how can i spice up my "boring" relationship?, relationships |
 Oct 11 2005, 01:56 AM
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 hulagurlie413  Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 259,963  |
i honestly am running out of ideas. my boyfriend bores me to death sometimes cuz everything we do is so routinely. like i hang out at his house a lot and MOST of the time he's playing his dumb game World of Warcraft on his computer. I wish i could destroy his computer sometimes...that's how bad it is. anyone have any ideas how i can "spice" up the relationship? my friends say i should dump him cuz he's boring now, but i still love him even though he drives me insane a lot. so help please! thanks!
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Oct 11 2005, 02:24 AM
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 in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
Moved to Relationships.
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Oct 11 2005, 04:02 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
It's not really his fault the relationship is getting boring.. relationships are a two-people thing. If you feel like the momentum is slowing down, maybe he's thinking the same thing. Judging from his actions, he seems to be bored as well. Why would he rather play Warcraft than spend time with you?
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Oct 11 2005, 11:19 AM
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Talk to him about it. Tell him to get off his damn computer and more attention to his woman!!
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Oct 11 2005, 01:48 PM
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Never get between a man and his computer.
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Oct 11 2005, 04:29 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
Kinda sounds like my relationship with my boyfriend, but whenever I go over, he doesn't even touch the computer unless we're both looking on it or something. He really should be spending more time with his girlfriend than on the computer, so I agree, talk to him about it and tell him how you feel (neglected?).
But, if you want to "spice" up your relationship, I suggest going on dates to places you've never been to before. Do some new things, try new foods, etc. Surprise each other. But, if he doesn't seem to care, then I really think you should dump him. You should be happy and satisfied in a relationship, not bored, no matter how much you love him. |
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Oct 11 2005, 04:30 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
QUOTE(hulagurlie413 @ Oct 11 2005, 1:56 AM) i honestly am running out of ideas. my boyfriend bores me to death sometimes cuz everything we do is so routinely. like i hang out at his house a lot and MOST of the time he's playing his dumb game World of Warcraft on his computer. I wish i could destroy his computer sometimes...that's how bad it is. anyone have any ideas how i can "spice" up the relationship? my friends say i should dump him cuz he's boring now, but i still love him even though he drives me insane a lot. so help please! thanks!  i don't blame him.. World of Warcraft is AWESOME! maybe you should ask him to g to the park and do something more "outdoor" hehe when my brother is playing Counter Strike in the pc, and his gf is there, she'll sit on his lap and they'll play together (i felt sickened watching them)... maybe you should do the same? |
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Oct 11 2005, 06:19 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
instead of always hanging out at his house, why not try hanging out at yours or go out to the mall, the park or somewhere you know the both of you will spend alot of time together
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Oct 11 2005, 06:32 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
Talk to him.. he should be spending the precious time with his girlfriend .. (you) besides games in the cpu. Go out with him somewhere .. or like the beaches. Go to the movies ? mall ?
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Oct 11 2005, 06:39 PM
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 L!ckitySplit Group: Member Posts: 4,325 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 129,329 |
QUOTE(andromeda_90 @ Oct 11 2005, 5:30 PM) i don't blame him.. World of Warcraft is AWESOME! maybe you should ask him to g to the park and do something more "outdoor" hehe when my brother is playing Counter Strike in the pc, and his gf is there, she'll sit on his lap and they'll play together (i felt sickened watching them)... maybe you should do the same? but i dont think you can do tat with world of warcraft haha, its just that cs is about shooting so i guess it can be more entertaining having your gf sit on your lap and mess around with that then warcraft lol. anyway the relation thing is a 2 person thing you cant expect him to do it all, what have you done to be more exciting? |
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Oct 11 2005, 06:40 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 108 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,064 |
I think that's kinda lame if he is just ignoring you on the computer while you're at his house I think that you should just tell him how you feel maybe he feels the same way. If you still love him alot then try doing things yourself like going other places and doing new things
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Oct 11 2005, 08:35 PM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
sounds like me and my bf but instead of the computer, its my dog >.< all his attention goes to my stupid dog, that bastard. Well I had a talk with him last night and after we are done with football and volleyball, we are going to chill alot more, do more things, etc etc etc
and its Ramadan right now so thats also another reason why its boring now |
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Oct 11 2005, 08:38 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
just hang out outside..on a date...go clubbing, pool, bowling, movies.
get in trouble |
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Oct 11 2005, 09:35 PM
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i think that if you take notice on the things that
he likes to do then he'll take notice on the things you wanna do play the game with him and maybe eventually you guys will do something different |
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Oct 11 2005, 10:20 PM
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hulagurlie413 Group: Member Posts: 83 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 259,963 |
yeah i've tried talking to him about it, but a lot of the times it ends up into a huge argument. i know that world of warcraft is an extremely popular game, but there's a difference between liking the game a lot and just being crazy obsessed with it. afterall, i am REAL while the game is MAKE BELIEVE STUFF. he can't get the real pleasures in life from a game, ya know? (sorry if that sounded gross). i'll see what i can do; i've been trying.
also, someone mentioned earlier that i should play the game with him. the thing is, i don't want to waste 15 bucks every month for a game that i wouldn't be playing that often cuz i'm going to school and have to concentrate on REAL things rather than fictional characters. i just think he needs to get his priorities straight. it's not like we just started dating...we've been 2gether for over a year. so idk. i just hate guys sometimes. |
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Oct 11 2005, 11:39 PM
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 Yawn Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,530 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,772 |
QUOTE(hulagurlie413 @ Oct 11 2005, 1:56 AM) i honestly am running out of ideas. my boyfriend bores me to death sometimes cuz everything we do is so routinely. like i hang out at his house a lot and MOST of the time he's playing his dumb game World of Warcraft on his computer. I wish i could destroy his computer sometimes...that's how bad it is. anyone have any ideas how i can "spice" up the relationship? my friends say i should dump him cuz he's boring now, but i still love him even though he drives me insane a lot. so help please! thanks! lol, hahaha. i don't mean to laugh! but, oh man..naw i've been there. I mean that whole "world of warcraft" thing, lol that's what made me laugh, cuz i've dated some guys like that. But um, lemme see.. Ok, why don't you guys try going out? like going to the movies, to the park, bowling, going to the mall, going out dancing....you know? It'll get him away from his computer and then he probably will start paying more attention to you. but i mean there is a difference though, if he ignores you and just plays his computer all day long,...then you might want to think if you are wasting your time, or have a talk with him |
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Oct 11 2005, 11:47 PM
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 <33 Group: Member Posts: 2,745 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 114,234 |
hahaha. here we go with the computer addiction
 .hmm, well, go somewhere besides you house. go out to eat, go to a game, go to movies, go out for walks, maybe go to six flags? and not to mention flirting always works. try it out! |
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Oct 12 2005, 04:09 AM
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go OUT and don't stay IN. =)
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Oct 21 2008, 01:41 AM
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 Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Oct 2008 Member No: 692,630 |
i feel like i can relate to you...
my partner goes to his pc after work and play with his fave RE4 games... and I'm like...waiting forever in bed and wakes up so upset... but I really love him and seems that i'm already used to our situation.. at least ..he's not thinking about other women...or worst men..lolz... btw... he goes to my office after his work and fetch me...we go home together.. so I basically know his routine... and we're together for almost five years already... |
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Oct 21 2008, 01:54 AM
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in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
QUOTE(gigiopolis @ Oct 11 2005, 12:24 AM) Moved to Relationships. WHEN I WAS STILL A MOD! Big bump much? |
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Oct 21 2008, 01:56 AM
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 ٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
You wanna be a mod again Gigi? With Betty, Juna, and James all stepping down, there's lot's of room. Besides, you were suppose to get hired the same time me, Joanne, and Juna got hired. I don't know what happened.
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Oct 21 2008, 01:58 AM
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in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
Don't I need to request to want to be a mod to even become one? Because I never did that. Unless you guys were just invited?
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Oct 21 2008, 02:00 AM
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٩(͡๏̯͡๏)۶ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,309 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 65,593 |
 I think I said too much lol. If you wanna know what exactly happened when me, Joanne, and Juna got hired, then PM me.
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Oct 21 2008, 02:02 AM
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in a matter of time Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 7,151 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 191,357 |
LOL that's okay, I don't have the desire to be a mod anyway.
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Oct 21 2008, 06:36 AM
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 ^_^ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 8,141 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 91,466 |
Anal.
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Oct 21 2008, 07:04 PM
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See, back in the days it was counter-strike. During matches, scrims, or practices I would lie to my gf saying I was in the shower, or eating, or doing hw. She caught on pretty quickly, but man... World of Warcraft? I heard people sacrifice college, jobs, and family for that game.
I think you got yourself into a serious predicament. CS would only be a few hours a night, but the rest of the day would belong to her. Make a deal with him or something? |
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Oct 21 2008, 07:14 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,095 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 171,080 |
QUOTE(pessimist @ Oct 21 2008, 02:00 AM) I think I said too much lol. If you wanna know what exactly happened when me, Joanne, and Juna got hired, then PM me. |
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Nov 3 2008, 11:16 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 271 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 624,580 |
W.O.W. has been known to take over peoples lives. If a guy has a problem deciding between a game like W.O.W. and a beautiful girl he's obviously got issues. I don't care what age or who you are, a game is a game. There's a point where you need to separate yourself.
Most important is talk to him! Let him know he bores you, for all he knows he may think that you like watching him level with is l33t W.O.W. friends. |
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Nov 3 2008, 11:25 PM
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 ;) Group: Duplicate Posts: 2,374 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,760 |
lol, men and their computer/video games. the guys i know constantly play halo or super smash brothers in the lounge and once they get started, hell can freeze over and they'll still be in front of the TV. it doesn't bother me anymore, since i realized that halo is f**king awesome.
hm. old topic. |
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Nov 4 2008, 05:41 PM
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Have sex.
lol JAY KAY! go out! movies, dinner, parties, bowling, shopping, amusement parks, shows, etc. |
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Nov 4 2008, 05:58 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
^those are really good ideas!
talk to him directly about how you feel. he'll probably make an effort to do other things besides the computer game, if he still likes you. if he makes no effort, dump him! other stuff to do could be :minigolf, making t shirts together, studying together, or double dates depends on what you like. |
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Nov 4 2008, 09:29 PM
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bleh you should find someone who pays more attention to you
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Nov 5 2008, 03:45 PM
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rawr? Group: Official Member Posts: 2,705 Joined: Nov 2005 Member No: 285,858 |
i think you need to be more active around him. like flirtacious? maybe? spice up your relationship a little.. like flirt with him while he's on the computer. attract his attention, and maybe he'll start listening to you. idk? hoped it help.
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Nov 6 2008, 06:13 AM
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 (′ ･ω･｀) Group: Official Designer Posts: 6,179 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 72,477 |
sneak below his desk and give him a blow job
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Nov 6 2008, 03:28 PM
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threesome
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Nov 8 2008, 04:04 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 271 Joined: Feb 2008 Member No: 624,580 |
QUOTE(CocaineNoseJob @ Nov 4 2008, 05:41 PM) Have sex. lol JAY KAY! go out! movies, dinner, parties, bowling, shopping, amusement parks, shows, etc. I just went bowling last night and it was a fun little outing. You can make it a little competitive by bringing some friends and versing each other in teams. All I know is my girlfriend loves to get together with her friends and get all dressed up to go out. So anything that involves that is my ticket. QUOTE(doughnut @ Nov 6 2008, 06:13 AM) sneak below his desk and give him a blow job Public sexual acts are a big turn on for a lot of people. The thought of knowing you can get kicked out or in trouble can be a rush. Make sure it's consensual, obviously. |
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