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| *xcaitlinx* |
 Oct 28 2005, 04:39 PM
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OK...well i'm a freshmen and there's this boy in my cooking class who's a junior. we talk a lot and he's nice and all...and i found out a few days ago that he likes me. (his friend told me) so his friend keeps asking me whether i like him or not, and when i found out that he smokes i told him that i like him but i just don't like him because of the smoking. sooo his friend tells him and guess what he says? he said that he'll quit smoking for me. yeah, it seems ridiculous since it's damn hard to quit smoking, but i still think it's adorable! another issue that i have is my whole mindset that all older guys (especially juniors and seniors) just go after freshmen because they're "fresh meat" and such. do you think that i should go out with him (boyfriend/girlfriend) or do you think that he's no good? i'd really appreciate it if any of you have gone through a similar situation...
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Oct 28 2005, 07:37 PM
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first of all he's going to try and quit smoking for you, don't know if he means it or not but it doesn't matter what grade you're in, you should go with whatever you feel is right
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Oct 28 2005, 08:05 PM
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That's a sweet thing for him to do; quitting smoking for you I mean. Maybe you should give him a chance, or perhaps wait a bit to see if he will still be interested.
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Oct 28 2005, 11:06 PM
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you should go out with him..but if he starts to get..."werid"
drop him...he'll be another fake |
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Oct 28 2005, 11:12 PM
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I think you should go for it, if he quits then that's good.
If after you guys are going out he seems like he is only getting on you for being a freshman and just brake it up. |
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Oct 28 2005, 11:19 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols awwhs! how cute..he's gonna quit smoking for you? lols pssh i wish a guy would do that for ME! haha..anyways...i mean you shouldnt just stereotype him because he's older...i mean..it's really all up to you, if you really like him then go for it! lols...
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Oct 28 2005, 11:26 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
You should tell him -- Stop smoking and I'll consider going out with you.
I think this belongs in relationships. |
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Nov 3 2005, 04:10 PM
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i think that you should go out with him if u want to. just make sure he likes you. ive been through something like this and the guy turned out to be a total jerk. hope it goes well (;
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Nov 3 2005, 04:30 PM
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 Live Your Own Party Group: Member Posts: 1,261 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,489 |
I understand where you're coming from. Yeah... I hated dating people who smoked until.. well, I started smoking.
 But what I would recomend is going on a couple dates with him before you become "official." You'll hopefully find out if he has good intentions or not. Maybe he just really likes you. All guys have d!cks, but not all of them are one.
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| *mzkandi* |
Nov 4 2005, 01:53 PM
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Moved to Relationships
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Nov 4 2005, 02:15 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
Why do you judge his reasons for liking you? If he was after your "fresh-meat" he wouldn't have tried to get to know you in the first place and just wanted to run to your "south seas". And if he quits smoking for you it means he wants to have a long-term relationship with you.
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| *jooleeah* |
Nov 4 2005, 03:17 PM
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i think you should go for it. =) it's nice of him to quit smoking because he wants to go out with you. just give him a chance, and see if things go well. if he turns out to be another fake, just dump him.
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Nov 4 2005, 03:32 PM
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definitely go for it, but its up to you. go with your gut feeling.
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| *iNyCxShoRT* |
Nov 5 2005, 10:46 PM
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Thats very sweet of him to quit smoking for you. IF you trust him enough I say, GO FOR IT!
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Nov 5 2005, 10:55 PM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Nov 5 2005, 2:15 AM) Why do you judge his reasons for liking you? If he was after your "fresh-meat" he wouldn't have tried to get to know you in the first place and just wanted to run to your "south seas". And if he quits smoking for you it means he wants to have a long-term relationship with you. ^ 100% agree Be careful, though. When he asked her to marry him, my dad told my mom he would quit smoking for her. White lie. |
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Nov 5 2005, 11:06 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(jooleeah @ Nov 4 2005, 3:17 PM) i think you should go for it. =) it's nice of him to quit smoking because he wants to go out with you. just give him a chance, and see if things go well. if he turns out to be another fake, just dump him. Yeah I know right? It's not like you guys are getting married so....don't take it tooooo seriously.... |
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Nov 6 2005, 01:02 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Some juniors and seniors are like that, only going for the fresh meat and things, but most of the time most of them are actually sincere about wanting to get with you and actually like you. Ive gone through that situation all the time because i usually date older guys.
I say you take a chance. If there something he does wrong you can always talk about it and the problem cant be fixed you can always break up. |
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