Give Some Advice for a Guy, i need some help Options

[thepastwillcome]

ok i really like this girl so heres the story..... pleaz give me addvice dont just leave a guy here

ok so the other day i called up my old g/f and i went over to her house which it like 2~3 miles away its worth it but yea anyways i went over there and we went to the park didnt do much though by the time i was about to leave i kissed her nuthing much.......

the next day i went over there again and this time it was a lil better cause we kissed more often BUT the thing is her dad came home for lucnh and he wanted to talk.....

let me explain a lot of guys dont like girls dads its scary.....anyways it wasnt bad then we went to the park again but this time her lil brother tagged along i tryed to distract him long enough so i could be alone with her

it worked a couple of time i kissed her like twice when he was distracted

ok the thing is were not going out yet......i really want but the thing is that it would be a long distance realtion ship and last time it didnt go so well about 2 weeks ..... can i get some help here ?????

[x_perplexity]

oh wow. long distance relationship ehh? i know how that one feels like. long distance relationships are hard. but if you really think you and her have something special between each other then i say go for it.! like the old saying goes..."love can conquer anything"

[conster]

eh.... how does she feel about it? u really like this girl and ur referring to ur old gf? lol i think if u reallly like her its worth the risks

[thepastwillcome]

yea we both really like each other i mean we go to diffrent skools to so thats another thing cause theres a lot of girls at my skoo that i like but not like this one i like this one cause we can do stuff not like otha girl ya kno

[xjjajeengx]

well... if you truly think you can mkae it work this time, go for it.

But, like you said, you like a lot of gurls at ur skool, and if thats going to distract you and cause you to hurt her, then DONT. dont end up hurting her. i hate guys like that.

[soundjade]

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[thepastwillcome]

"umm how old are you ? u sound young lol. if you just started out. dont even bother with a long distance relationship kuz shit ain't gona work out. trust me. theres plenty of other fish out there. i know ur gona try to have a long distance relationship kuz she'll be on ur mind, but u'll find out that its gona be hard.

so saave urself the trouble and just stop it."

no im 15 and i havent just started i dont want to hurt her i just want to be with her i mean i really like this one ive gone out with her 0nce already and that was like for 2 weeks for a long distance realation ship so yea

[DrNick311]

I would first take a look back at the old relationship that you two had and see what didn't work out. Then if you two think that you can overcome that this time, go for it.

[thepastwillcome]

this would be so much easier if she just lived one block closer then she would go to my skool and yea but i dunno shes not home rite now so im just gonna talk to her later.....

one other thing i forgot to mention is that her best fren goes to my skool and i told her that i liked her before then i changed my mind cause she doesnt like me(her fren) and yea i dont want her to get mad ather for going out with me.......more advice plz?

[melface]

but two to three miles isn't that much!!! does she go to a different school or something? or did you mean hours? ahh! well, if you like her and she likes you you should go for it... even if it's 'long distance' (to you anyway) yeah.

[Note]

dude...my girlfriend lives further away! So consider yourself "lucky". But if you go to a different school then your girlfriend then thats just sad! Any way you should go to her house like every week. I mean i only went to my girlfriend's house for like what...5 times in 3 years.

[thepastwillcome]

yea i do mean 2~3miles away and yes she does go to a diffrent skool thats the thing that also suck plus her best fren goes to my skool

[x_perplexity]

my boyfriends house is further than 2 to 3 miles. its like a 45 minute drive to get to his house.

anyhow, i wish you luck with what ever you decide to do.! =]

[thepastwillcome]

o well then that sucks she lives like 6 blocks away but there like city blcoks like 1/4 a mile long its sucks but i cant wait till i get a car it will be so much easier but i need help on one other thing......

her best fren hates me cause i used to like her for like a week then i just stopped so then she goes and tells her that im a stalker or sumthin if i go out with her what do i do cause her best fren goes to my skool and i dont want her to hate her(ny old g/f) HELP ME ...................

[ShinHwaFreaK08]

like everyone`s said. it doesn`t matter how far apart y`all are. if she truly loves u, and u love her, than it won`t matter. u also have to think, why do u really like her? if it`s gonna be something superficial [like looks, body, etc.] then forget it. go find someone that really matters. and also, being apart too long might make her want to find someone else, so just watch out. u can`t really rely on other peope because they`re not u and they don`t know how u feel or anything.

- Christine

[*instantmusic*]

make it work. if you want her that much, you will find a way to make it work. bike ride, friends car ride, bus ride... find a ride. get your own ride? dunno... but make it work

[asdf]

2-3 miles??.. wen i was in high school my bf lived like 15 min drive away.. and now i'm in college and its 5-6 HRS away. you could make it work. just bc she goes to a diff school..shouldn't make it so hard. but like someone said.. if you're going to be distracted.. don't start nething.

[thepastwillcome]

her best fren hates me cause i used to like her for like a week then i just stopped so then she goes and tells her that im a stalker or sumthin if i go out with her what do i do cause her best fren goes to my skool and i dont want her to hate her(ny old g/f) HELP ME

[thepastwillcome]

can someonehelp me here?