my best friend |
 Oct 13 2005, 04:59 AM
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 brandon demarin  Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512  |
my best friend is the only person i wanna be with in the world. we used to be super close and stuff. since we started high school, i dont have a lot of chances to see her and shes always hanging out with other ppl. shes not excited to see me anymore, shes only excited to see her new guy friends. we still talk and stuff but its like we are normal friends..
what should i do? if i tell her how i feel about her, the relationship will just go weird, shes gunna wanna hang out with her other friends but remember what i said and i dont really wanna force her to do anything |
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Oct 13 2005, 02:28 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 157 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 117,793 |
I garantee that your relationship wont be weird after. She might even want to hang out with you more because you told her how you feel. If it's what you want... you have to go for it. If nothing happen's at least you gave it a try and wont be regreting it in the future. Good Luck
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Oct 13 2005, 07:28 PM
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tell her how you feel! from personal experience, one of my guy friends didnt tell me he had feelings for me until after he stopped liking me,,, and turns out i liked him the whole time too! and if she doesnt feel the same, well, sometimes that happens. but at least you would know one way or the other and not go on with life thinking "what if..."
and remember, always do what you feel is the right thing to do. much luck to ya 
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Oct 13 2005, 09:57 PM
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c[: Group: Member Posts: 2,302 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 2,876 |
i would definately tell her.. i mean it couldnt possibly hurt that badly right? if the relationship goes weird, which isnt likely, then it should be her loss because she's not woman enough to handle it...
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Oct 13 2005, 10:04 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
people grow apart in high school
you should just ask her to hang out because you haven't in a long time...just the two best friends. |
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Oct 14 2005, 10:05 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
you should build your friendship back up first. wouldn't you think that it would be weird if an old friend told you she liked you out of the blue?
after you're sure that you're really great friends again, break it to her. tell her that you like her and that it would be perfectly fine to just continue on with the great friendship if she doesn't like you back. (it may not be completely fine but you have to salvage the relationship) |
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Oct 14 2005, 10:27 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
dont act like a couple...
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Oct 15 2005, 02:45 AM
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 Kuki Nakamarua - AKA Bobby Lee Group: Member Posts: 447 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,812 |
oh wow,that would make me super sad.i love my best friend so much,i couldnt find her so i like,got teary,lol!when shes hangin with other guys,i always ask her to hang with me.you should tell her,lets hang out together,like old times,i really miss you.i always tell my bestfriend that and she duz.she always misses me over the weekend.she has a boyfriend and i have a girlfriend so i know we not gettin close.we real close but no too much.
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Oct 15 2005, 06:29 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,102 |
OMG I was just about to post a new topic about this. Omg the same exact thing is happening to me.
Like does it feel like she ignores you all the time even though you always talk to her. And when you call her it seems like she just wants to hang up on you. And when you were younger you were like inceperable (sp?). But now as you get older, she has different friends (in my case her cousin). And you don't want to say anything to her so you act like it's alright cause you feel like if you tell her it'll seem like you made her hang out with you. And you've tried telling her and you kinda sorta half explain how you feel but, in the end you say nevermind it's okay. but you cry everytime you think about her? THat's what i feel like right now... I don't know what to do about it either...!! I wrote a story thingy about it here. you should read it, tell me if that is whatyou feel like...  
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Oct 15 2005, 11:49 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
That's just highschool. Make new ones or build stronger relationship w/ your old friends.
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Oct 16 2005, 02:22 AM
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brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
wow doubleaxle, u took the words right out of my mouth
exactly how im feeling :) |
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Oct 28 2005, 02:56 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 103 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 31,102 |
QUOTE(brand0n @ Oct 16 2005, 2:22 AM) wow doubleaxle, u took the words right out of my mouth exactly how im feeling :)  I forgot to add they always say they love you but they don't mean it. And seriously everytime you try to bring up like saying how you feel you get half way explaining and then quit cause you feel bad for them & just say nevermind it doens't even matter. And then you try to ignore them to see if they'll realize you, but they don't. Is that how you feel too? |
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