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 Sep 12 2005, 05:15 PM
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well the guy i use to like last year i had a class with him and this year i dont and i only have 2 lunches with him [we have like 1st lunch and second lunch /school divided] and i hanhg out with his friend in the morning and i see him sometimes but rarely. he always says hi to me in the halls and stuff. and i hella miss him. like talking to him and stuff:[
wat do i do. haha. im so lame. but yeah im bored and i was wondering what u guys do when u miss someone. |
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Sep 12 2005, 05:20 PM
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 unify and defeat... divide and crumble Group: Member Posts: 2,759 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 6,379 |
I try to see them.
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Sep 12 2005, 05:22 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
try to see them, like stated above.. or make new friends and forget him? ha
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| *mzkandi* |
Sep 12 2005, 05:26 PM
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Moved to Relationships
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Sep 12 2005, 07:12 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
eh...if you really lov ehim then you'll be able to get through this phase of seperation. it will be hard, but it will definetly test your relationship. i only see my guy once a week...at church...so our actions are restricted. and i guess you can call him if you miss him just to talk.
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Sep 12 2005, 07:13 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
oops
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Sep 12 2005, 07:48 PM
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 hi. call me linda. Group: Official Member Posts: 8,187 Joined: Feb 2004 Member No: 3,475 |
QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Sep 12 2005, 8:12 PM) eh...if you really lov ehim then you'll be able to get through this phase of seperation. it will be hard, but it will definetly test your relationship. i only see my guy once a week...at church...so our actions are restricted. and i guess you can call him if you miss him just to talk.  Err, I don't think they're going out... Well, I would try to see them. Perhaps talk to them more, like online, on the phone or even in person. |
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| *mipadi* |
Sep 12 2005, 08:35 PM
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Well, if possible, I try to see them; if separated by distance, I at least try to keep in contact.
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Sep 12 2005, 09:40 PM
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holy shit. our situations are so similar it's scary.
but yeah. i'm sure tons of other people go through the same thing we do, and i sure as hell understand the pain or frustration that you go through. see, i don't know about you, but what scares me the most is that fact that i'm afraid that this separation or lack of communication would weaken the relationship it took me months to develop. and maybe you might have the same feelings i do. you know--going in early in the morning, or walking in specific halls--not necessarily en route to your classes, but just to get a glance or squeeze in a conversation with that long lost love. and there's really nothing you can do about it. fate can be tricky sometimes. what i recommend is, if you've lost all connection through school, try to get to him through other ways. talk to him online, get his phone number, e-mail, ask him to the movies? hang out with him. it's the only thing you can do if you want to strengthen that relationship if it really means a lot to you. otherwise, it will weaken and maybe even crumble if you just let it go on like that. because it's natural for people to lose closeness after separation. |
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Sep 12 2005, 10:04 PM
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stalk him
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Sep 12 2005, 10:07 PM
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i know how that feels
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Sep 13 2005, 07:46 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
QUOTE(mai_z @ Sep 13 2005, 6:20 AM) I try to see them. e x a c t l y. what else would you do? 
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Sep 13 2005, 01:00 PM
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 highfive. Group: Member Posts: 1,301 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 32,951 |
Hmm.. I guess what I would do is try getting his phone number//screename//xanga or whatever. And just keep in touch with him. Ask him if you guys could hang out or something;; my best friend and i weren't in any classes together but we still hung out after school. When you miss him, call him or something. Good luck (:
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Sep 13 2005, 01:16 PM
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awww
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Sep 13 2005, 05:23 PM
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 Call me Elsie Mae Group: Member Posts: 936 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,655 |
my friend gave me this advice..
If you love him set him free and if he comes back then its meant to be.. lol..thats more on love.. but it's the same concept.. if you miss him just let him go and let him have his life and don't try to change urs just cuz YOU want to see him.. and one day.. you two will be froguht together again.. it just takes time.. |
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Sep 13 2005, 10:28 PM
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QUOTE(mzislandpinay @ Sep 13 2005, 4:23 PM) my friend gave me this advice.. If you love him set him free and if he comes back then its meant to be.. lol..thats more on love.. but it's the same concept.. if you miss him just let him go and let him have his life and don't try to change urs just cuz YOU want to see him.. and one day.. you two will be froguht together again.. it just takes time.. that's the most fairy-tale advice i've ever heard. ...haven't you realized that doesn't happen in real life? |
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Sep 15 2005, 03:37 AM
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 naïvety Group: Human Posts: 1,303 Joined: Jan 2004 Member No: 488 |
^ sorry but i have to agree with him
 QUOTE(aznxdreamer @ Sep 13 2005, 7:12 AM) i only see my guy once a week...at church...so our actions are restricted. I see my guy twice a year.. and he's halfway across the world from me 
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Sep 15 2005, 06:37 PM
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to hell with you Group: Member Posts: 2,547 Joined: May 2004 Member No: 16,506 |
^^ aww..i feel for you. :(
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Sep 15 2005, 10:37 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 683 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,526 |
Damn..I miss my girl right now :-/
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Sep 15 2005, 10:53 PM
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Try to get his email or phone number then go from there...
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Sep 16 2005, 07:48 PM
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QUOTE(_sarcastic_ @ Sep 12 2005, 10:04 PM) stalk him ^haha i dont think thats the best idea xD |
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Sep 22 2005, 08:36 PM
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thanks for the advice. yeah im really weird like that haha my friends dont realize i still have a soft spot for him still but its like when im walking im like "i hope i hope i see him" i rarely do. but we have like this preschool in our school. and im a student teacher and i help out with the kids. when we walk the kids to outside we [pass his class and he alawys looks out and smiles at me and says hi :) it makes my day
haha. |
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Sep 24 2005, 01:37 PM
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 Pretty Rad Group: Member Posts: 193 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 202,955 |
ERm, I'm in the same situation. Last year, i had many classes with the guy i liked. now i only have lunch with him. I get so sad, cause he doesn't have many classes with me. I see him in the morning.. but i don't talk to him. it's sad, cause i've liked him for about a year or two. He has a gf.. so its not like i could even ask him out.. or anything like that. and all of my friends are like "oh he likes you!" but i know they are just saying cause they want me to feel good.
Really, I don't know what i do to get through the days. =[ |
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Sep 24 2005, 04:32 PM
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maybe you can talk to him more? just a hi in hallway isnt enough...
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