feeling left out, friends are being crap |
feeling left out, friends are being crap |
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![]() Tasty. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 ![]() |
so i've been feeling left out with my friends lately. we usually hang out in this nice group of about 6-8 people, and its really a good time, but lately, i've toatlly been feeling left out. one of my friends, cristina, used to always go to me when she was having a problem, but now, my friends all look to lauren. lauren and i have had our differences, but it seems like cristina and sam (especially sam, she talks to her everyday on her phone) all talk to her, and tell me nothing. like when i ask how everything is, its a "good......where's lauren?" and so they leave and go find lauren. we're all friends, but i just don't feel like i'm a part of thier lives anymore. it's my senior year, and i don't want to pull away from them. help, please.
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![]() Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 ![]() |
That used to happen to me a lot.
What i finally did ( after much moping and confusion ) i just learned to stop caring. I started hanging out with other kids and when they saw that i wasnt affected by their neglection they wanted some of the fun i was having. Ever since then they never leave me out. I hate to sound so concieted but my friends say they are amazed i stay so close to so many people since i have so many friends. |
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![]() naïvety ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 ![]() |
^ Wow, problem solver. I wish i had the guts to do that.
I was in the same situation a few years ago, except i was left out of a group of 4. They say 3's a bad number, but so is 4 -_____-; After a while it wore off, though. It's just one of those times when people suddenly feel closer to certain people and distant from others. |
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