ever have days wen u just feel like cryin?, all by ur self |
 Oct 25 2005, 10:42 AM
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 the 21 of this month 1 of my friends was shot in the bk of the head n i cnt stop thinkin bout him!!!
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Oct 25 2005, 01:25 PM
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 hello : ) Group: Official Member Posts: 4,227 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,139 |
Yes, I feel that way every single day. A month ago my friend was shot to death. Then a few days after that my boyfriend broke up with me (my friend was his cousin.) I'm still not over it all and it seems like more bad things keep happening. So yes, I know how you feel and honestly there is nothing you can really do. Sometimes you just have to cry to get it all out and then you'll feel better. Other times you won't. Emotions at times like these are really mixed and confusing.
Hang in there. |
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Oct 25 2005, 04:09 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
i'm sorry to hear that
yeah there are days when i feel like breaking down and crying cause things aren't really working out very well. hope you feel better soon |
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Oct 25 2005, 04:20 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Aww, I'm sorry to hear that. I kinda know what you're going through, I've been through days where I feel like crying so much and everything is going wrong.
I hope you feel better. |
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Oct 25 2005, 04:54 PM
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 Don't wake ghostie. Group: Official Member Posts: 3,546 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 2,405 |
Yeah, today actually. I broke up with my girlfriend of 2 years three days ago.
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Oct 25 2005, 05:51 PM
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i know exactly how you feel. on December 3rd my friend died in a car accident but i wasnt really close with her but she was still my friend. then April 26th two of my friends died in a car accident and one of two was my bestfriend growing up. i miss them very much.. the pain never goes away, you jus get use to it. it will be 6 months tomorrow that Toni and Leo have been gone and there hasnt been a day that has gone by that i didnt think of them. to tell you the truth i dont want to stop thinking about them cause i dont have many pictures and memories are all i really have. anyways, it does get easier.
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Oct 25 2005, 07:02 PM
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Oh man, I'm sorry. ><
But yes, i do have days where I just feel like sitting down to cry. |
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Oct 25 2005, 07:07 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
I'm terribly sorry for that. That is awful, and for you to cry like that would be considered normal.
I've had so many days like that, the whole crying thing. I've been swamped by stuff from school and it's just enough to make you wanna scream and then cry. It'll turn out good..eventually though. 
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Oct 25 2005, 07:25 PM
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 MY LIFE IS MY LIFE !!!! Group: Member Posts: 262 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 242,521 |
 I cry alot but I try and hide it, I don't want any body to think something is wrong with me. My life lately has been full of sadness but you get used to it after awhile. I am sorry about what happened to you but the pain will weaken with time, things will get better. I try and stay busy to keep my mind off of things.
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Oct 25 2005, 08:15 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
i'm srry
but to the question... i've had lots of times when i just shut myself in my room, turn the lights off, get in bed, hug my stuffed animals and cry. for example, the last day i would ever see him.. *sigh* |
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Oct 25 2005, 08:55 PM
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yes, and when that IS..i simply cry everynight. i can honestly say i've done it before. maybe not the best reasons but i have.
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Oct 26 2005, 05:40 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Everyone has their share of bad days. Like when i clicked on a link that gave me a virus. Everything was gone. All my homework, music files, pictures, programs. I almost stabbed myself
 But just like i redownloaded files and rebooted my computer, you'll get better and stronger and everything will be fine again
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Oct 26 2005, 05:47 AM
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I'm sorry your friend died. That's really sad and a terrible thing to go through, but I'm sure you have other friends, and now that guy is at peace. If you need someone to talk to though, I'm here. I've been through some rough crap too. God bless. <33
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Oct 26 2005, 05:50 AM
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 bliss. Group: Member Posts: 735 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,566 |
i am sorry...i have never experienced it before...it is terrible...but i just feel everyday like crying
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Oct 26 2005, 05:38 PM
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I'm sorry to hear about you friend!
I have those days too. I think everyone has those days. Just finding something that makes you happy or being with someone who makes you feel good about yourself is a good way to help that mood. |
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Oct 26 2005, 06:07 PM
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 when you smile, i melt inside Group: Member Posts: 1,325 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,089 |
Aww, i'm really sorry to hear about that. )= And, I have alot of those days too, when I just want to cry.
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Oct 27 2005, 11:20 PM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
this whole week ... feels like i'm losing a friend because it's like he doesn't even give a crap about all of us anymore and he is being so DENSE and aargghadsf, i hate everything right now >.<
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Oct 28 2005, 12:28 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
I know how it feels to just want to stop and cry.
5 of my friends have been murdered by gunshots. 3 by automobiles [ A car & a Train ] 2 from natural [ i guess you could say ] causes ( Asthma attack & Seizure ] 1 was murdered by her boyfriend and 1 suicide Its really sad when you think about it, but i try not to remember . What hurt the most is one of the boys who was shot, was my boyfriend. You just have to let out the tears, dont hold them in. It makes it worse in the long run, ive learned that. If you dont feel like talking to someone, you have to let it out in a safe way. Write it down or sing a song or anything. |
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Oct 28 2005, 03:21 PM
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i know this isnt my post but i was wondering if you guys believe things happen are a reason & when its someones time to go?...when my 2 friends died eveyone kept saying 'it was their time to go' and 'it happened for a reason'. but i dont believe it was. maybe it did happen for a reason but it deff. wasnt their time to go they were 14 and 17 years old! i was jus wondering what you guys thought..
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Oct 28 2005, 04:19 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
lols i feel like crying like all the time...okay well not all the time, most the time. sometimes i tend to dwell in the past. hoping and praying that everything i've done/seen/said was all just a bad bad dream the next day when i awaken. and then, when i awaken the next day, i realize im still in this same world and things will never change. i can't change the past and i've come to realize that some. i mean i dont live long enough to keep dwelling in the past. i only have one life and i want to live it to the fullest. i can't spend my world just crying. i need to be happy. i need to except that everything happens for a reason. i can understand that you miss your friend and im sure he's watching over you riight now. i'm sure he doesn't want you to be so gloomy and sad. i think he wants you to be happy and except that he's in a better place. i hope you feel better
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Oct 28 2005, 05:59 PM
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Aw...
I'm very sorry to hear that, I pray for you friend. May they rest in peace. Sometimes I cry when I think about love. Not from a guy, but I mean parents. To be left alone, to be unloved. 
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Oct 29 2005, 01:42 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 50 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 41,584 |
im sorry..i know how you feel..
and yes, i just feel like crying every day now and i barely do.. im the type to hold everything in until that one time i need to cry and i cry everything out..=\ |
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Oct 29 2005, 03:17 PM
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Oh my I'm so sorry
 but at least they're in a better place now. R.I.P <3 And Bella I'm so sorry I didn't know you suffered so much lose
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