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cuul_gurl
post Oct 6 2005, 04:36 AM
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this guy i know for the past 3 years...(i had previously posted a problem which concerned him..leave that now)..he was really close to me..there was a time when he became really sentimental about me..and used to flirt a lot, constantly giving hints that he really really really likes me....
during our conversations,i used to tell him about my best friends who belong to his sect of religion....
he's in another city now, and as time flew, he's almost stopped mailing..if he's online, he just says he's busy in office..i've also given up that he'd ever say a hi when he's online..
the problem is..he's got my cozin's and friend's email ids, and now he chats with them when he's online..my best friend recently had a chat with him...he doesnt bother to IM if i go online and if i msg him..well..he's toooo busy!!
What do i do with this guy??? I feel he's totally nuts!!!
 
 
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steezahh
post Oct 6 2005, 10:42 PM
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ask him whats up! if he doesnt tell you he must be with another girl// or is not interested in you anymore; something like this is happening to me right now; but im pulling it through! take some time off; then get together again...you know?
 
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post Oct 7 2005, 05:18 AM
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maybe he's just not interested anymore.
 
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post Oct 7 2005, 05:42 AM
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^Yeah. Its kind of your fault you didn't ask him out when you had the chance.
 
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post Oct 7 2005, 06:18 AM
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^agreed. just forget about him and move on
 
cuul_gurl
post Oct 8 2005, 01:22 AM
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yeah....but the problem is...this guy ignores me but at the same time misses me...the last time i called him up, he was excited when i told him i'll b making a trip to where he stays now!!!..he was like..when r u comin..and when i asked him out..he was more than eager......i really can't understand wat he's upto,..!!!

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post Oct 8 2005, 11:26 AM
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Maybe hes just shy to ask you first. You should've asked him whats wrong and why isn't he talking to you.
 
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post Oct 12 2005, 07:39 AM
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any more suggestions?..
he called me a couple of days ago, coz he had forgotten to wish me on my bday...he did sound a bit guilty...and kept saying he's sorry...
whats he upto?
 
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post Oct 16 2005, 08:10 AM
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he's obsessed with his work...and keeps saying he's working all the time...!!!!
What do u think?..
 
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post Oct 16 2005, 08:44 AM
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don't double post.

maybe he just thinks of you as a good friend. that's all.
 
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post Oct 16 2005, 09:10 AM
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Maybe he's shy and doesn't like to talk to you because he's nervous..
 
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post Oct 16 2005, 09:11 AM
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Sorry for double post.. internets screwy
 
cuul_gurl
post Oct 18 2005, 12:51 AM
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do u think i shud just give him a bit more time...?? and let him be..?
 
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post Oct 18 2005, 11:50 PM
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QUOTE(ermfermoo @ Oct 7 2005, 4:42 AM)
^Yeah. Its kind of your fault you didn't ask him out when you had the chance.
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i agree... you should have taking the chance when you had it
 
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post Oct 19 2005, 05:03 PM
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Yeah.. Just let it go... if you really want to talk to him then keep trying or wait.. but sometimes you might get the total opposite outcome.
 

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