Damn Ramadawn (sp?), the muslim religion...thingy |
 Oct 7 2005, 10:30 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION!  Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769  |
OK well for most who dont know Ramadawn(sp?), its the month of october where a muslim cant eat, drink, curse, lie, have sex or kiss, fight, basically anything sinful (well eat and drink at night)
NE who, My boyfriend is muslim and hes doing that...it SUCKS!!!! I dont have a big problem with it buuuut i mean it scks when you cant even kiss your bf of 5 months >.< this is only the 3rd day... Anyone else doing or know someone doing it too? |
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Oct 7 2005, 10:44 AM
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 Like i care. ♥ Group: Member Posts: 780 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 124,706 |
Its ramadan i believe.
Yes my stepfather is doing it.. i wouldnt be able to make it through the day xD Just be patient, its over before you know it :D just pretend hes on holiday or something |
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Oct 7 2005, 11:36 AM
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 after all that we've been through... you know we're cool Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,691 |
Ohhhh yesss! Ramadan:mad: I mean it's great but at the same time it is so frustrating! My bf doesn't even wanna touch me but only when it is fasting time. Oh well....
 You'll get through this XD
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Oct 7 2005, 02:18 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
Ramadan ... =)
I have never experience it because I'm buddhism.. but I know a lot of people who does believe in Ramdan and is fasting. It's a terrible thing to hear since you can't kiss/sex/curse/lie .. and blah. Sorry to hear.. it's okay ~ 
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Oct 7 2005, 02:47 PM
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My friends who are muslim are doing it
 I probably wouldn't be able to do it.
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Oct 7 2005, 03:06 PM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
on holiday?? T.T lol i remember during the summer he went on a 2 week vacation to FL and all I did was watch the Notebook and eat a Gallon of Ice cream...did I also mention I gained 6 poinds??
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Oct 7 2005, 03:09 PM
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QUOTE(mouse_3k @ Oct 7 2005, 4:06 PM) on holiday?? T.T lol i remember during the summer he went on a 2 week vacation to FL and all I did was watch the Notebook and eat a Gallon of Ice cream...did I also mention I gained 6 poinds??  At least you didn't call him all the time on his cellphone. |
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Oct 7 2005, 05:28 PM
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One of my friends is muslim, but I know she's not going to obey that.. =\
Well just think of how that first kiss after a month will feel
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Oct 7 2005, 06:13 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(Nicolatofu @ Oct 7 2005, 6:28 PM) Well just think of how that first kiss after a month will feel Hah, I agree... And, before you know it, a month will be over and you two will be able to kiss, etc again. Just hang out with him and talk a lot or something. This month will pass by quickly. |
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Oct 7 2005, 07:16 PM
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 RiKACHANtEL Group: Member Posts: 3,876 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 51,230 |
5 months is a long ass time..
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Oct 7 2005, 07:27 PM
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^They have been dating for that long, Ramadan is only 1 month...
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Oct 7 2005, 10:41 PM
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 boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
Ah, don't worry. If I'm not mistaken, Muslims only have to restrict themselves during the mornings and not the evenings.
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Oct 8 2005, 01:06 AM
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Yep the Ramadan month really sucks. My boyfriend's Muslim too so for one month we can't do anything. Everytime we go out, we don't eat and we have to get home by around 6pm coz he has to go pray. Then around 7pm they "buka puasa" which means they eat. So yeah, basically since we go out a lot, I don't eat at all too. I mean how can you eat lunch in front of someone who can't until 7pm? We want to pierce our ears together too but we have to wait until next month.
 But hey, at least I get to lose some weight. 
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Oct 8 2005, 03:07 AM
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boo Group: Member Posts: 5,512 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 71,765 |
^OMG. Do you live somewhere in South East Asia? (Judging from you saying "buka")
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Oct 8 2005, 03:45 AM
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QUOTE(Nicolatofu @ Oct 8 2005, 6:28 AM) One of my friends is muslim, but I know she's not going to obey that.. =\ Well just think of how that first kiss after a month will feel that's true (: it's okay...just think of it, at least it isn't two months long or something. |
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Oct 8 2005, 04:01 AM
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QUOTE(toodlepops. @ Oct 8 2005, 4:07 PM) ^OMG. Do you live somewhere in South East Asia? (Judging from you saying "buka") Haha I am from SEA. Malaysia to be precise. |
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Oct 8 2005, 04:34 AM
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my best friend who's moving in a 10 days is doing that :'[
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Oct 8 2005, 09:21 AM
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after all that we've been through... you know we're cool Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,691 |
QUOTE(Winter @ Oct 8 2005, 6:06 AM) But hey, at least I get to lose some weight. Haha same here. Not only do I find myself fasting on Ramadan, I also stopped eating pork after we started living together. Just had a question for those who have a muslim bf or anyone who knows. Do you give him a present at the beginning or end of Ramadan? Are you suposed to? What are appropiate presents? |
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Oct 8 2005, 09:27 AM
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 What a hypocrite. Group: Member Posts: 2,754 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 128,150 |
I have a close friend who is Muslim, and she's doing that as well.
I wouldn't like it if I couldn't eat from sunrise to sunset. Oh, and it's Ramadan. =) |
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Oct 8 2005, 09:28 AM
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QUOTE(tequila_sky @ Oct 8 2005, 10:21 AM) Just had a question for those who have a muslim bf or anyone who knows. Do you give him a present at the beginning or end of Ramadan? Are you suposed to? What are appropiate presents? I, of course, don't have a Muslim boyfriend, but to answer your question, no, I do not believe gifts are exchanged during Ramadan. It is a month of prayer and introspection regarding Islam, and not so much a celebratory holidy. |
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Oct 8 2005, 09:48 AM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
QUOTE Well just think of how that first kiss after a month will feel lol how clever QUOTE Just had a question for those who have a muslim bf or anyone who knows. Do you give him a present at the beginning or end of Ramadan? Are you suposed to? What are appropiate presents? No I dont give mine a present, im not that rich. lol |
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Oct 8 2005, 09:57 AM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
This is like a relationship purifier Lol.
Just stick it out, and cuddle a lot. Is cuddlin` allowed ? |
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Oct 8 2005, 09:58 AM
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Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
^ lol not really. its ok, I just think its just a test to see if kissing and all tht stuff is needed in a true relationship...damn this is only the 4th day >.<
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Oct 8 2005, 10:24 AM
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You guys can hug, right?
So hug. And talk, get to know more about each other if you already haven't. |
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Oct 8 2005, 01:12 PM
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 appealing only because they are just that unappealing Group: Member Posts: 211 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 143,673 |
if you like him enough, you'll wait for him...plus when it's over, you'll miss kissing him so much, you might go into a full-blown makeout session...just wait and see!!!
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Oct 8 2005, 04:06 PM
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my friends doing that i dont know if she broke any of the rules yet lol i think she cursed...
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Oct 8 2005, 04:22 PM
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 ...who created this mess...? Group: Member Posts: 451 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 97,244 |
QUOTE(tequila_sky @ Oct 8 2005, 10:21 AM) Haha same here. Not only do I find myself fasting on Ramadan, I also stopped eating pork after we started living together. Just had a question for those who have a muslim bf or anyone who knows. Do you give him a present at the beginning or end of Ramadan? Are you suposed to? What are appropiate presents? Yep. We exchange gifts at the end of Ramadan, which is a day called Eid. The last day. There isn't an "appropriate present", though... it's just like any Christmas present you'd give. You don't really have to, it isn't mandatory or anything.I'm fasting right now, actually. You kind of get used to fasting after a while. It's just basically teaching you to have patience and purity, feeling how some others feel. So just be patient and soon you can do what you want with him. =] |
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Oct 8 2005, 06:21 PM
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i wouldnt fast myself but maybe someday i'll do it.. i dont think i couldnt handle eating.. i dont eat much but i eat a little throughout the whole day.. i couldnt eat big meals in beggining and end of day.
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Oct 8 2005, 07:08 PM
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QUOTE(tequila_sky @ Oct 8 2005, 10:21 PM) Haha same here. Not only do I find myself fasting on Ramadan, I also stopped eating pork after we started living together. Just had a question for those who have a muslim bf or anyone who knows. Do you give him a present at the beginning or end of Ramadan? Are you suposed to? What are appropiate presents? Hmm I've never thought about that. This is our first Ramadan together. But I'e never known people to give presents before/during/after Ramadan. Usually the Muslims will have like a huge feast after Ramadan and invite everyone. |
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Oct 9 2005, 03:41 AM
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It's Ramadan ( I know people have already corrected you but damn!).
I'm fasting at the moment. I ain't doin the whole no swearing, no sex dealy bob though. Maybe next year boys n girls. |
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Oct 10 2005, 08:20 AM
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after all that we've been through... you know we're cool Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,691 |
QUOTE(xblueradiance @ Oct 8 2005, 9:22 PM) Yep. We exchange gifts at the end of Ramadan, which is a day called Eid. The last day. There isn't an "appropriate present", though... it's just like any Christmas present you'd give. You don't really have to, it isn't mandatory or anything.I'm fasting right now, actually. You kind of get used to fasting after a while. It's just basically teaching you to have patience and purity, feeling how some others feel. So just be patient and soon you can do what you want with him. =] That is so good to know. I know about Eid but I have never really celebrated it with him. He got kinda mad at me cause I didn't congratulate him at the beginning though... He said most of his friends got cards and stuff. (yah hes a big baby haha) I actually wanted to congratulate him but I didn't know when it began...  With Ramadan it's so hard cause it moves every year. He compared it to Christmas but I beg to differ!  cause Christmas is :always: on the same day. Lalala nice to know u guys are such supportive gfs!!! I'd say it is the equivalent of Easter.
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Oct 10 2005, 12:19 PM
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equivalent of easter?..i think u mean lent
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Oct 11 2005, 10:59 AM
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after all that we've been through... you know we're cool Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Oct 2005 Member No: 253,691 |
^ yeah! lol I suppose Lent is like Ramadan and Eid is like Easter or???? thanx for that!
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