ugh!, *twitch* Options

[BrokenDream]

what is the best way to ignore flirting across the room? well, there is this guy I like and this girl is flirting with him. and.. you know how much that freaking hurts? anyway, it seems like he is a player (likes to flirt with all girls including me) but i really have feelings for this guy.

today we watched a movie based on a book.
yes, they sit almost close to each other.
they both had their feet on the desk laying back and all that.
and the girl puts her feet and ankles on his ankles.. and he didn't mind i guess.

my heart just stopped for a second. this girl use to be MY friend, and she's flirting with him. so, how do you ignore it??? grrrr i want to slap her. no, i am not jealous she's my ex friend.

[Gigi]

The following piece of information probably won't help you so much in a positive way. But it's my honest reaction, so...

Usually I'd imagine ripping her head off.

Or stab a voodoo doll with pins.

[sadolakced acid]

are you in high school?

if so, then it's pretty much not worth it.

just lust after him in secret.

and go about your life, go to a good college, meet cooler more mature guys there.

[BrokenDream]

no. i know. at my age boys just come and go when in a boyfriend and girlfriend relationship. your right. but my EX friend is flirting with him so that hurts.

yes, i feel like stabbing a voodoo doll.

[silver-rain]

Hah, I know how you feel. 2 years ago, the guy I liked sat in front of me in chem, but would always flirt with the girl that sat next to him, and around him, so that was pretty hard to ignore. He did seem like a 'player,' but in the end, he liked me hah.
Well, what I would do would just concentrate on the class and try not to look their way, no matter how hard it is.

[annalucky]

ehhh..my boyfriend can be like that sometimes. Like to everyone else the girl is clearly flirting with him, but he doesn't really notice it. He notices it sometimes, but he says he's just being nice. I don't mind really..but if he was still a crush, I'd fume inside.

[topsyturvy]

^ ditto

Ignore them. Make yourself look for other hot guys

[Chii]

please stop choosing stupid boys over your friends. he probably is a player and he probably doesn't care that he ruined your friendship with that girl. come on, is this what it's going to be like?

when your friend "flirts" or whatever with your crush she automatically becomes a b*tch and the frienship is erased?

just move on, crushes, jerky boyfriends, and players come and go but you have to hold on to your girls.

[Kneuklid Romance]

Just ignore his ass.

If you know he's a player and flirts with other girls...do you really think that he is ready to be chained down in the relationship world?

Let's say you DO get together some how...I can already tell you the trust in this relationship is as bad as our Governor and President's economic plan. It's not going anywhere.

I've seen this happen in nothing but disasters...

...my friends seem to dig the worst type of males then they come to me for comfort because he cheated on me with his ex. He cheated on me with his friend.

Can't say I didn't warn them right?

It's only common sense I suppose ^______^.

Don't do it. You're young, you're curious...you should be curious about someone you KNOW won't do you in as another "hook up" or another "statistic."

You can do better ^_^.

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)-------

[_sarcastic_]

he's obviuosly a player, so why get upset over him.
he's not worth it. move on

[CrazayChristian]

It's amazing, you can dog people who physically hurt themselves ( Cutting and stuff ), but what about this, where you mentally cause crap and you emotionally get worked up over nothing.



Look, the guy is a "player" girls flirt with him, and he knows not to make a big deal about it.

From what you say, he knows what to do, when to do it, and he's use to getting what he wants.

How do you ignore it?

Instead of ignoring it, lose intrest in it. He's a player, it's going to happen alot, deal. I once couldn't stop thinking about this one girl who was VERY flirtatious. She couldn't help it, it just happend. It bugged me for FREAKIN EVER! How do you fix it?

1. Change your attitude

Think positively, seriously. EVerytime something happens just think "He's doing that to make me jealous." Just tell yourself that. You'll feel better if you tell yourself that your controlling him and not the other way around.


Just lay back, be calm, and don't exagerate crap.

[sadolakced acid]

you know, some guys flirt innocently, for fun.

so he may just do that...

of course, i doubt it'd make much difference to how you feel about it.

so i suggest you direct your attentions to something else.

the class, someone else, a passion, etc.

[xFaith]

Oh i know what you mean!
that SUCKS!! i had that too once, and it really hurted...
Its a player, you will never have a good relationship with him, just stop seeing him, get out, meet new people! (it worked for me)
btw, does your friend know you like him? if she does, you should tell her that you dont like her flirting with him.

btw; hii melissa!!! :D:D

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

like someone who likes u, not ur friends =] .

he reminds me of me , i use to flirt with every single girl in my freshmen year just cuz i wasnt that serious about getting a gf, its a way of keeping urself company without actually dating anymore..

i think u should just find somebody else and i u want to ignore it just think how stupid they look