I need help..., Guys are buttheads Options

[myheartisinohio0...]

Okay, I need your guys opinions. I've asked just about everyone I know, but I need somebody's opinion that I don't know. So here goes...

OK, I like this guy named Ryan and I just met him at the beginning of the year. We became friends and started talking on the Internet a lot. He would flirt with me and whatnot and he made me happy. About 2-3 weeks ago my friend told him I liked him. He didn't say anything back and it was awkward for a bit, but we got over it and I still liked him. About a week later from that he ended up admitting he kinda liked me. That made me really happy. That Friday night was our last home football game. I went there and the first half of the game he wouldn't talk to me. That made me really upset so I was kinda in a bad mood the rest of the game. His good friend, David, and I were hanging out and kinda flirting with each other. David and I also have a history... Anyways, after David started flirting with me Ryan came over and started talking and flirting and whatnot. We ended up hanging out the rest of the night & he gave me a hug before he left. That night I heard from David that Ryan said he didn't know if he liked me anymore. I was really confused lol.

Fast forward to last Sunday. I ended up hanging out at this skate park with Ryan and Noggle. Ryan admitted to me that he really liked me the night before but didn't know if he was gonna do anything about it. We ended up cuddling while we there & flirting majorly. The next day at school was perfect...we hung out and he had his arm around me a lot. Then the last few days he hasn't talked to me so I asked him about it. He said I hadn't done anything wrong but that he liked another girl...And this is a girl that lives in another city (about 15-30 minutes away) and he's never met her.

And now I don't know what to do. Everyone says I need to get over him and I'm trying, but it's just hard. I don't know how to because I have to see him every day. Any opinions? Please help. Sorry it was so long..I've been told I talk too much lol.

Oh and just letting you guys know...I'm a pretty shy person and not experienced at all and not good with guys.

[Chii]

there's no use in getting back with his friend, if you do, it's because you're basically on the rebound. Ryan doesn't know what he wants, you shouldn't have to wait around for him to make up his mind.

do yourself a favor and get over him

[o0olaalaa]

don't wait. just get over him, theres a whole buncha guys aroung to talk to and to get to know =)

[_sarcastic_]

he can't seem to make up his mind if he likes you or not, just forget about him, you deserve better than to be waiting for him

[shortiiex]

it's hard to get over someone but..you're eventueelly going to get over him..in days, weeks,months...years
from what you said..he's not that special...you want to be with someone who actually wants to be with you and doesn't have a switch in his heart

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[toria66622]

that kinda happended to me too but you cant let them do that to you. They are keeping you for "sloppy second" dont waitse ur time

[angelrevelation]

i guess you should keep your options open... like, you can still like him, but try seeing other guys, because ryan might not come around.

[topsyturvy]

he's not that special...you want to be with someone who actually wants to be with you and doesn't have a switch in his heart

^ 110% agreed. Well put

Ryan isn't worth your time and confusion, trust me.