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 Oct 16 2005, 04:41 PM
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 Rawr  Group: Member Posts: 35 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 74,092  |
i like this girl in my school and idk how to ask her out we are kinda friends not best friends but shes really nice and kool but idk what to do any advice?
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Oct 16 2005, 04:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
do you want to go out sometimes?
just keep it simple and if you are afraid of rejection..ask her best friend of what she thinks of you |
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Oct 16 2005, 04:58 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
Go for it. If she rejects you, well that's rejection. It's better to learn the hard way than running from an experience you might need in the future
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Oct 16 2005, 05:39 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Yeah, just go for it. Make sure she's alone and ask her if she would like to go out with you (either if she wants to see a movie, or if she wants to be your girlfriend, etc). If she rejects you, then she rejects you. Nothing else you can do, but at least you know that you tried.
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Oct 16 2005, 06:02 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,793 |
That's what lifes all about. Taking chances. If you get rejected, big deal. Everyone goes through it, also it's her lose, because in the end your too good for her. Just keep in mind everything happens for a reason. Even though sometimes you wonder what that reason is, it's true.
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Oct 16 2005, 06:04 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
just ask her. thats what id want someone to do =]
if she says no--she probably wouldnt want you to take it personally |
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Oct 16 2005, 06:51 PM
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Do you guys have any classes together? It might be easier to ask her out if she has a class with you. Well I say, go for it. We all face rejection at least once in our life time
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Oct 16 2005, 06:54 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
YOU NEVER KNOW UNTIL YOU ASK!
For all you know she may feel the same way about you.. |
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Oct 16 2005, 11:12 PM
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 Oh babyy. :d Group: Member Posts: 616 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,708 |
Don't ask her out on the phone, over the internet, or in a note.
Just.. Have a small casual talk with her, then ask her if she'd like to go to the movies with you sometime or something. GOOD LUCK!! Like.. 2 weeks ago, I asked a guy I liked (Which I never really talked to) to go with me to our Homecoming dance like out of the blue. At first, he was like.. "What the f*ck?! Um.. I'll think about it.." Then on Thursday, he said he'd go with me. :] |
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Oct 17 2005, 01:23 AM
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Marilyn Monroe Group: Member Posts: 69 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 87,244 |
also, consider how good of friends you are with her and if dating would hurt that relationship (or if you would mind if it did)
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Oct 17 2005, 06:27 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
you should go for it, take that chance before it's too late
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Oct 17 2005, 11:26 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 57 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 267,971 |
Just ask if she wants do go somewhere together. I mean, what's the worst thing that could happen?? She says no? Well then, at least you know how she feels and that part of your life isn't a blur anymore.
Good luck! |
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Oct 17 2005, 12:58 PM
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 banangst ♥ Group: Member Posts: 727 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 237,399 |
casually ask her. the relationship isnt gonna go anywhere unless you ask. if you get rejected.. stay friends.. you can always try again?
best of luck. |
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Oct 17 2005, 01:45 PM
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 ^-^ Group: Member Posts: 1,676 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 107,668 |
I think you should wait till it's just you two talking and no one else, than I'd ask her to the movies and when your'e at the movies you could ask her to be your girlfriend. Only if you feel it's apropriate ofcourse
 good luck
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