Feeling Alone.., please help Options

[19TD6]

First off, my sister just went to college, leaving me alone with my mother for the next 4 years because my father moved away when I was little. She's never home, but when she is, she's always wanting to touch me in ways that make me feel uncomfortable, like grabbing/slapping my butt and forcing backrubs upon me. I hate it when she does this, and whenever I tell her to stop, she either calls me "crazy for not liking it" or stupid. Its gotten to the point where ANY human contact feels physically and mentally painful, which is severely damaging my Social Life. Its also made me feel like there's no one I can trust or talk to about it, as I assume they'd also call me crazy or stupid. I have tried telling my sister, but she only tells me to grow up. Recently, when I told my mother to stop, she's yelled that I'm being "disrespectful" and if I really want to feel like that, I should just move out and go live with my dad. But, this would force me away from my friends. I have until October 1st to decide.

[*mzkandi*]

She has no right to touch you that way. You need to tell your father, a teacher, a conselor at your school, or any adult you can trust as soon as possible.

[technicolour]

^ Amen to that.

You really need to tell someone...

There are people who can help..you just gotta let them.

[_sarcastic_]

you have to tell someone. it might get worst, i know you don't want to lose your friends when you move in with your dad, but it's better for you and you can still keep in touch with them.

[aera]

tell your counselors at school. they may not seem like they can do anything, but the school has a lot more power than you think. school -> board of education -> goverment. and call your dad to tell him what's happening.

[ParanoidAndroid]

WOAH your mother actually touch you that way? Is she joking or is she...sick like that? I mean no offense, but amen to the first few replies, TELL SOMEONE

[aznxdreamer]

okay..that sick, disgusting, wrong and illegal. tell someone, teacher, police, counselor, anotehr adult, SOMEONE.

[jennyjenny]

If it were I, I would seriously go move with the dad.

I mean, yeah you lose your friends... but it seems as if it will be better for you. It could get worse with your mom.

[nyctophiliac]

jw but is your mom a lesbian? uhmm anyways...that is really wrong that she's touching you in that way and won't listen to you when you say to stop...and your sister isn't understanding you at all if she's just gonna brush you off with a "you're being disrespectful"...like everyone else said, talk to a trusted adult, soon

[toodlepops.]

I know it's going to be hard telling someone about your problem, but you have to do it for your own sake.
I would suggest moving in with your father. But it's your choice.

[yummy_delight]

You NEED to tell someone about this.

And, you need to get out of that house. If your mother is doing this to you, you must get out of that environment as soon as possible.

[*iNyCxShoRT*]

I'd say move with your dad and tell a school consuelor.

[demolished]

Hello there. We have so many things in common with our parents but mine aren’t separate. I live in a family of four siblings w/ my uneducated childish parents. Our issue is similar but it’s actually my pathetic sexual harassing father who enjoy touching my legs, butt, lap, arms, shoulder, and so much more. Basically, it’s guy to guy situation. So, we’re opposite. Anyways, any actions that he purposely performs are unbelievable sick. He would not listen to my personal command nor respect my privacy. He would say, “let me touch you, son, I’m very old now, I’m tired from work”, “Son, you’re bothering me and disrespecting me that way”, “crazy son”, “ stupid dumbass”, and so much more. My eldest sister does not even care. Whenever she hears me saying something rude and disrespectful, she would give me a stupid attitude that she has nothing to do with the situation. She thinks and lectures me that I should respect to my parents; obviously, I won’t respect them because they totally don’t deserve it. They are very stubborn, hypocrites, way too shallow, and disgusting whores. That’s why I cannot bear staying with the whole family when none of them ever trusted or believe me. They’re selfish and greedy. The youngest one is the least important and less attentions, which means me. It does affect my self-esteem and social skills. And I can never naturally grow up and be normal that made me a pessimistic person who’s a soapalist. However, I’m hopeless.

[VarsMOlta]

wow thatz just weird
tell yo guidance counselor
and move away from ehr!

[misoshiru]

you should definately tell someone, maybe your father, or your counselor at school. that's completely inappropriate.

[sheepy]

wow i agree with everyone else. you have the right to feel uncomfortable and tell someone.

[yukichan]

Talk to a teacher or a adult you trust..Don't hold it in..Because you'll eventually explode..What your mom is doing isn't right..You have to talk to someone, or no one can help you..

[OnlyHumannC]

I agree with everyone else, you must TELL SOMEONE! no one has any right to touch you like that.

That is a tough decision...i mean if you go with your dad or stay at home. This is my opinion, you should tell someone about what your mom is doing to you. If she can get help then its your option to stay with her. I wouldnt want to leave my friends either but this is about you no one else. This is your decision. It would be wise to go with your dad and you and your friends could i guess always talk on the phone or sumthing but this is about your safety and your rights...i mean it could get worse...

[Anonymous82]

hey I know how you feel because I have no social life now

[Aoiro]

Definately tell someone.
The one problem with people that have been harassed in some sort of way is that they never tell anybody.
Even is someone does tell them to.
Then after they do, it's kind of, too late.
Moving with your father is a definate choice.
But I'm having second thoughts on that.

[cfaye3char]

yes tell someone like I agree, with the others.....it might be hard but take care of this problem now get it out of the way so you can get on with your life.....