err .. please help .. guy problems |
 Sep 8 2005, 04:46 PM
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 hes the reason i smile.. <3  Group: Member Posts: 104 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 158,486  |
ok well one of my good friends n i hang out all the time we went to prom together n we dated for a lil bit than broke up because we thought if things got to serious n sumthing happened than our friendship would be messed up ... now he has a g/f who is one of my friends ... n he takes me to school almost everyday n we got to talkin n i told him that i liked him more than a friend n he sed he liked me to but he cares alot about his g/f n didnt wanna hurt her to bad ... n today when he took me to school we went to the river first n just sat there and talked n threw rocks at ducks.. than we went to school. n when we were walkin he gave me a kiss .. n was like dont tell meghann( his g/f).. i like him so much .. what do i do w/o messing them up
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Sep 8 2005, 04:49 PM
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Well, he'll probably have to figure out what he wants.
This is the reason why I say the "I like you, and you like me, but we can't go out because it will ruin our friendship" thing is just stupid. If you like a friend, things are probably going to get weird at some point no matter what, as happened in your situation. |
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Sep 8 2005, 04:55 PM
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 My name's Katt. Nice to meet you! Group: Member Posts: 3,826 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 93,674 |
The boy is cheating on you, don't you realize it!? He wants to date you and Meghann at the same time, so he doesn't want you to tell her. I suggest you tell Meghann what's going on before she gets hurt. Resolve it amongst yourselves. It would be cool to keep a friendly relationship with this guy friend and perhaps Meghann as well, but nothing more for the moment.
And don't you dare throw another rock at a duck. |
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Sep 8 2005, 05:34 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
QUOTE(AkaRyux @ Sep 8 2005, 5:55 PM) And don't you dare throw another rock at a duck.  i agree  you agreed that you would be friends so what are you doing? if you go through with this so many things are going to get messed up. - your friendship with meghann would be flushed down the toilet - if your relationship fails with the guy, your friendship would be gone - you're going to be known as the girl who stole a friend's boyfriend - your friends won't trust you anymore - you will be incredibly hurt and be really stressed out from all the drama |
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Sep 8 2005, 06:00 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 683 Joined: May 2005 Member No: 135,526 |
She isn't getting cheated on...She ain't going out with him at the moment.
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Sep 8 2005, 06:32 PM
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 show me a garden thats bursting to life Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 12,303 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 115,987 |
QUOTE(chii @ Sep 8 2005, 5:34 PM) you agreed that you would be friends so what are you doing? if you go through with this so many things are going to get messed up. - your friendship with meghann would be flushed down the toilet - if your relationship fails with the guy, your friendship would be gone - you're going to be known as the girl who stole a friend's boyfriend - your friends won't trust you anymore - you will be incredibly hurt and be really stressed out from all the drama To. Ta. Lly. Listen to her. |
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Sep 8 2005, 08:45 PM
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 Tasty. Group: Member Posts: 471 Joined: Jun 2004 Member No: 21,784 |
WOW WOW WOW, so freaky. that whole dating thing is EXACTLY what happened with my ex-bf! we were friends, we went to prom, and then went out but he broke it off cuz he thought it would ruin our friendship. the huge problem now is that we barely talk ne more, so at least u guys still do. i dunno...it seems he's confused about the girls. its not fair to your friend for him to break up with her to be with u again. so, i'd say just leave him be and don't get into things, unless HE wants to. it won't be cool to go behind ur friend's back. keep ur feelings on hold for now. things will look up soon.
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Sep 11 2005, 10:17 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
what kind of friend are you? O_o.
your friend, is going out with him, and yet, you kissed him. |
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Sep 11 2005, 01:26 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 161 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 153,708 |
tell meghan or ask him what he plans to do. do NOT keep this a secret, as that will defnately ruin your friendship with meghan forever.
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Sep 11 2005, 01:33 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
i think you should leave him alone since he has a girlfriend
but if he likes you more than his gf, he should dump her for you |
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Sep 11 2005, 03:23 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 134 Joined: Jun 2005 Member No: 151,568 |
it depends on what he thinks, if he didn`t want to screw up his relationship with his gf, why would he kiss you? if you and the guy get back together how do you think meghan would feel? don`t get too excited, maybe things will go back to the way they were.
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Sep 11 2005, 06:08 PM
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Tiffany <3 Group: Member Posts: 192 Joined: Sep 2004 Member No: 50,685 |
Throwing rocks at ducks?
Eeeer, VIOLENT. Anyway; Brother's cheatin' He likes you AND that other chick I suggest you tell her. |
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