can u date someone over the internet?, would u? |
 Nov 5 2005, 10:04 PM
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 Jus Sweet Chocolate  Group: Member Posts: 739 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 216,959  |
So if u met someone over the internet, and u met becuz ur friend introduce u 2, to eachother, and the guy or girl lives in your state and u have seen a pic of him/her and u talk to them over the phone, would u date them, if you both had feelings for eachother, but you have never met them in person before?
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Nov 5 2005, 10:09 PM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 4 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,910 |
I would say "no" but then also "yes" because you know you really like this person and maybe you could see them, but if they arent around you a lot then you would probably be tempted to cheat(caused by loneliness or longing)...But if you can visit them, i say go for it.
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| *mipadi* |
Nov 5 2005, 10:09 PM
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Face-to-face interaction is a vital part of human relationships. I personally don't put much stock in "over the Internet" relationships. I think to really know all of a person, you have to see them in person. Besides, not all of human interaction is just talking; participating mutually in activities is a big part of getting to know someone, too. I personally would not bother dating anyone over the Internet.
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Nov 5 2005, 10:34 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
No. No. No.
I agree that interacting in person is important to a relationship. Of course, personality and emotional connections should hold precedence over physical appearance; but, in my opinion, you need to be with someone face-to-face to have a real relationship. |
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Nov 5 2005, 10:36 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Yes.
If you've seen a picture of each other and feel comfortable with phone calls, then most probably you won't be too uncomfortable with meeting up. |
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Nov 5 2005, 10:44 PM
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No way. I only date people I know in person. Who knows those people can be photogenic or worse. That's not even their picture
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Nov 5 2005, 10:46 PM
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naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ LOL yea you're right
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Nov 5 2005, 11:03 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
dating someone you met from the internet is like going out with a complete stranger who tried to hit on you in the mall...except you didn't know what each other looked like at first ....or if they're lying
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Nov 5 2005, 11:15 PM
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 It eats you, starting with your bottom. Group: Member Posts: 1,999 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 160,674 |
It honestly depends. I probally would never do it, but there are people I've talked to, that I might consider it, just because I've talked to them so much, and I don't get that "feeling in my gut". Which I have gotten before.
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Nov 6 2005, 08:02 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
no. not at all.
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