im so sicKK.... Options

[endura88]

of being the only one who cares about my best friend and im sick of being the only one who's running to her for help or just to cheer her up when she needs it...i hate it when she underestimates me and she's so damn proud of herself i cant take it anymore....i feel like crying and i feel like punching something but i've through that i've done stupid things just cause i was ignored and go pushed away from a group of friends....i dont wanna go through that phase(sp?) again....she thinks she's got the best thing in life and stuff arghhh it hurts me just to be with her....i cant stand it anymore....
urghhhhhhh
has anyone been in this similiar(sp?) situation?
what should i do?should i ditched her for good>? im so pissed of like when i think back i've wasted freaking money to call her and be there u know? and she never ever once even sms-ed me and call me(not even an sms so why could she bother 2 call?
to know if im alright or how im doing i've got to do all of it...like care for her be there and i even dropped everything and asked my sis 2 send me to her house in the middle of the night just to be there for her when she's fighting with her bf....i feel so used and i feel like crying
she uses my stuff and never give them back and sometimes when i ask for it back she like oh i dont really need it anyway she never really care about how i feel and it hurts me so much that i do appericiates her she takes everything for granted
i just wish so much that she's different and that maybe she;'ll understands me but
i donno
sometimes i wish she could be more nice and appericiates me and stuff!
i think this is just a vent but replies are really welcomed...
=(
i think i need help with this???please if anyone got any advice for me?

[Chii]

you shouldn't have to go through that sweets...

just tell her what you said here. tell her how it makes you feel and how completely unfair it is.

she needs to understand that if she doesn't try to care about anyone but herself, she's going to be the only one who cares about herself.

you seriously do not need "friends" like that.

[OhXiet_ItzDonnA]

^Yeah like she said. You can tell her how you feel about being used and stuff or you can go hang with some of your other friends.

You dont need friends like her. There's plenty of other good friends.

I almost felt the same before except a different subject. It's like whatever boy I like, my friend likes him too. Like I said he's cute, she think he's cute. Then I think he's ugly and she think he's ugly. I mean c'mon. It's like she's trying to steal all the boys I like or something...but I moved on and she moved to a different school.

Well, you probably dont care what I was talking about. haha

[endura88]

thankx guys 4 the replies i donno i've been friends with her for almost 4 years for me it's such a waste to just give up like that but anyways we're cool now
sometimes i just donno how to talk 2 her u know?like i wanna tell her to appericate me more and stuff but i dont know how to start the convo
thankx anyways to those who replied...:]

[highly_evolved]

your only hurting youself in this stituation and its not worth it

[angelrevelation]

why do you consider her your best friend? she seems really spoiled and self centered and insensitive.. or has she just changed over the years?

have you talked to her about her attitude? and i know that friends shouldn't really OWE each other anything but... this is different

[yummy_delight]

Obviously, this is not a healthy relationship.

If you really consider her your best friend, you should tell her how you feel about the way she treats you. If she doesn't change, you need to get a new best friend.

[xxbebot]

of being the only one who cares about my best friend and im sick of being the only one who's running to her for help or just to cheer her up when she needs it...i hate it when she underestimates me and she's so damn proud of herself i cant take it anymore....i feel like crying and i feel like punching something but i've through that i've done stupid things just cause i was ignored and go pushed away from a group of friends....i dont wanna go through that phase(sp?) again....she thinks she's got the best thing in life and stuff arghhh it hurts me just to be with her....i cant stand it anymore....
urghhhhhhh
has anyone been in this similiar(sp?) situation?
what should i do?should i ditched her for good>? im so pissed of like when i think back i've wasted freaking money to call her and be there u know? and she never ever once even sms-ed me and call me(not even an sms so why could she bother 2 call?
to know if im alright or how im doing i've got to do all of it...like care for her be there and i even dropped everything and asked my sis 2 send me to her house in the middle of the night just to be there for her when she's fighting with her bf....i feel so used and i feel like crying
she uses my stuff and never give them back and sometimes when i ask for it back she like oh i dont really need it anyway she never really care about how i feel and it hurts me so much that i do appericiates her she takes everything for granted
i just wish so much that she's different and that maybe she;'ll understands me but
i donno
  sometimes i wish she could be more nice and appericiates me and stuff!
i think this is just a vent but replies are really welcomed...
=(
i think i need help with this???please if anyone got any advice for me?

i know how you feel and its really pissing. sometimes i wanna tell her but yanno? its hard

you shouldn't have to go through that sweets...

just tell her what you said here. tell her how it makes you feel and how completely unfair it is.

she needs to understand that if she doesn't try to care about anyone but herself, she's going to be the only one who cares about herself.

you seriously do not need "friends" like that.

if i do that, she would cry or tell someone else and theyd hate me and so on

[nsmx1korean]

u dont need friends like that, just go on