Complimenting Women, what do you say? |
 Oct 27 2005, 05:47 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians  Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066  |
Okay you know how when a girl says, "I'm so ugly right?"
obviously, she all wants you guys to disagree. My sister asked me that and I obviously said, "yes you are" now i wonder what boys say when girls do that to you i decided for it not to be a poll since there are a lot of choices. *EDIT* OMG SORRY MODS. I CLIKED ON THE POST TOPIC TWICE AND ENDED UP WITH TWO TOPICS SORRY |
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Oct 27 2005, 06:12 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Designer Posts: 4,591 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 77,305 |
If they're truly ugly I'll say it to them, if they bring it up.
But if I like the girl, that's a different case.. 
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| *jooleeah* |
Oct 27 2005, 06:15 PM
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It's okay.
 Eh, stupid attention-seekers. ><" those types of girls get on my nerves. |
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Oct 27 2005, 06:30 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 2,152 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 57,818 |
hehe, I say that all the time even though I know I'm not. Sometimes you just need an attention-booster or you honestly feel ugly at the moment... Anyways, when I do say that my boyfriend usally says something to the effect of "OMG NO YOURE NOT YOURE BEAUTIFUL!"
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Oct 27 2005, 06:30 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
^i know right?! lol i mean really....
i know what i look like but i don't bring it up when i talk to someone *edit* sorry i was talking to jooleah |
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Nov 8 2005, 05:59 AM
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 There is no cure for the heart of tearless eyes. -James Hall Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 141,536 |
Well you peeps are probably still pretty young. Girls don't do that when they get older, some guys would probably find that less attractive. For me, I don't give just a blank and common compliment when I compliment a girl. I want to say something she hasn't ever heard before, something unique. There was a true compliment that I wanted to give a girl that I was one of my friends, but she had a boyfriend. I wanted to tell her that the first time I saw her, I noticed how awkward her facial features and dimensions were, but that the moment I really took another look, I found myself captivate by the most unique and beautiful face I've ever seen. That I could stare at her face and look into those eyes for hours and never feel more entertained, but that I also noticed that was only the tip of the iceberg, that she has so much beauty on the inside, and so much about her that I wanted to explore. Elaboration and sincerity can make a compliment memorable, but be careful not to use compliments like these too much, don't want them to be undervalued and taken for granted.
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Nov 8 2005, 06:55 AM
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 Nobody Knows... Group: Member Posts: 33 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 113,659 |
^ - Dude, I've been in that exact same siutation as you: I've come across what would have to of been the most beautiful/unique and kind hearted girl that i've seen in my life, and i was working up my confidence to tell her how i felt, until i heard her tell her friend something about her boyfriend...yeah, that shot ma hopes right down...
But what can ya do lol 
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Nov 8 2005, 03:14 PM
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 Asian Jason™ Group: Member Posts: 171 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 284,360 |
i hate it when people do that, they're just looking for attention
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Nov 9 2005, 04:36 AM
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There is no cure for the heart of tearless eyes. -James Hall Group: Member Posts: 67 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 141,536 |
Yep, that's what happened to me. I still think about her, and still trying to get her number, because I have reasonable doubts as to how long the relationship will last. That is, unless they are going to get married and really are well matched, the relationship will end sometime, I want to be there when it does. I built up my confidence, too. But I did get lucky, I was getting interested right around graduation, and I kept pushing to make myself seen by her, walking up and talking to her, and I got 2 hugs, and they were worth it. I suggest making friends with her, if you can, I'm having trouble getting her number, and being there for her, being really nice a lot, but also showing yourself as someone that is looking for someone. Think about it, how often do you really think about so-n-so in a relationship unless they talk about one they have been in, or what they are looking for. That should help you stay out of or get off that "friend only" categoty. Good luck to those guys that rarely get a chance to date, like me. Stay sweet!
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| *Solipsist* |
Nov 10 2005, 03:17 AM
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" Wow, you look really gorgeous today. " Works well.
- Solipsist |
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Nov 10 2005, 12:10 PM
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 Resident Jerk. Is Wade. Respond to PM's! Group: Member Posts: 344 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,510 |
I always just either told them the truth or told them the exact opposite of what they expected to hear.
Tiny Skinny Girl:"Does this make me look fat?" Me:"Shut up fatty." They would always go apeshit with the physical attacks because they didn't ever have the mental prowess to understand what was going on exactly and they let their emotions take over for their reason. Strangely enough, all of the girls that I did that to went out with me at some point after that. If they ask a stupid question, they shouldn't be afraid to get a stupid answer. |
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Nov 10 2005, 07:57 PM
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 Proud to be an Anime Otaku Group: Member Posts: 667 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 165,004 |
All girls do it, it's like guys all wanting to be strong and all that crap for the girl. You know like protect them? Hehe, I always say I'm fat but it's only because people were mean to me, and ya, I just need an energy boost there ^^ MYfriend Colleen always says she's fat but she's like little miss mini ^^
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Nov 10 2005, 09:11 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
i have never done that to a guy. it puts them on the spot sometimes and they dont know what to say, or they fake something like NO WAY YOU ARE SO PRETTY
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Nov 10 2005, 09:18 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(one_and_only @ Nov 10 2005, 9:11 PM) i have NEVER done that to a guy. it puts them on the spot sometimes and they dont know what to say, or they fake something like NO WAY YOU ARE SO PRETTY and its just not real...  yeah i never do that to guys...but i was just wondering what guys mostly say |
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Nov 10 2005, 09:28 PM
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QUOTE Well you peeps are probably still pretty young. Girls don't do that when they get older, some guys would probably find that less attractive. For me, I don't give just a blank and common compliment when I compliment a girl. I want to say something she hasn't ever heard before, something unique. There was a true compliment that I wanted to give a girl that I was one of my friends, but she had a boyfriend. I wanted to tell her that the first time I saw her, I noticed how awkward her facial features and dimensions were, but that the moment I really took another look, I found myself captivate by the most unique and beautiful face I've ever seen. That I could stare at her face and look into those eyes for hours and never feel more entertained, but that I also noticed that was only the tip of the iceberg, that she has so much beauty on the inside, and so much about her that I wanted to explore. Elaboration and sincerity can make a compliment memorable, but be careful not to use compliments like these too much, don't want them to be undervalued and taken for granted. That was very poetic.  You should have told her. I can't imagine any girl not wanting to hear that, boyfriend or no boyfriend. |
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| *Programmer* |
Nov 10 2005, 09:28 PM
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men do not compliment women you can't win....you lose either way best thing to do is stuff somthing iny our mouth and bite your tongue...till the suject changes...
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Nov 10 2005, 09:49 PM
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 omnomnom Group: Member Posts: 1,776 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 180,688 |
My boyfriend said, you're perfect the way you are and you're beautiful..and I loved him so much for that. Guys..compliment your girlfriends.
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Nov 10 2005, 10:34 PM
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Resident Jerk. Is Wade. Respond to PM's! Group: Member Posts: 344 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,510 |
QUOTE(c0cONuTTeR @ Nov 10 2005, 8:49 PM) My boyfriend said, you're perfect the way you are and you're beautiful..and I loved him so much for that. Guys..compliment your girlfriends. It's a trap! Don't do it! She'll just treat you poorly and mask that with sex until she decides to dump you for a totally hawt guy that treats her poorly! |
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Nov 10 2005, 10:34 PM
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 When the sun sleeps. Group: Member Posts: 532 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 289,628 |
I always compliment my gf but haha i dont lyke it when girls put pics on myspace and are lyke "its so ugly!" If it was ugly then u wouldnt put in on mypsace.
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Nov 10 2005, 11:06 PM
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Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(ikn0wurm0m @ Nov 10 2005, 10:34 PM) I always compliment my gf but haha i dont lyke it when girls put pics on myspace and are lyke "its so ugly!" If it was ugly then u wouldnt put in on mypsace. exac-e-tul-ly |
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Nov 14 2005, 12:02 AM
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 WOAH I CAN TYPE STUFF IN HERE?~!~ Group: Member Posts: 110 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 274,826 |
QUOTE I always compliment my gf but haha i dont lyke it when girls put pics on myspace and are lyke "its so ugly!" If it was ugly then u wouldnt put in on mypsace LOLOL wow i know seriously, and then all the girls on myspace leave a comment on every picture saying "you are effing gorgeous" or "ur so pretty" even if they arent 
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Nov 14 2005, 07:18 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(ikn0wurm0m @ Nov 11 2005, 11:34 AM) I always compliment my gf but haha i dont lyke it when girls put pics on myspace and are lyke "its so ugly!" If it was ugly then u wouldnt put in on mypsace. most definately true. they're just attention whores 
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Nov 14 2005, 08:29 PM
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 Unlock the Darkness Group: Member Posts: 305 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 17,967 |
To be completely honest, I just walk away from them, leaving them to stare at me open-mouthed.
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Nov 15 2005, 11:15 PM
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 .::.Enchanted.::. Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 139,202 |
QUOTE(ikn0wurm0m @ Nov 10 2005, 11:34 PM) I always compliment my gf but haha i dont lyke it when girls put pics on myspace and are lyke "its so ugly!" If it was ugly then u wouldnt put in on mypsace. Lol... So true... Whoever does that obviously has low self-esteem. If she doesn't then it shouldn't matter what others think and therefore, she wouldn't call herself ugly and wait for others to compliment her. |
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Jan 9 2006, 08:53 PM
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 Band Geek. Group: Member Posts: 366 Joined: Jan 2006 Member No: 341,494 |
I'm sure there are girls that are truly attention-seekers, but when someone compliments me and I disagree, I tell them. I just think it's because girls are very self-concious of their bodys and what not, and they honestly don't think they look that attractive. Just an idea. I know that's how I am.
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| *rtc_nospeakenglish* |
Jan 9 2006, 08:59 PM
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You can't compliment women.
They always tell you that you're wrong or that you're lying. |
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