i don't know why i try., screw it. |
 Sep 29 2005, 08:53 PM
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Newbie  Group: Member Posts: 5 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 251,433  |
haven't had a boyfriend in five years, no one cares anymore.
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Sep 29 2005, 08:56 PM
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 Queen of Random Information Group: Member Posts: 825 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 157,057 |
Having a boyfriend isn't everything. There are so many more important things in life. Just be patient. Lots of times it's more fun to be single.
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Sep 29 2005, 08:58 PM
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QUOTE(tiltAhurl13 @ Sep 29 2005, 9:53 PM) haven't had a boyfriend in five years, no one cares anymore.  Well...apparently someone cares, or else this post would not have been made. The thing about relationships is that they don't appear out of thin air. If you are interested in having one, go out and try to find someone! Get a clear picture in your mind of the person for whom you are looking, and when you find such a person, strike a conversation, try to hang out with him sometime. A big part of getting into a relationship is not moping about how you don't have one; you can only find someone if you are happy with yourself and overall content. |
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Sep 29 2005, 09:21 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
I envy you, I probably couldn't survive that long..
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Sep 29 2005, 09:32 PM
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 crushed. Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 9,432 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 20,026 |
Don't worry, people still do care
  There are a lot of people that have never even had a boyfriend, so try to think of your past relationship as a good experience and look forward to new opportunities. |
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Sep 29 2005, 09:33 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
relationships are incredibly overrated my dear...just enjoy being single. relationships come with drama, fights, tears, and a lot of stress.
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Sep 29 2005, 09:34 PM
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 lick me Group: Member Posts: 3,044 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 44,013 |
Thats not necessarily a very bad thing.. but sometimes its better to have one boyfriend that actually means a lot, and lasts a long time whether than a lot of boyfriends.
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Sep 29 2005, 09:37 PM
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 Word. Group: Member Posts: 3,004 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 34,673 |
yeah i sorta know how u feel.. me and my gf had been going out for like 5 months and before that.. i was single for 4 years.
i think the more u wait, the better it is when u get a relationship started.. think about it. u've been wanting a relationship so bad that when you do get one, its like finally. i have someone. and it just feels so good |
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Sep 29 2005, 09:44 PM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
it's not a bad thing being single. i mean you get to have more fun, enjoy being single you've still got a long way ahead of you
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Sep 30 2005, 10:55 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
Please don't assume being single is worse than being in a relationship, because that's what i did and i regret it. I thought my life would be complete with a guy, but when a guy came along, it still wasn't complete. In fact, i was lonelier (sp?) because i was expecting so much from him but he wasn't able to fulfill my needs.
I'm not saying this is exactly what will happen to you, but here's my bad experience and i thought you should know about it 
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Sep 30 2005, 07:10 PM
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 Lauren loves YOU. Group: Member Posts: 2,357 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,793 |
Oh, please.
Looking for a sympathy post, ladies and gentlemen? Well, here it is. So you're going through a long dry spell. Cry me a f*cking river. Get up and DO SOMETHING ABOUT IT. Don't sit at the comp and cry about it over the internet. I'm sure you like someone. If you want a relationship that bad, make a move, for goodness sakes. |
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Sep 30 2005, 07:21 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
so
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Sep 30 2005, 07:32 PM
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 You can't keep running from what you're trying to find. Group: Official Member Posts: 5,030 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 54,096 |
at least you've actually had one... or a few or w.e. so you know that you aren't unlikeable. just be patient.
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Sep 30 2005, 07:58 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,665 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,076 |
Er...
Go out and find one? Sure, it's been five years. But you shall definately find the man you're lookin' for. Don't worry, it you wait longer, the better. 
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