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 Sep 29 2005, 09:23 AM
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i've heard tons of people say that when a guy teases you, he likes you.
well, i do have feelings for a guy... he teases tons of girls, all except me. does that mean something? i've caught him looking at me... i'm so confused. i have a feeling he thinks i'm mean or will take it seriously... anyway, how can i show him i'm not like that? i have problem with guys... i can be myself and talk to the guys i don't like, but when it comes to a guy i actually like... i become so, well... mean and i ignore him. but when he's not there, i find myself looking for him. advice? 
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Sep 29 2005, 09:29 AM
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 normal people scare me! >.< Group: Member Posts: 36 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 250,015 |
i never feel that way i just ask them out and hope 4 tha best...
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Sep 29 2005, 10:27 AM
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 Blasian, Asian, INVASION! Group: Official Member Posts: 4,288 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,769 |
he teases alot of girls but you? either it means he doesnt like you at all or it means hes scared to make a move. u caught him lookin at you? ok...tht dont really mean anything.
maybe you should change and actually be NICE to the guys u like. it will help trust me |
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Sep 29 2005, 05:12 PM
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s w e e t e s t Group: Member Posts: 808 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 46,149 |
Try to be nice to him...and probally he's just too scared to make a move on you in the first place; because in his mind; he thinks your really mean. Change your attitude towards the guys that you like.
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Sep 29 2005, 06:04 PM
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 The Texan Group: Member Posts: 430 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 136,431 |
Saying if a guy teases you means he likes you is actually inaccurate.
Truth is, only a guy who knows what he's doing will tease you if he likes you. As for the fact that he doesn't tease YOU. What if he does? and you just keep noticing that he teases other people. If I walked around a poked 100 people and you, what would you notice more? I poked 100 people and you think I'm not poking you (bad example, but pleh). Or maybe he knows you like him and doesn't want to lead you on, anyone witha brain stem knows that if he even talks to you it's like "OMG OMG HE'S TALKING TO ME". Or maybe it's the first one... PARANOIA! |
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Sep 29 2005, 07:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,665 Joined: Apr 2005 Member No: 127,076 |
Don't take him as serious.
Just because you caight him staring at you might not mean anything. He doesn't tease you. And? He might like you, or not. You can ask that. Or ask him why he keeps on staring. That's what I did. xD |
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Sep 29 2005, 07:46 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
guys teasing girls if tehy like them? that's a little second grade
you can't force yourself to change...you just have to let it come naturally or practice...practice makes perfect |
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Sep 29 2005, 08:10 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
QUOTE(Shortiiex @ Sep 29 2005, 6:46 PM) guys teasing girls if tehy like them? that's a little second grade you can't force yourself to change...you just have to let it come naturally or practice...practice makes perfect  Agreed. You don't know if a guy likes you until he directly admits it. Making stupid assumptions will get you in a lot of trouble. If there's something significant about this boy, you have two options. If you're interested in him, talk to him and get to know him better. If you're not, just maintain minimal courtesy and be on your way. |
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Sep 29 2005, 08:30 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
that happened to me once. i just moved in and the guy knew my new friends but not me so that's why he didn't tease me.
maybe he wants to get to know you. |
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Sep 30 2005, 11:24 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
QUOTE([vanesSa] @ Sep 29 2005, 9:23 PM) i have problem with guys... i can be myself and talk to the guys i don't like, but when it comes to a guy i actually like... i become so, well... mean and i ignore him. but when he's not there, i find myself looking for him. Same here. I don't know why that happens  I think he's scared of you. |
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Sep 30 2005, 12:09 PM
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 Trying to Reason Group: Member Posts: 175 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 233,542 |
Just try starting a conversation with him. If he friends with you first he will see what your really like. I have no idea whats up with the picking on people. I know a guy that picks on me and we are friends and don't like eachother like that. Good luck though.
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Sep 30 2005, 02:58 PM
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 Don't worry guys, size doesn't matter...to lesbians Group: Member Posts: 2,444 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 85,066 |
I don't think he likes you. NO OFFENSE but seriously. The last time I thought a guy liked me because I caught him looking at me once, I felt so stupid because it turns out he didn't even notice my existence. So doesn't mean he stares at you for a period of time doesn't mean he likes you. Maybe he was looking at something behind you OR there's something on you that is a little noticeable. Sorry if I sound mean.... but really, some girls need to know that SOMETIMES guys don't automatically like you when they stare at you and not tease you. Because really, he might not even care if you exist (i learned that hard way).
But if you want to get with him... have self-confidence and ask him out! or befriend him for now |
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Oct 1 2005, 06:59 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 56 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 62,813 |
haha most times thats so true
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Oct 1 2005, 07:01 PM
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 Bay Area YadadaDiiiig. Group: Official Member Posts: 4,249 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 103,202 |
Instead of ignoring them and being mean try talking to him and being nice.
And maybe he doesnt tease you because hes scared to approach you cos as you said, you turn mean and ignore them. |
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