i like him but..., im a wee bit confused.. |
 Oct 21 2005, 04:02 PM
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c[:  Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876  |
okay, so heres the deal
i like my friend mink. he's really cute and really really...different. and i love that about him. we've been "etra friendly" to each other for awhile you know... but i never really thought anything about that. i always thought he really was being "extra friendly". and then my friend was talking to him about girls that liked him and my name "accidently" came up, but he said he already knew about me. so he's been "extra friendly" to me knowing that i liked him. is that...because he likes me? or because he's messing with me knowing that i can't have him. im sure its not option #2 because i dont think he's like that. but then, he didn't know that i knew he knew. well, yesterday after the carnival he came up behind me and wrapped his arms around me and we was just messing around or whatever you know. and then when we was leaving he gave me a hug. and then after school my stupid retarded friend(different from the first friend) told him that he was the one that told him i liked him in the first place. so now he knows i knew he knew! today, he didn't even TALK TO ME AT ALL! we always talk, if we dont talk he atleast says hi to me...he said nothing to me. so what does that mean? i'm so lost..i want to ask him if he likes me like that but im extremely scared of getting turned down. if i hate anything its that. i mean..its not that im embarrassed about it..its just i dont like it when things get weird once you do that to someone...you know what i mean? alright...anything will help me out heree...i just really want someone to help me out you know? alrightt.... its your go...heres your chance to turn this :  in this:  
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Oct 21 2005, 06:49 PM
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 +::mango-lixious =D::+ Group: Member Posts: 22 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 270,723 |
so......you like him. hes know that. hes freaked out or something?
well.. if you want my opinion..you should ask him STRAIGHT out. ask him why wont he talk to you. did you say hi or something to you? why did he hug you? ahh im so confused ^^ ". but yeah ask him straight out...i am so confused... LOL edit::/2mins later you know. i just re read it. dont be afraid to be turned down. you're gonna have to experience that sooner or later. its not a life or death situtation ^^. you know. because of the ignorance and stuff, i dont think you should ask him if he likes you yet. maybe wait for a day or two..talk to him abit..let you guys recover then ask him. well good luck.. gawsh i so totally suck at this >< |
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| *Solipsist* |
Oct 21 2005, 07:04 PM
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Hugs don't mean squat. Go for kisses.
- Solipsist |
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Oct 21 2005, 07:36 PM
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 what da pho?! Group: Member Posts: 39 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 272,716 |
*sigh* boys. well i think that if he really liked you, then he wouldnt care that you know that he knows that you like him. so.. i know this might be kinda hard, but maybe you should move on..
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Oct 22 2005, 12:23 AM
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 ilikeyouSofreakingmuch. Group: Member Posts: 2,014 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 643 |
Maybe now he feels shy or something, I don't know, and doesn't know how to approach you now that he realizes that you like him? You should just ask him even if it may get all weird, or if you don't want to, ask a friend to ask him.
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Oct 22 2005, 01:38 AM
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Tiffany <3 Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,685 |
Agreed
I hug people i can't stand If he kissed you on the other hand But-- He didn't Sooo, bleh Talk to him, find out Playing games are stupid |
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Oct 22 2005, 06:58 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE(ichiban @ Oct 22 2005, 12:23 PM) Maybe now he feels shy or something, I don't know, and doesn't know how to approach you now that he realizes that you like him? ^ agreed Try ask him at the right time. Like the next time the two of you are chatting or laughing about something. (Reduce chances of extreme awkwardness  )
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Oct 22 2005, 09:07 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,793 |
I can imagine what your going through. But hes hugging you, and showing you that he likes you to. Not every guy goes around huging every girl he sees so maybe he likes you too. Give him time to talk to you, dont go up to him. Let him come to you. When hes ready, he will. Plus like you said, you had a feeling he allready knew you liked him. So I think hes just thinking of things or didnt have the time to go up and start a convo. with u that day.
But i think he likes you. Good luck and turn that frown upside down.
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Oct 22 2005, 08:29 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
QUOTE(ChEeR A HOliC Xo @ Oct 22 2005, 9:07 AM) I can imagine what your going through. But hes hugging you, and showing you that he likes you to. Not every guy goes around huging every girl he sees so maybe he likes you too. Give him time to talk to you, dont go up to him. Let him come to you. When hes ready, he will. Plus like you said, you had a feeling he allready knew you liked him. So I think hes just thinking of things or didnt have the time to go up and start a convo. with u that day. But i think he likes you. Good luck and turn that frown upside down. awwwheeee!!! you made my day a WHOLE lot better...heehee! but still...i'm the type of girl that doesn't know WHAT to say to someone when i like them...or when they say they like me or whatever...what am i supposed to say to him when/if he comes up to me...and if i get enough courage to talk to him..how am i supposed to ask him... 
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