Liking 2 people, is it wrong? Options

[MiLKDUD_DOKiE]

Okay there are 2 guys in my class and they are like best friends. But then i like them both A Lot And i dont know what to do. But is it also wrong to like 2 guys at the same time..and a lot too?

[sweetest-emotion]

hmm not really. i can see how you would like two guys, especially if you are with them a whole lot. the way i see it, to know which one you should try to persue, i'd take a look at how they interact with you. like, who do you feel most confident and most like yourself around? who do you think would make the best boyfriend? BUT! the one thing you have to remember, if you make a move on one of them, and it doesn't work out in the end, it'll prolly be really awkward to have every1 together. that happened to me, and now i never habg with my friends when they're with my ex since its way to weird for both of us. just work it out, but i wouldn't recommend you make a move until you know it won't be a regret in the end.

[Bobblehead425]

are you kiddin me? there are tooo many hot guys around just to like one..lol jaykay. well i mean yyou like them both, its not a bad thing. if one doesnt like you and the other does, well then there you go. you have a better chance of, er, getting somebody

g'luck

[shortiiex]

it's not wrong
it's like saying i like brad pitt but i also like orlando bloom

[*mzkandi*]

Moved to Relationships

[Paradox of Life]

Okay there are 2 guys in my class and they are like best friends. But then i like them both A Lot And i dont know what to do. But is it also wrong to like 2 guys at the same time..and a lot too?

Not at all. Both personalities may be compatible to yours. It's better to have a few crushes, so you can split the attention instead of obsessing over one. And you have a higher chance of having a satisfactory relationship. Sorry if I sound patronizing, but it's true.

[yukichan]

i dont think its wrong, unless ur going out with someone..
if ur not, then i think its perfectly fine..

[*mipadi*]

Can't help your feelings, can you?

[tequila_sky]

I also think its okay to like two guys. Its ok to date both if they both know what u are doing and they agree. That way you probably will find you like one more than the other. Its not okay to go out with both and lie. i.e.you lead them on... Maybe one guy will like u like that and the other not? So maybe the decision is not one you will have to make. Who knows? Good luck.

[topsyturvy]

^ agreed

are you kiddin me? there are tooo many hot guys around just to like one..

^ true, that

it's not wrong
it's like saying i like brad pitt but i also like orlando bloom

^ HAHAHAH

It's not your fault for thinking they're hot or finding yourself attracted to them. As long as you don't go out with one and cheat with the other, it's fine.

[_sarcastic_]

of course it's not wrong.
^ yeah like what ki$$ said, just don't two time the both of them. you'd end up losing both (obviously)

[mzbbc]

no way. it's only wrong if you're in a relationship with 2 people at the same time...
so either choose one or none if you wanna go there.

[Nicolatofu]

Nothing wrong with liking two guys. You have to keep your options open.

[ParanoidAndroid]

It's not wrong to like 2 guys... There are tooo much hot guys in the world


if only every relationship was triangular

[LittleLulu]

nope. not wrong at all. happened to me quite a few times. although i liked one slightly more than the other. but ended up dating one of them...the bad thing is..once u date one of them..its most likely that you wont get to date the other one, cuz guys sorta have an off-limits thing for their friend's ex girlfriends?

that just what i think though.
but theres definately nothing wrong with it. as long as you dont go out with both of them at the same time, its fine.

[verlorenrivets]

It's fine that you like them both, but if they are in fact friends and they both requite your feelings, that would be considered a problem.

[sheddingtears]

keep in mind that you might destroy their friendship, if you're sure that both likes you.