How do I... Options

[cLinT_wEStw0oD]

There is this one girl, Victoria, that sits next to me in global, and shes not like Ms. America or anything, but shes a real simple beuty. Very pale, with blue eyes and really really brown hair, and brown freckles and shit...anyway, I almost never talk to her, but somehow she thinks I'm annoying. I didn't let her know I like her yet...becasue if I did shed probably say some immature shit like eww or something. Anyway, if I ask her out, shed probably give me a no with an attitude which would completely make me feel horrible. I was planning on doing a little secret admirer thing with her, but I don't think it would work. Notes: She has a brother who is a junior...the dudes f**king huge....I think he plays ice hockey or something.

[*mipadi*]

Hey, if you think you have a shot, go for it. Don't do some elaborate plan; just start talking to her and hang out with her a bit, and ask her to a movie or something. No big deal. But honestly, if you think you have no shot, don't waste your time. Many times I have said to myself, "You don't have a shot with this girl, but you should try anyway," and I often wish I hadn't wasted my times in such instances, because my instincts, more often than not, turned out to be correct.

[technicolour]

Talk talk talk talk talk talk!

She prolly just got the wrong view of you.

you could change her mind.

but it starts when you TALK to her!

[OverratedStupidi...]

I don't understand why people just don't like other people before they even give them a chance.

But in your case, it'd be pointless to try to make a relationship out of dirt. So, like Kristinaa said, your best bet is just to talk to her.

Talking really can solve a lot of relationship problems.

[cLinT_wEStw0oD]

I just can't bring myself to have a good conversation with her....in short terms...I dunno what to say, I try bringing up small talk but it just doesnt last..

[technicolour]

Then you have to practice. I understand when guys get all studder-ish..but really it'll be okay.

My friends boyfriend had, and still does for that fact, have the same issue when he talks to her.

Strike up something you know that she can comment/talk about, then let the convo flow from there?

[_sarcastic_]

since you don't talk to her much, get to know her a little more, maybe after than she'll grow a liking towards you.
you could try talking about the class the both of you are in, and the the convosation would just go from there.

[Chii]

Then you have to practice. I understand when guys get all studder-ish..but really it'll be okay.

My friends boyfriend had, and still does for that fact, have the same issue when he talks to her.

Strike up something you know that she can comment/talk about, then let the convo flow from there?

definately, practice makes perfect. think of how you talk to your friends, what kinds of things do you talk about?

try talking about something neutral, like how class is, debate movies, things where there are more than one side and things that aren't too controversial.

if you don't take a chance or try to make her see the real you, you'll never have the chance to fix things, who knows maybe something is meant to happen. if you don't act upon it you'll never know. sometimes it's just better to know.

she does sound pretty though, blue eyes and dark hair is hot.

[Kneuklid Romance]

...if you sit there thinking about what COULD and SHOULD happen you'll be left in the dark, and you'll sit in your room at night kicking yourself because you didn't try talking to her, and you'll just be left with all of these questions that remain unanswered.

Females like guys with poise...there's nothing wrong with talking to her about such things.

Like some said, go for it.

If you don't...you'll just be questioning yourself and day dreaming. There's a difference between dreamers / visionaries and do'ers.

I suggest you be a do'er, not only would you get farther in life and in relationships, you'll feel SO much better about yourself for overcoming an obstacle that most won't even dare to try.

LHHRS

Kevyn @-)---------

[ChEeR A HOliC Xo]

Just try to get her attention, talk to someone around you about something she does, maybe she will join in. Be like, "does anyone know what time that soccer game starts"?

[DrEaMgUy2K1]

try to talk to her, or ask a friend .

Know why she thinks ur annoying and go on from there, take the time to straighten her out and let her know who u really are. Being a secret admirer is either really sweet or really creepy. Just be upfront and honest about it, girls like that.

[luvnhate]

maybe you did something to her that annoyed her...apologize to her like just be like im sorry if i've been annoying you, and she'll probbaly get a different view of you, then casually you can ask her out to lunch or something