas Group: Member Posts: 592 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 263,313 |
this needs to be moved to relationships, I think.
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Nov 11 2005, 01:46 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Relationships?
Eh, I used to be like you, and but my boyfriend and I talked it out and now I don't care as much. Maybe he says he's not mad at you, but inside, he is. Sometimes I feel that way with my boyfriend. I think getting mad at him over those things are stupid, and if you're scared to lose him because of your attitude, then change your attitude. |
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Nov 11 2005, 02:27 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
QUOTE(silver rain @ Nov 11 2005, 11:46 AM) Relationships? Eh, I used to be like you, and but my boyfriend and I talked it out and now I don't care as much. Maybe he says he's not mad at you, but inside, he is. Sometimes I feel that way with my boyfriend. I think getting mad at him over those things are stupid, and if you're scared to lose him because of your attitude, then change your attitude.  Yes. You shouldnt get mad at him over little things like that. At least he called you, at least you talked to him a little bit that day, thats what you should focus on. |
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Nov 11 2005, 03:06 PM
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 ladybugs are hot <3 Group: Member Posts: 1,169 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,802 |
try not to be too clingy and you won't lose him. sometimes guys are like busy and can't call, no need to worry about how he is and why he's not calling. he'll call when he needs to
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Nov 11 2005, 03:11 PM
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Toria Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,588 |
thanx everyone:) the ideas are helpful, Im jus gunna try not to be so paradoid but why he hasnt called me
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Nov 11 2005, 03:16 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,490 |
I think that u should just tell him why u get so angry and then he'll understand and you guys will be together 4 ever. My sis does the exact same things and her bf is still wit her Good luck
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Nov 11 2005, 03:38 PM
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moved to relationships.
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Nov 11 2005, 05:17 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
hmm if i were you i would try to find another way to take my stress or anger out..like a stress ball..those things really work you know?
lols i mean its probably possible that he cares so much about you that he doesn't really care about your attitude..ya never know 
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Nov 11 2005, 05:43 PM
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 duckieee<3 Group: Member Posts: 527 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 24,962 |
haha...that's funny...i do the same!! +my bf replies the same too.
there are some guys that, if they love you alot, nothing you do can annoy them. it shows how much they love you... on the other hand... he might just be saying that just so you calm down + don't go crazy... just a maybe :P |
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Nov 11 2005, 11:13 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Wow.. it was sweet of your bf to let it go when you took it all out on him. Honestly, if any guy was that clingy and took it out on me like that, i'd dump him right there.
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Nov 11 2005, 11:21 PM
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 My name is really Matt... if you care. Group: Member Posts: 1,442 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 258,234 |
b1tch, i woulda dumped ur @ss! lol, jk... i have a friend who's gf's like that... lol, he says its out of love
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Nov 12 2005, 02:39 AM
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 Heykidd. <3 Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,701 |
i was like you. but i guess. to guys its normal really.
but in the long run, if youre still like that, you might lose him. like how i l0st someone. soo yeahs.. =\\ just be careful. |
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Nov 12 2005, 05:39 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
you sound kind of clingy. chill out, don't get mad over small things like that.
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Nov 12 2005, 10:55 AM
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 Anime Freak Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,064 |
chill!! dunget mad over little things.. if yu dun stop tat den sonner or later.. he won't take it anymore and he'll break up with yu.. or maybe not.. i dunno it might happen
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Nov 12 2005, 12:27 PM
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Toria Group: Member Posts: 177 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,588 |
I am not that clingy as all u might think. I leave him alone when needed and plus I jus realized that its gunna take more than my bitching for him to break up with me cause I really do see how much he loves me and we've been together for over a year.....My WHOLE family just acts as tho me and him are already married, my dad calls him his son-in-law:) how kool iz that?
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Nov 12 2005, 12:39 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i'm sorry but a year isn't all that long, if you do get married, a year will seem like 5 minutes. sure people can deal with someone poking at them for maybe 2 years but after awhile, it's going to catch up to him and he's going to be like "why do i put up with this sh*t?"
love is blind but it won't be blind forever, eventually someone will point it out to him how you get annoyed at him for dumb things. just because you talk to him for like 10-15 minutes doesn't mean much, you should both talk to each other because you want to, not because you feel like you obligated to, to keep your relationship good/strong. relationships are about compromise, you need to let go of stupid little things like missed phone calls. |
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Nov 12 2005, 12:44 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,746 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,125 |
QUOTE(Chii @ Nov 12 2005, 12:39 PM) i'm sorry but a year isn't all that long, if you do get married, a year will seem like 5 minutes. sure people can deal with someone poking at them for maybe 2 years but after awhile, it's going to catch up to him and he's going to be like "why do i put up with this sh*t?" love is blind but it won't be blind forever, eventually someone will point it out to him how you get annoyed at him for dumb things. just because you talk to him for like 10-15 minutes doesn't mean much, you should both talk to each other because you want to, not because you feel like you obligated to, to keep your relationship good/strong. relationships are about compromise, you need to let go of stupid little things like missed phone calls. Completely agreed. Just because he isn't saying anything now doesn't mean he won't say anything later. And you thinking that you can bitch at him because he won't leave you for that shows that you have somewhat of a superiority complex. |
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Nov 12 2005, 12:50 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Eeh.. I used to get mad at my ex over the littlest things.. Then we broke up and he got upset and he said I was oversensitive. So you should stop doing that...
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