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 May 2 2004, 10:29 PM
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 Serious As A Heart Attack.  Group: Member Posts: 2,292 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 11,344  |
How long did it take you and your honey to say "i love you" to each other?? It was kinda weird for my boyyfriend and i..we said it after 3 months maybe..but we made it clear to each other that we loved each other..but we werent shure that we were IN LOVE with each other..i personally think they are two very different things..
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| *AngelicEyz00* |
May 2 2004, 10:40 PM
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It took me and my ex about 3-4 weeks?? heh, we didn't mean it I guess. i know I didn't really mean it till about 2 months or so into the relationship
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| *jimmyjackiechan* |
May 3 2004, 09:39 AM
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QUOTE(TiNaBaBY074 @ May 2 2004, 10:29 PM) but we werent shure that we were IN LOVE with each other..i personally think they are two very different things.. Yea, two different things that's why i spell "luv" and "LOVE" True love is different from love.. Real loveis different from love i dunno, tons of people havemore defined definitions these days~ |
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May 3 2004, 11:25 AM
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 - kuupi! ♥- Group: Member Posts: 937 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,148 |
I try not to throw the word 'love' around early on in a relationship. I tend to use 'wuv' instead, because 'love' is such a strong word, and it carries alot of meaning and feelings along with it.
Besides, 'wuv' just sounds more cute to me. 
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May 3 2004, 11:53 AM
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 My milkshakes bring the bois to the yard -swt&sour Group: Member Posts: 42 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,133 |
That is the kinda thing that takes a while. Dont rush that
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May 3 2004, 03:00 PM
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 wanderlust personified. Group: Official Designer Posts: 7,515 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 797 |
Well, me and my boyfriend started off as really close friends, so we already "loved" each other when we got together.
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May 3 2004, 04:35 PM
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 WUT THA DUCK? Group: Member Posts: 3,950 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 14,138 |
we started saying it about a month into it... but we didnt really meant it... it juss meant that we cared for each other.. to this day its the smae as it always been... i wish we could say *i care you* but that wouldnt make since huh?
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May 3 2004, 04:39 PM
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 kristin Group: Member Posts: 5,705 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,985 |
This guys said it to me the FIRST DAY. Yes, the "L" word....I got kinda....i dunno...it was weird.....and I broke up with him....kinda dumb reasonI guess =/
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May 3 2004, 08:12 PM
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*marie* Group: Member Posts: 180 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,051 |
i loved my boyfriend. i just wasn't in love with him. so i never said it. =/
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May 3 2004, 08:28 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,102 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,162 |
I've said "I love you" to only one person before. We've known each other for awhile, but we remain just friends, for fear of souring a good relationship.
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| *Kathleen* |
May 3 2004, 08:31 PM
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Bleh...it took my ex a month, but I know he didn't mean it, seeing as he cheated on me.
 I thought he meant it, too...wow...I'm pathetic.
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May 3 2004, 08:55 PM
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 I have 6 blue blocks :3 Group: Member Posts: 2,248 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 14,959 |
heck when i first met my gf, it took me like 3 days to get togeter and 2 weeks to say 3 f-ing words.
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May 3 2004, 09:09 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 77 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,931 |
We said I love you, meaning we love each other as a person, but we weren't IN love.
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May 4 2004, 12:56 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
He said it on the second day. We knew each other for quite a while before that so yeah... I didn't meant it at first but after a month, I really did mean it. We were in love.
Now, we still love each other but we're not together anymore. Can you be in love but not be a couple? Iono... |
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May 4 2004, 05:51 PM
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 doot doot doot Group: Member Posts: 1,803 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 1,954 |
QUOTE Now, we still love each other but we're not together anymore. Can you be in love but not be a couple? Iono... yeah u can, love each other for who they are as a friend, brother, sister and so on loltook my bf about 2months lol and i never said i love you to him in person in a way that i really meant it, i do love him but its so hard to say it 
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May 4 2004, 05:59 PM
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 he`z gOt my heart*<3`o2.18.o1` Group: Member Posts: 1,662 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,338 |
hmmm..it took about a year or so .. we were best friends before we started going out .. <3 .. but when we finally said it to each other and knew that we meant it it felt so0o0 go0d *smiles =]
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May 4 2004, 06:03 PM
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grrowl Group: Member Posts: 393 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,727 |
awww alll these replies and stories r so kyoot and swt! well me? i always say i love you or love ya when someone signs off on aim and its a guy and stuff, its like a guy helps me with my hw and im thankful so i say i love you thanx, sorry im getting off the topic, but if i hook up, i say it rite away
 
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May 4 2004, 06:42 PM
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hmmm i think like 2 weeks.. but we talked alotttt before. and i really knew i loved him even before he asked me to go out with him...
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May 5 2004, 02:37 AM
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 mizgeralyn ;D Group: Member Posts: 361 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,888 |
my boyfriend said he loved me the same day he asked me out just before we got off the phone. i thought it was REEEEEALLY weird. i said it back but i didn't mean it til maybe a month into our relationship. i doubt he meant it.. but maybe he did.. in that other way.. u know. that he cares about me and stuff.
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May 5 2004, 09:21 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 3,077 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,904 |
QUOTE(conster @ May 5 2004, 6:51 AM) yeah u can, love each other for who they are as a friend, brother, sister and so on lolNo, not that way. I meant still love each other as... well BF and GF. Bah so complicated for me. |
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May 5 2004, 10:20 AM
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 Retired Posting Whore Group: Member Posts: 699 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,911 |
I knew i was in love with her after 2 weeks. I haven't told her i loved her yet :-D Its comming close to the three month period tho >.<
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May 5 2004, 10:21 AM
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I dont really agree with the whole "I love you" when dating... cuase the next week you can break up with them and it would be stupid to say
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May 7 2004, 05:51 PM
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*blink blink* Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,585 |
Hmm...well... We've been together for almost a year, but I don't get to see him everyday...we keep in touch by phone and IM... sooo...we usually say that online when we say our "goodnight"s....
But the first time we actually said it was on the phone...mm...last month I think. Didn't wanna rush anything.
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May 10 2004, 06:11 PM
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well we started off as reallyyyyyy good friends.. took about a few weeks
but then we decided that we're better as friends..
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May 10 2004, 06:25 PM
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 Crying Behind Blind Eyes Group: Member Posts: 257 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,967 |
My boyfriend was in love with me before we started going out...We've known eachother a year and one month, and been together for nearly three months...
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May 11 2004, 12:38 AM
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 Hi! I'm Dani :) Group: Member Posts: 5,637 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,369 |
well it took meeh n mai bf lyke a month and a half but i said it first. wen i did sae it, i realli did mean it, but im not sure if mai bf realli means it though. i hope he does.
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May 11 2004, 01:48 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 356 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 15,503 |
I think it took us like 1 month until we said "I love you" to each other ....
 .... hearing those 3 words from him for the very first time felt soooo good because I knew that he really meant it
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May 11 2004, 02:32 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,153 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 10,193 |
QUOTE(TiNaBaBY074 @ May 2 2004, 8:29 PM) How long did it take you and your honey to say "i love you" to each other?? It was kinda weird for my boyyfriend and i..we said it after 3 months maybe..but we made it clear to each other that we loved each other..but we werent shure that we were IN LOVE with each other..i personally think they are two very different things.. i agree there is a difference between loving someone and being iN LOVE with someone. it tOok, i think, 4 months for my bf and i to finally say "i love you" to each other .. but just like you, we always made it clear that we had those kind of feelings for each other. |
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May 11 2004, 09:59 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 122 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,137 |
I'm sorry, but i don't personally believe teenagers are capeable of being "in love". Teens might like someone an awful lot, but love? No, i don't think so, because usually teenage relationships don't last very long. My definition of love is it's something that is shared between two people forever that is undying, and teens always tell their significant other that "i'll love you forever" but they wind up breaking up in a matter of months. Sorry for being a little pessimistic lol.
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May 13 2004, 05:53 PM
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 Alisha Group: Member Posts: 2,341 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 9,880 |
i have only said i love u to one guy and he never said anything
 o well..
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May 23 2004, 11:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 30 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,447 |
my boyfriend told me he loved me two months after we started dating.. now we tell each other every day ;)
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May 23 2004, 11:51 PM
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well..we were 'together' for ..little less than a yr. before he told mee
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May 24 2004, 12:05 AM
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my baby told me he loved me even before we went out.. <33
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Jun 1 2004, 07:22 PM
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 ::<YuMMIES>:: Group: Member Posts: 136 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 12,479 |
i have only said i love you to one guy my whole life...and really meant it and we never went out thats the wierd part but it was because my best friend liked him and i couldnt do that to her he loved me to and told me after 4 months of liking each other than he would remind me every other day how much he did for like 6 months? then he wen out wid someone like rite now......and thats when i went out wid someone to but im so mad i mean its like i cant say "i love you" to another guy if im not thinkin of him..so i never did say any thing like sweet to my ex because i thought he was cute but i guess i didnt like him and i still had the other one in my mind and he still cares for me and "trys" to make me jealous wid his gf revenge i guess for going out wid my ex but he will always have a place in mah heart and he promised me the same thing =)
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Jun 1 2004, 10:19 PM
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 Prez of Student Council 04/05 Group: Member Posts: 2,888 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 851 |
my first love... ex now... over a year... we said those 3 words after 3 months, after we were sure that we loved each other...
current bf, we said it like... 3 wekes later? we knew we loved each other, we clicked just like THAT. |
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Jun 1 2004, 10:37 PM
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no one ever sed that to me before... except my family members. but for my friends, they all sey it after a few days. i don't ever think hey know the meaning of love. i mean, for example, wtih my friends, it's not called a first kiss for them, it's called a make-out session. c what i'm implying here? my frends r whores, kekeke. anyway, i think maybe ppl should sey it after a few months of being with that person. |
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