this is really weird, i just dont get him |
 Nov 5 2005, 11:44 PM
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well. a long time ago I started liking this guy. we aren't exactly friends or anything but we talk sometimes and he used to be prety nice to me (tho he sometimes teases me but in a nice way). we talk more on msn than we do at school, and one time on msn he asked me who i liked. so i decided that i would tell him.
i think he was shocked, because right after it he just signed off withou8t saying anything. so next time i asked him if he likes anyone, he said he likes no one. so i was like hey, i'll get over him. after that conversation i ignored him most times, and he started acting really mean..and was throwing rubbers, playing with my hair, doing whatever possible to get my attention. so i got really pissed off, even though it was hard to get over him i tried really hard to ignore him and everything. and yesterday, my friend asked him has he ever liked me, he said yes. and shes my bestfriend so i can trust her. why did he lie to me?? i mean if he liked me why cant he just tell me??? i have the worst timing ever 
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Nov 5 2005, 11:50 PM
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Carah ♥ Group: Member Posts: 99 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,212 |
Maybe he liked you a while ago, and decided he'd get over it...then you told him.....?
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Nov 6 2005, 12:29 AM
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...how do u know that he doesn't like u n e more?
for all you know he could still like you right now. he was probably shy to tell u that he liked u? |
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Nov 6 2005, 07:31 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
yeah he's probably too shy to tell you, why not ask him again, see what he says. if he says no again, than i guess he's not the one.
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Nov 6 2005, 11:13 AM
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 Umm its that thing you should call me...... Group: Member Posts: 111 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 112,898 |
It was like me. I liked one of my friends and told him thn he didn't say anything till I got over him. Kinda sucked.
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Nov 6 2005, 12:14 PM
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 Queen of Random Information Group: Member Posts: 825 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 157,057 |
That's going on with me right now. He's probably just shy. It sucks, and it gets aggravating.. but at least he considers you his best friend and he likes you. Isn't that something good? Try not to stay too angry, because it won't help anything. I know, you're probably thinking, "But I like him too! Wouldn't that make it easier?" But honestly, I don't think it does, because after he tells you he likes you he'll probably be wondering what to do next. Like, should he ask you out, or wait a while, or what? I think sometimes it is easier to get rejected, because at least you can move on. And, another thing I want to point out.. maybe he didn't tell you he liked you because he didn't want to ruin the friendship you two had. I've seen friendships get ruined so many times, and it's sad. Hope that shed some light on the situation. =)
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Nov 6 2005, 12:59 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Maybe he was shy and overwhelmed you liked him too ? Why dont you talk to him. Even if its on MSN or at school just ask him what happened. Thats what i did with on of my exes before we went out.
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Nov 6 2005, 08:33 PM
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He was probably too shy to tell you that he liked you, and now that you started to avoid him he wants your attention.
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Nov 9 2005, 08:24 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,774 |
THanks for the replies.
I just wish he was more of a guy though, you know? He's a guy he's supposed to ask me out not for me to figure it all out and hurt at the end. This sucks :( I know it sounds shallow but seriously what can I do now??? If i still like him and I'm not sure if he does? |
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Nov 9 2005, 09:15 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(mistaken_identity @ Nov 6 2005, 11:44 AM) i think he was shocked, because right after it he just signed off withou8t saying anything. so next time i asked him if he likes anyone, he said he likes no one. so i was like hey, i'll get over him. after that conversation i ignored him most times, and he started acting really mean..and was throwing rubbers, playing with my hair, doing whatever possible to get my attention. so i got really pissed off, even though it was hard to get over him i tried really hard to ignore him and everything.  1. His internet could have screwed up at the "perfect moment" and signed him off. 2. His acting mean could have just been immature acts to get attention. You know, the fifth grade disgusting-boy thing. 3. Chances are, if he said he liked you, he might still be liking you. Why not take a chance? |
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Nov 12 2005, 08:35 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 107 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,774 |
can you guys think of a way that he'll tell the truth? I don't know if he's lying now...or maybe hes telling the truth but I just don't know how to make him stop lying.
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Nov 12 2005, 10:33 AM
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 Anime Freak Group: Member Posts: 46 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 213,064 |
yu can't really tell if hes lying or not.. boys usually lie.. but if yu noe him really really well.. den i dink yu could tell if hes lying or not.. if ur not sure.. tell him to prove it
 its wut i always do.. yu noe, he might not be ready.. maybe hes still thinking about wut he should do.. boys do tat.. dun rush it or ur going to lose the friendship yu have with him.. its wut happened to me and its not nice.. just wait for a while if not just go for it 
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Nov 12 2005, 01:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 102 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 288,931 |
hm..well probably the best way to get an honest answer is to make sure he sees that you're really taking this seriously. Why don't you sit him down and look him in the eye and tell him what you're honestly feeling. Then if he just squirms and tries to run away, or lies or something, he's probably not worth it. But chances are he'll apologize and tell you what he's going through. My hunch is he still likes you
 He probably just freaked out when you told him. Best of luck!
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Nov 12 2005, 01:38 PM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
shy guys. he probably did like you when you told him, but he was too shy to tell you anything.
talk to him, maybe he still likes you. =) |
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