dont know what to do, warning: boy/girl problem! |
 Sep 6 2005, 10:33 PM
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 Hey Teacher, Leave those Kids Alone!  Group: Member Posts: 135 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 43,324  |
Oh man, I think its my first time posting here, anyway. Like long time ago this girl like me, and her best friend would tell me. The idiot and low self esteem person I am wouldn't believe them. Long time after that, me and the girl would talk and we became close. So I would often go to her house to chill or whatever. So one day she told me that she used to like me, so I was all like "Oh man, what an idiot I am" and stuff. So then we've been friends for about 8 months or so, and like everytime to her house and what not we would like "flirt" and stuff. So I'm starting to think that I'm beginning to like her.
The thing is that I'm about to move to Malaysia in 3 months for college. So I dont know if I should ask her out and what not, and my chances of coming back to America is not so high. So I dont know what to do, and the thing is...well we've kissed before, yea like lip kissing, haha. So I dont really know if having a girlfriend for 3 months is worth it, so yeah I dont know what to do. So if anyone had this experience or similar please tell me how u handled it. -FaR |
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Sep 6 2005, 11:40 PM
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 hold up, thats antilicious Group: Member Posts: 260 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 108,714 |
well.. a long distant relationship is hard to do, esecially when its halfway across the world
but you should use the time you have to be happy, so i say yes! .. however you guys already seem like boy/girlfriend because your so close something similar happend to me once, i moved on, but its just me |
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Sep 7 2005, 12:15 AM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i think you should just stay friends...
if you started a relationship there isn't a good possibility that it would last because 3 months isn't enough to establish a relationship that will carry on overseas. don't risk messing up your friendship, you're going off to college, there will be plenty of girls there (unless it's an all boys school, but there has to be women somewhere in malaysia). |
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Sep 7 2005, 01:52 AM
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 brandon demarin Group: Member Posts: 287 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,512 |
have sex with her, leave.
haha jkjkjk :) |
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Sep 7 2005, 01:58 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,220 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 81,808 |
^^^^^l
lmao i say go for it.. i mean this is ur last chance to see her right? |
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Sep 7 2005, 06:38 AM
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 <3 Group: Member Posts: 3,657 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 64,493 |
if you know that your chances of coming back to america is low, then you should just stay as friends, that why no one gets hurt. because long distance IS hard. i'm in one and it is killing me
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Sep 7 2005, 07:53 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 45 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 227,755 |
does she know? let her understand that you are going to be away in 3 months and you'd probably never come back but you'd like to ask her out. ask her if she's okay with it. if yes, then go ahead with it, there might be broken hearts but you both knew what was coming. if not, then everythings good =) keep on flirting or whatnot.
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Sep 7 2005, 05:28 PM
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 I love you, I hate you, I can't live without you! Group: Member Posts: 51 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 219,526 |
So wait you are going to college....hmm....ok well ask her out....then take her with you!!! Duh!!!
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