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my chance.., and i said no!
liddleriss
post Sep 8 2005, 08:50 PM
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okay tonight i was with the guy i like at my house, and my parents werent home.. so he knocks on the door and im like what are you doing? and hes like what time is it? and i told him then hes like can i come in? and i was like yeah then he came in my room and we weren talking for like a min and then i was like my parents are coming home and hes like okay im gunna leave.. so i gave him a hug and hes like no a real hug so we hugged again then hes like what about a kiss? and im like no and he kept asking me and i kept saying no then hes jus jus one and everythime he asked me i said no.. what the f*** is my problem?!! please help me, my screen name is liddleriss89, IM me.
 
 
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AngryBaby
post Sep 8 2005, 08:54 PM
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well first you told him no, so he should respect that. but if you wanted to kiss him you should've, or maybe it was cause your parents were coming? thats why u denied it?
 
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post Sep 8 2005, 08:58 PM
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yeah i agree with the person above me :] maybe you werent in the right mood and also he was forcing you, he should understand if you said no, to back off. and also yeha because of your parents coming home. theres nothing wrong your just being a good girl :D
 
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post Sep 8 2005, 08:58 PM
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i do wanna kiss him but everytime he asks me i get all worried idk why, i get scared im gunna do something wrong.. but yeah i admit it i never kissed a guy before..
 
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post Sep 8 2005, 09:11 PM
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maybe your waiting for the right moment. its going to be your first kiss ever. and you want to remember the moment. you have all the time to wait for it.
 
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post Sep 8 2005, 09:16 PM
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liddleriss
post Sep 8 2005, 09:19 PM
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yeahh .. idk im so mad right now cause when i think of it i should have kissed him, im mad at myself lol
 
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post Sep 8 2005, 09:20 PM
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ehh...if you really do wanna kss him then jsut do it because everyone gets nervous before their first kiss.
 
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post Sep 8 2005, 09:21 PM
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everyone wants their first kiss to be perfect. only when you feel that you're ready and the moment is right then go for it.
 
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post Sep 8 2005, 10:03 PM
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you have to have your first kiss sometime...

if he really likes you then he shouldn't care if you're bad at kissing...in my opinion no one should be bad at kissing. how can you do it wrong? ...unless you slobber all over the other person pinch.gif
 
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post Sep 9 2005, 11:51 PM
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people click teeth,are too agressive,and just dont go with the flow^ thats how you could do it wrong lol
 
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post Sep 9 2005, 11:58 PM
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QUOTE(ChibiChimomo @ Sep 8 2005, 5:58 PM)
yeah i agree with the person above me :] maybe you werent in the right mood and also he was forcing you, he should understand if you said no, to back off. and also yeha because of your parents coming home. theres nothing wrong your just being a good girl :D
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ugh .. He didnt force her because the story didnt even mention or gave a clue. mellow.gif
 
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post Sep 10 2005, 12:09 PM
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Maybe you was a lil shy to give him a kiss.
 
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post Sep 10 2005, 02:03 PM
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eh, don't worry about it. my advice - next time you're with him, kiss him. get it over with. Everyone want the first kiss to be perfect, but if you wait for the perfect kiss you'll never kiss anyone.
 
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post Sep 10 2005, 02:04 PM
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QUOTE(liddleriss @ Sep 8 2005, 8:50 PM)
okay tonight i was with the guy i like at my house, and my parents werent home.. so he knocks on the door and im like what are you doing? and hes like what time is it? and i told him then hes like can i come in? and i was like yeah then he came in my room and we weren  talking for like a min and then i was like my parents are coming home and hes like okay im gunna leave.. so i gave him a hug and hes like no a real hug so we hugged again then hes like what about a kiss? and im like no and he kept asking me and i kept saying no then hes jus jus one and everythime he asked me i said no.. what the f*** is my problem?!! please help me, my screen name is liddleriss89, IM me.
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You were just shy _smile.gif .
 
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post Sep 10 2005, 03:12 PM
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If you said no, you probably really didn't want to kiss him.
 
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post Sep 10 2005, 03:15 PM
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QUOTE(mo_rox @ Sep 10 2005, 3:12 PM)
If you said no, you probably really didn't want to kiss him.
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I kinda agree. If you feel horrible for rejecting him, it's probably more of guilt than regret.
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 07:21 PM
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aww that;s sad =( =( hAha invite him over again
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 08:03 PM
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i think you just have to learn to say yes
i have that problem...i just like saying no better than yes


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you probably didn't want to sound too desprate so you shoud lead him on to you ans then let teh magic happen
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 08:04 PM
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QUOTE(L!ckitySplit @ Sep 8 2005, 8:54 PM)
well first you told him no, so he should respect that. but if you wanted to kiss him you should've, or maybe it was cause your parents were coming? thats why u denied it?
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i agree; was it the timing? or was it because you weren't in the mood; thats happened to me before! so dont take it like that your the only one; yeahh... Thanks for posting though; thats a really good point yet question your asking for? if that makes since?
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 09:03 PM
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don't worry.

just ask him for a kiss next time or something.
 
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post Sep 15 2005, 09:08 PM
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You did the right thing getting caught sucks although I never been caught laugh.gif I am the king but you did the right thing maybe you wouldnt did something you regret that night so you held back its ok.
 
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post Sep 16 2005, 11:12 AM
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haha maybe you're just like me. some guy asked me out, or hinted it at least. he couldnt even get right to the topic! i kind of like him but i dont know why i found it hard to reply.. ugh. life is a mystery. happens to me all the time.
 

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