hi, i'm an ugly 15 year old girl, =) Options

[x_shattered]

like my title?

Anyway, i'm just here to rant. I'm 15 years old, and have never had a boyfriend in my entire life. I'm okay with this, but it gets worse. It just seems like guys don't like me. at all. The last guy who liked me was in 4th grade, and let me tell you, that is a long time ago. It's not like i'm antisocial with guys or anything, they just don't really want to get to know me. I think the reason is that I'm not "pretty" or hot, i'm...quite ugly, in fact. I love my personality, but I hate my looks. -sigh- stupid shallowness. I haven't even been to a high school dance and i'm a sophomore...not planning on to either.

Any tips on how to cope?

[Paradox of Life]

Lucky you. And I'm not saying this with sarcasm. The person that can look past what's physical is a true friend. Respect yourself, if you don't, no one else will.

Oh yes, you probably won't have any problem with guys liking you only because of your looks. I don't mean to sound conceited, but that has happened to me before and it seemed I was dating a lie all along.

[Chii]

so, you admit that you're ugly, you don't want to go to any high school dances, and you blame other people for your problems.

fantastic, i mean after all it's their fault for not loving your personality that you love so much. all guys must be shallow.

[Nicolatofu]

I'm in total agreement with Katt. The only reason guys like the "hott" girls is because of how they look. Their personality could suck- which shows what they're really after. You don't have to worry about guys like that if you aren't the prettiest person ever; if they like you, you know they like you not just how you look.

Try getting to know a guy you're interested in. They usually are physically atrracted to a girl first, but if you start talking with him, then he might see your great personality- which is what really counts in the end!

[*mishyerr*]

well, it's not really surprising that you haveN'T had a boyfriend, based off the fact that MANY & MANY & MANY of my friends haven't had a relationship either. so, don't worry about it. the more you fret about your looks, boys, etc, the farther away it'll move from you. just relax. everyone is beautiful.


ps, i'm also fifteen.

[x_shattered]

so, you admit that you're ugly, you don't want to go to any high school dances, and you blame other people for your problems.

fantastic, i mean after all it's their fault for not loving your personality that you love so much. all guys must be shallow.

haha it's always great to see another person's point of view, no matter how harshly they phrase it..

[hi-C]

I know how you feel.

But you don't want a stupid high school boy anyway. They're quite immature. Eventually, someone will come along who likes/loves you for who you are. And when it happens, all those losers who don't like you won't even matter.

[lKVNiiKINKYl]

STEP ONE
Get over yourself...people aren't going to like you if you don't like yourself

STEP TWO
Not everyone needs to have a boyfriend at a certain age...some people go out young and some people go out when they are older...

ok i'm out of steps

[silver-rain]

So what? When I was 15, I haven't had a boyfriend yet either, and I didn't think I was so good looking. But I didn't wallow in self pity, instead of chasing after boys, I devoted myself to my work and friends. But, gain some confidence and become friends with the guys. If you can project and aura of self confidence, they might overlook your physical appearance (if you really are as ugly as you think you are) and like you for your personality.
Don't worry about it, the right guy will come along some day.

[anniepiee]

yes.gain confidence and devote your time to something else for a while. everyone's prettier than they think they are. besides, your still young. all you need to remember is to smile and the right guy will come.

[shortiiex]

the right guy will come in like 10 years....right now you should get a make-over, buy a nice dress and just have fun, be moree flirty but not easy, have some high school memories

[*jeanna*]

like my title? 

Anyway, i'm just here to rant.  I'm 15 years old, and have never had a boyfriend in my entire life.  I'm okay with this, but it gets worse.  It just seems like guys don't like me. at all.  The last guy who liked me was in 4th grade, and let me tell you, that is a long time ago.  It's not like i'm antisocial with guys or anything, they just don't really want to get to know me. I think the reason is that I'm not "pretty" or hot, i'm...quite ugly, in fact. I love my personality, but I hate my looks.  -sigh- stupid shallowness.  I haven't even been to a high school dance and i'm a sophomore...not planning on to either. 

Any tips on how to cope?

i didn't get my first kiss/boyfriend [who i have been going out for 6 months now] till i was 16. and i'm 17 now. and i wish i waited to go out with a guy till maybe my senior year or later. don't worry, your time will come. just wait,.

[aznhunnie6o1]

You should have confidence in yourself. What you think about yourself is what other people think about you.

[mind_of_its_own]

don't even worry about it. The right guy will come along. And it won't help if you describe yourself as ugly. Remember, love the skin your in. lol too much tv...

[pandamonium]

dont worrie you will find someone, your probably a late bloomer lol but to be serious your time will come. you will find someone . it will be alright. i havent had a real relationship yet either. so dont worrie i am still looking for that person also.

[Joss-eh-lime]

STEP ONE
Get over yourself...people aren't going to like you if you don't like yourself

STEP TWO
Not everyone needs to have a boyfriend at a certain age...some people go out young and some people go out when they are older...

ok i'm out of steps

"gettin over yourself" isnt the same as being confident enough to like who you are. you have to feel good about yourself or it will show to others. its obvious when a person isnt comfortable with how they look or what they say.

dumb boys anyway

[sprezzatura]

Boost your self-esteem. That's all I can say.

[*mipadi*]

I think your problem is not your looks or your personality, but a lack of confidence. Guys dig confidence. Guys are just naturally more comfortable around a girl who is sure of herself and happy with herself. Basically, you won't find a guy until you know who you are and are happy with who you are. So maybe you're not the prettiest girl in school, right? Well, first of all, you probably look fine; but don't focus on looks, focus on something else. Carry yourself right, and people will admire you, including guys. Take some time to get to know yourself and get to know who you are, and everything will work out.

[mouse_3k]

oh boowhoo i dont have a boyfriend, waaah

get ova it. you rant ova stupid stuff, maybe if you were a mature 15 year old, you might have a chance on a boy.

well unless u wanna be used as booty, thats fine if it fills your satisication(sp?)

[*x____duckii*]

I can relate, kind of, 'cept that I'm only 13. Anyways, go out there & try to meet new guys. And if you like someone, try getting closer to them & stuff. Ask them out to dates & shit like that. Hopefully, that guy will feel the same way about you, & WHAM! You have a new boyfriend. But be careful, though. Some guys can be total assholes.

Or you can just try waiting it out.

[ParanoidAndroid]

Hey it's alright if you don't have a boyfriend. At 15 it doesn't really matter. You have all your life.

First of all,
I know idk what you look like, but trust me, you're beautiful (everyone is...except my sister *I accept hate replies to anyone who disagrees*)

Second of all,
When you DO get a bf sometime now, don't date him because you don't want to be lonely, date him because you do like him

Third of all,
I am fugly myself (wow I am SUCH a hypocrite) but I think I am pretty in a certain way so feel good about yourself

Fourth of all,
everyone has their bad years and everyone has their good years. You shouldn't think your ugly JUST because all the boys are after sluts!

Fifth and Final of all,
Don't be in a hurry. Relationships aren't as fun as you think (depending on the guy)

[x_shattered]

oh boowhoo i dont have a boyfriend, waaah

get ova it. you rant ova stupid stuff, maybe if you were a mature 15 year old, you might have a chance on a boy.

well unless u wanna be used as booty, thats fine if it fills your satisication(sp?)

Learn how to read. I am simply asking for tips on how to cope, and I'm not crying/sad/whatever because I don't have a boyfriend, mkay? maybe if YOU were more helpful, i wouldn't be writing this post.

& it's satisfaction, dear.

[*tweeak*]

so, you admit that you're ugly, you don't want to go to any high school dances, and you blame other people for your problems.

fantastic, i mean after all it's their fault for not loving your personality that you love so much. all guys must be shallow.

social situations can be more akward for some than others.

not all guys are completely shallow, no, but when they have a choice between two girls they like about the same, they're going to go with the more attractive one. don't give them too much credit.

putting it that way doesn't f**king help anything, because yeah, it does help to have other people like you back.

I think your problem is not your looks or your personality, but a lack of confidence. Guys dig confidence. Guys are just naturally more comfortable around a girl who is sure of herself and happy with herself. Basically, you won't find a guy until you know who you are and are happy with who you are. So maybe you're not the prettiest girl in school, right? Well, first of all, you probably look fine; but don't focus on looks, focus on something else. Carry yourself right, and people will admire you, including guys. Take some time to get to know yourself and get to know who you are, and everything will work out.

oh boowhoo i dont have a boyfriend, waaah

get ova it. you rant ova stupid stuff, maybe if you were a mature 15 year old, you might have a chance on a boy.

well unless u wanna be used as booty, thats fine if it fills your satisication(sp?)

don't be obnoxious

I'm 16, perfectly mature and I NEVER whine about these things offline, but yeah, sometimes you do have to wonder what makes you so undesirable and lets the world pass you by socially. I'm 16, and have never had the slightest embyo of a relationship. But, you kmow, you just have to remain optimistic and hope things will eventually come around. Don't be prematurwly bitter like me; things don't seen to be looking up anytime soon

[misoshiru]

Lucky you. And I'm now saying this with sarcasm. The person that can look past what's physical is a true friend. Respect yourself, if you don't, no one else will.

Oh yes, you probably won't have any problem with guys liking you only because of your looks. I don't mean to sound conceited, but that has happened to me before and it seemed I was dating a lie all along.

i completely agree.

anyways, there's nothing wrong if you haven't had a bf by 15. jeez. i'm 16 and i've never had a bf, but i'm perfectly fine with it.

[xoxoxx]

why get a boyfriend. get a girlfriend. yes yes yes.

[LittleLulu]

ok lets make this short

1-ur lucky ur not super pretty cuz then guys just see them as a piece of @ss

2-having a bf isn't all its worked up to be, sure its great in the beggining but when things change theres so much to deal with. trust me

3-its better to wait for the one you love, than to go out with the first guy that likes you in highschool..trust me. i've been there

4-you can make the move on the guy. no need to wait..i did it and im with that guy for over 6 months now

5-im not exactly good looking either, but i still have a bf....hes not that good looking, but i dont care =)..so even if other people are shallow..dont u be.

[ClaudelGFX]

Heh, not so nice to see a girl thinking like that, since she is a woman she actually can have any men's they want, but doesnt mean you have to accept all offerts or to show yourself interested any oportunities, you only need some selfcontrol and to think/reflect more about yourself since your age is not saying too much, you just have to be normal/usual and to think more when you wanna accept someone in your life, not knowing too much of or about person, because as we all may know there are 2394932 pervs on this world who are willing to do anything to have that "friendship" with you, and yes from this age or even lower the "boyfriends" will come like the flying dots of the rain, 1 by 1 and not even knowing you will endup with one beside you, but that's no good everytime, you only have to think more about yourself 1st, beeing a girl and then to think about the person beside you, dont let yourself foolded/used like a toy, just to keep that boy beside you or even his attention. Because not all men's even deserve you. Make yourself a type of men/boy you really want to have beside you, put some limits, because yes not all of them deserves even the waste of time, but for sure you can't findout all those before all of them will happen.
Time will teach you and all your relationships will be very different and you have to learn more and more about them... while time goes by and your boyfriends too... bad or good things that will or come/happen will give you other ways to learn about this, because all of them will remain printed in your memory... and you will always remember them...

[_sarcastic_]

well if you keep putting yourself down like that, no guy is gonna wanna be your friend, you have to look approachable. those guys that doesn't like you are shallow, and they're not even worth being friends with to begin with. so why bother.
soon enough there'll be someone that look past what's outside and look at your personality. you should start going to the school dances, that's one way to meet guys and find more friends

[iheartjohn]

Psh. What is ugly, anyway?

[Archana]

Same here. I dont need a guy though ;P I fly solo.
But hey, I'm not attractive & I really dont care.

I have a lot of close-guy friends, but not like that.
Have self-confidence.

[megan_x3]

If you don't respect yourself for who you are; and your trying to go for someone that your not, then I doubt later on when you really do get a boyfriend; that they'll stay with you. If they like you for who you are trying not to be; when they find out the real you, do you think they will have the same thoughts ?

[ichiban]

wow, so you say you're ugly and guys don't like you. so when you do find your guy, it'll just be all the more special. that guy would have looked past everything and saw the beauty inside. it'll be worth the wait. and have some self confidence.

[mouse_3k]

Learn how to read. I am simply asking for tips on how to cope, and I'm not crying/sad/whatever because I don't have a boyfriend, mkay? maybe if YOU were more helpful, i wouldn't be writing this post.

& it's satisfaction, dear.

ok youngN then this is how you cope. u live life without a boyfriend at the moment. its not a big deal that u dont have a boyfriend. get ova it

[*tweeak*]

ok youngN then this is how you cope. u live life without a boyfriend at the moment. its not a big deal that u dont have a boyfriend. get ova it

You're unpleasant, please shut up.

[ghjgfkgfk]

confidence is sexy.
this a lame topic.
or maybe your density is to a spokesperson for americansingles.com

[_sarcastic_]

You're unpleasant, please shut up.

that wasn't very nice.
well it is kinda true, you're only fifteen, you still have alot of time ahead of you. rather get a bf that might be THE ONE other then one that is a complete jerk right?

[Julie Ann]

That sucks for you! I have never been kissed or asked out or anything and I'm 14!!!

[mouse_3k]

You're unpleasant, please shut up.

it is unpleasent but its true. shes mad she doesnt have a bf and shes 15. its not even that big of a deal.

u should rather wait till someone comes to you that actually likes you, or you can be the type that just wants a boyfriend, be used, and called easy the rest of your highschool career. your choice.

[*mipadi*]

it is unpleasent but its true. shes mad she doesnt have a bf and shes 15. its not even that big of a deal.

On the surface, that seems to be the issue, but dig a bit deeper, and I think you'll see that not having a boyfriend is not in and of itself her true reason for concern.

Think back to a time when maybe you weren't so lucky in love, yet everyone else around you was happily coupled up with someone. The issue wasn't so much about not having someone to cuddle with, but rather, the nagging question of "Why is no one attracted to me? Why am I not loveable?" I think that's the original poster's real concern at this point, and it's a concern that many adolescents grapple with. From that point of view, telling her to "suck it up and deal with it" isn't that helpful, because her concerns are more of a self-esteem issue than simply being single.

In that light, I think the best advice is what's already been giving: just figure out who you are, and how you define yourself, and become comfortable with that; make changes were you feel changes need to be made, but be happy and content and confident with the things you like about yourself. Once you're confident and happy with yourself, you'll be much more attractive to other people, especially guys.

I myself have grappled with this issue. Who am I? What do I want out of life, or out of relationships and friendships? What are my values? As cheesy as it sounds, what I did was wrote everything down, several long pages, detailing my thoughts on certain subjects, my values, the kind of person I'd like to be, my goals, what I wanted out of life, and so forth. And it really worked, because through writing, I was forced to really delve into my mind and explore who I was. And in the end I was much more confident in myself because I knew who I was and what I wanted. Maybe you should give that shot, it might really help a lot.

[*tweeak*]

it is unpleasent but its true. shes mad she doesnt have a bf and shes 15. its not even that big of a deal.

u should rather wait till someone comes to you that actually likes you, or you can be the type that just wants a boyfriend, be used, and called easy the rest of your highschool career. your choice.

Michael is right; it's a lot more than that. I think I relate to this girl quite well. I'm 16 and have never come near having a boyfriend, and while I'm not about to go around whining about it, I do have my moments when I have to stop and ponder who I am, what is wrong with me, etc. God, Michael, you're amazing.

[Shahin]

oh boowhoo i dont have a boyfriend, waaah

get ova it. you rant ova stupid stuff, maybe if you were a mature 15 year old, you might have a chance on a boy.

well unless u wanna be used as booty, thats fine if it fills your satisication(sp?)

You have the nerve to talk about maturity?

[mouse_3k]

^ lol yes I do thank you.

in MY opinion, it think having a bf isnt really big. I see people who cares more for school work, work in general, family, etc etc etc.

Having a boyfriend shouldnt be the #1 thing in life unless your getting a boyfriend, escalating into marriage, having kids and populating the earth with a family of your own, and live to see their children.

Thats MY opinion...now I see alot of people arguing to me cause of my opinion. oh well.

[*mipadi*]

Thats MY opinion...now I see alot of people arguing to me cause of my opinion. oh well.

I don't think people think you are necessarily wrong--they're argument seems to be that you're not really getting to the heart of the original poster's issue, however.

There's also the point that the people who always seem to say that having a boyfriend or a girlfriend is not important are the ones who have a boyfriend or girlfriend, but that's a different issue.

[x_shattered]

mipadi and tweeak
You guys have it right, unlike many others including mouse_3k.
The main reason why i wrote this topic was NOT because I don't have a boyfriend, it is more because i'm insecure with low self-esteem. I guess I should've mentioned this but I was pretty confused when i was first writing this topic.

Mouse_3k, you don't see me whining for a boyfriend, do you? In fact, school work is one of my top priorities, and having a boyfriend is at the bottom of the list. It's on the list, which is why i posted this topic, but nonetheless it's on the bottom.

[*tweeak*]

You're welcome. We seem to have a lot in common.

[rinchan089]

I KNOW YOU"VE COME TO TERMS WITH THIS YOURSELF, BUT I"M SURE MANY GIRLS OUT THERE THINK EXACTLY THE SAME WAY YOU DO. THIS IS FOR THEM:

I think you're being WAY too self-centered. Of course, guys don't think you're attractive... People see you as you see yourself!

If you BELIEVE you're really popular, well, so will everyone else. If you BELIEVE your goregeous, then so will everyone else.

And, just to let you know, I took a poll on my guys friends for you; none of them care about appearances.

It's all about the personality.

However, if you don't believe your good enough, or smart enough, or pretty enough, everyone will think of you that way.

Here's a heads up: Guys like girls who are confident, secure, and independent. If you believe you are those three things, then let that shine!

Don't think I don't know what I'm talking about, because I do. All through middle school I was hideous and I became really self-conscious. In high school, my friends showed me that all that matters is what was inside of me all along; ME.

I've only gone out with one guy and it was in 7th grade for 7 months. It was a horrible break-up. I moved on and, after a few more heartbreaks (I didn't go out with anyone else, though), I realized that I didn't need someone else to be who I am.

In highschool, boyfriends are unnecessary. They might be nice to have, sure, but the chances you'll spend the rest of your life with this person are slim to none anyway, right?

Don't ask me to feel sorry for you and your horrible predicament. Your life is, ultimately, your own responsibility. In the end, the only person you can truly depend on is yourself; pity doesn't get you anywhere.

All you have to do is help yourself.

Rin-chan

[Anonymous82]

awww I know how u feel!! If u want we can be friends and stuff and u never know, I might think you're the best person ever in the end! =]

I'm 19 and I've never had a girlfriend before... girls have liked me before but it just didn't happen... I get SO depressed whenever I think about this and see all those couples out there. I feel the same way you do!!

[malimars]

WOW BE HAPPY BOUT IT GUYS R HEADACHES AND U WILL FIND A GUY THERES SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR EVERYONE REMEMBER THAT

[ClaudelGFX]

Anyway i have a girl friend, who is 32 years old now, but she had her FRIST kiss/boyfriend/men in her life at the age of 28 years old, so i guess its nothing wrong with you, its just not all are so lucky to have one, or even they have, one of them its just playing around, and anyway i dont think at your age you can realise what are your true feelings or if they are real feelings or you are just curious since you never had one before. just saying ...

[SSJ Kenshin]

so, you admit that you're ugly, you don't want to go to any high school dances, and you blame other people for your problems.

fantastic, i mean after all it's their fault for not loving your personality that you love so much. all guys must be shallow.

WOW!! Go straight for the jugular, huh? I do agree, but ouch.

[HappyHeart]

Lucky you. And I'm not saying this with sarcasm. The person that can look past what's physical is a true friend. Respect yourself, if you don't, no one else will.

Oh yes, you probably won't have any problem with guys liking you only because of your looks. I don't mean to sound conceited, but that has happened to me before and it seemed I was dating a lie all along.

Wow you're smart. But I agree with what you said.

[ahoytheremate!]

haha

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[demolished]

i'm 14 and dont got one =)

[steezahh]

join a club and meet some new people; that should encourage your self esteam; or read the book GOD DON'T LIKE UGLY; its a good book; not about ugly people tho. but about a girl who thinks she is, then one day she meets a girl who is soo pretty but has no friends; but their is a lot of stuff in between i would guarantee it!

[itsnever4ever]

"gettin over yourself" isnt the same as being confident enough to like who you are. you have to feel good about yourself or it will show to others. its obvious when a person isnt comfortable with how they look or what they say.

I agree, when someone has confidence and is comfortable with themselves its alot more attractive because it shows

[dao]

theres always ppl out there..

but it is true, boys are shallow however maybe if you stick with one guy hell eventually notice that your personality makes you beutiful..

idk i could work

[*mipadi*]

but it is true, boys are shallow however maybe if you stick with one guy hell eventually notice that your personality makes you beutiful..

This isn't going to get twisted into a guy-bashing session, is it?

[VarsMOlta]

hey every girl is pretty dont ever think you are ugly.. you think those popular pretty* girls are really pretty? they spend an hr or so to fix their face in the morning... and im sure youv seen those in the bathrooms durin the break...e veryone all up on the damn mirror....

so think it this way
if they can look the way they do
you can too.. just dont ever go the slutty look
you can definately be pretty i guarantee you
if you kno how to fix yo face nd what can compliment yo looks nd stuff

and always remember ...
personliaty DOES count...
i have so many confusions in ma life...
(hey i got ma first bf when i was 15 i got ma first kiss when i was 15)
and iv got hurt and stuff
but at the end of the day
i knooo.....

i am a good person.
and by that, i beat them all.


so you can do it too!!!

lookin good def get you self confidence.. and i personally think itz all about the attitude not the lookz... you can make them THINK you look good when you don in fact llook good ... or as much as they think you doo... if u kno what i mean

[hammers and hear...]

hey have some confidence! just because the right guy hasnt come along doesnt mean you should feel discouraged. 15 is still young, and a boy should like you for whats inside.

[*suddenly she*]

chin up. confidence is awesome.

i can't say i'm beautiful, but i won't call myself ugly either. trust me, character does matter to a guy that's worth anything.

[BOLIN_Vee]

i think maybe u need to get out more. thats what builds everyones confidence. i dunno but telling by how many posts you have, you probly spend alot of time on cb. i know some girls who r never home, there always out and about with a bunch of ppl, boys like them, there nice, funny, and awsome, and THERE NOT PRETTY AT ALL!!! they just have alot of confidence because they get out alot.



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woops sory...i thought it said like "15,000 somthing posts" but that was ur member number lol. sorry

[xbby_charmz]

try having a little more confidence. i got broken up at prom well homecoming and i still danced and had a good time try to look at things positive and trust me your guy will come! so get out more cant be shy all the time. think about it

[Olive]

but it is true, boys are shallow however maybe if you stick with one guy hell eventually notice that your personality makes you beutiful..

Oh yes, great advice.
But since your mind is already set in being on guy-repellant mode, then why not go for the girls Problem solved!

Best of Luck
Olive.

[*danielle_x3*]

when the time is right, you'll find the right guy. just let things fall into place. and have confidence =]

[ParanoidAndroid]

You know you really shouldn't go working on getting bf, work on much more important cases... for instance, school, i know it may sound nerdy but you got the rest of your life to worry about relationships, you can never get a second chance on getting a good future (with lots of money ).

[FREEcandies]

like my title? 

Anyway, i'm just here to rant.  I'm 15 years old, and have never had a boyfriend in my entire life.  I'm okay with this, but it gets worse.  It just seems like guys don't like me. at all.  The last guy who liked me was in 4th grade, and let me tell you, that is a long time ago.  It's not like i'm antisocial with guys or anything, they just don't really want to get to know me. I think the reason is that I'm not "pretty" or hot, i'm...quite ugly, in fact. I love my personality, but I hate my looks.  -sigh- stupid shallowness.  I haven't even been to a high school dance and i'm a sophomore...not planning on to either. 

Any tips on how to cope?

Wow, your "entire life" of 15 years huh? I don't mean to sound condescending but this is a kid problem and I'm not surprised you're having it. Believe me, it does get worse, A LOT WORSE. This isn't a problem you "cope" with. This is something you'll just have to grow up and accept. If you can't love yourself, how can you love another? You are a long way from being in a loving lasting relationship hun, but don't rush.

Let me tell you something. I went out with this girl for 3 years. I admit that she wasn't good looking or anything. All of my girl friends look better than her and I've had girls better looking than her like me. Still my heart was for her and you know what happened? She left me to be with someone else! Think about that...and then think about your problem.

[yummy_delight]

Deal with it. A lot of us are in the same boat. Want to know what's even worse? Having a boyfriend, suffering a breakup, and then being single again for a REALLY long time. But this time, you know exactly what you're missing.

THAT, my dear, is much worse than your current state of affairs.

Don't fret. You'll find someone one day, they'll find you, everything will click and you'll be happy.

[*jooleeah*]

Gain some self respect and confidence. Don't call yourself ugly, or else other people will.

[tommyhilfiger_gu...]

if your personality is good, then i would say get over it cause someone will come-- and they won't care about how you look

but first.... try a makeover or something or gain LOTS of self confidence

[OhXiet_ItzDonnA]

^Please make your signature smaller. It's stretching the boards.

Some boys dont really take you by your looks. They would take you on who you are and how you is. Dont worry. There should be someone good for you.

[CrazayChristian]

You could be the hottest woman on earth, but if you don't have the attitude, all you'll get are stares and one conversation.


NO GUY (and I do me NO GUY) wants someone who is self-concious(damn spelling..) It's as simple as that.

Naturally, yes, guys are suppose to be quote unquote "shallow". Why? because back in the day, it was the mother that had the bigger breast ( abundant nursing milk), the bigger hips ( Much better to support and birth children) and the more "slender body" (Shows that they're healthy, and can survive). WOMEN however just needed (pardon my cruded and blunt comment here) to be impregnated and that's all it took to survive. So, a woman has to look for a man who is strong, providing, leading, and maybe smart.

So, excuuuuse us that we got the short end of the morality stick of nature, but not everyguy is stuck in prehistory.

[ChEeR A HOliC Xo]

Hey Hun,

I know this may seem hard for you. I never been through it but highschools rough and I get a idea. No matter what you need to have self-confidence. It really is the only way to get by. If you dont appreciate yourself, no one else will. Also if you let people walk all over you, thats not helping at all either. Go to school happy, dont let anyone get in your way, and pertend that you are the best looking girl in school. Dont take attitude from anyone else, and i garantee the day you do that, the day you respect yourself, other people will to. Good luck hun! Sorry if i didnt help.

[bad_girl]

you can do it, just believe that you can. have more confidence in yourself..

one more thing.. makeover!!?? if you dont like your looks or style or whatever, then make it right! (im not telling you to go get surgery or whatever.. but yeah)