your best friends gay, what do i do! |
 Sep 6 2005, 09:04 PM
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What if you where gay. and your best friends gay. would you go out.
if your gay tell us. if your not u can tell us. tell me what u had to go threw if your best friend was gay im not gay im just wondering. |
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Sep 6 2005, 09:05 PM
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CHYEAAHHH MAN Group: Member Posts: 1,255 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 168,013 |
Yes because I happen to have a very big crush on him right now
Yes I'm gay What do you mean what I would have to go through? Wouldn't be he going through all of this? |
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Sep 6 2005, 09:06 PM
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POWAPOSTA Group: Member Posts: 3,169 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 30,725 |
it's no different than when a guy and girl who are friends both like each other
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Sep 6 2005, 09:09 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 222,808 |
cool cool:P
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Sep 6 2005, 09:15 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 479 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,199 |
I'm straight but several of my friends are bi...LoL funny thing was they all told me at once so it was pretty funny. It honestly didn't bother me at all.
If you have friends that are gay or bi or whatever it doesn't change the fact that you're still friends...well, it shouldn't anyway. If it does...you're not a very nice person. |
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Sep 6 2005, 09:21 PM
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 Call me Elsie Mae Group: Member Posts: 936 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,655 |
my best friend is gay.. yet i'm a girl and i'm straight so it's all go0d but i accept the fact that he's gay and if there's ppl that want to mess with that about him.. then they gotta get through by me..
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Sep 6 2005, 09:22 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 222,808 |
QUOTE(WindSorcerous @ Sep 6 2005, 9:15 PM) I'm straight but several of my friends are bi...LoL funny thing was they all told me at once so it was pretty funny. It honestly didn't bother me at all. If you have friends that are gay or bi or whatever it doesn't change the fact that you're still friends...well, it shouldn't anyway. If it does...you're not a very nice person.  i dont care if they had sex with my best friend they are still my friend. and if i liked ther person and they had sex with her i would be pissed. becuase friends come frist to tell secrets i got bi,gay.lez friends. and i dont care. they are all so sweet. and the gay ones are cool because im not gay im not going to call them sweet. |
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Sep 6 2005, 09:26 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 222,808 |
QUOTE(mzislandpinay @ Sep 6 2005, 9:21 PM) my best friend is gay.. yet i'm a girl and i'm straight so it's all go0d but i accept the fact that he's gay and if there's ppl that want to mess with that about him.. then they gotta get through by me.. oh im sorry to hear that. yea lol. |
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Sep 6 2005, 09:34 PM
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Call me Elsie Mae Group: Member Posts: 936 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 207,655 |
QUOTE(GRRRtyler @ Sep 6 2005, 6:26 PM) oh im sorry to hear that. yea lol. what's to be sorrie? lol.. it's all go0d cuz i love hin the way he is |
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Sep 6 2005, 09:46 PM
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Member Group: Member Posts: 29 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 222,808 |
QUOTE(brownsugar08 @ Sep 6 2005, 9:36 PM) I think it's the same as if...you were coed best friends. Just because you both are heterosexual..doesn't mean you have to date. Same thing as..just because you both are homosexual, doesn't mean you HAVE to date. i dont get all that sexual shit. i only no gay bi lez metro and 1 more. but tell me then |
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Sep 8 2005, 09:51 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 1 Joined: Jan 2005 Member No: 78,266 |
I'm Bisexual..
and i fell in love with my best friend.. and he knows, but, we just are going to stay friends. But, a guy can fall in love with a girl, anda girl can fall in love with a guy, and a girl can fall in love with a girl, its the same all around. Who cared the sexuality, or the gender. anyone can fall in love with anyone. kthanksbye. |
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Sep 8 2005, 10:15 PM
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 dakishimetainoni... Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 4,322 Joined: Dec 2004 Member No: 75,318 |
i wouldn't care if my best friend was a lesbian. big deal, just because you're friends with someone who's attracted to the sex you are doesn't mean that they're going to rape you or fall in love with you.
they just want acceptance, not fear. |
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Sep 8 2005, 10:18 PM
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 The Noob Group: Member Posts: 575 Joined: Jul 2005 Member No: 169,647 |
if both of u are gay den go out
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Sep 11 2005, 01:39 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Official Member Posts: 6,953 Joined: Oct 2004 Member No: 52,702 |
if you feel a fling then yes because if your friend you probaly look at each other as just friend..like you can talk to eachother about your relationship problem..then it could feel werid about dating each other
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Sep 12 2005, 06:07 AM
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 yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
i wouldnt care if my best friend is gay/lesbian. i have a really good friend, and he's gay, and he's just as awesome.
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Sep 12 2005, 05:24 PM
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 SCHGEB!SCHGEB! Group: Member Posts: 1,786 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 66,217 |
QUOTE(chii @ Sep 8 2005, 10:15 PM) i wouldn't care if my best friend was a lesbian. big deal, just because you're friends with someone who's attracted to the sex you are doesn't mean that they're going to rape you or fall in love with you. they just want acceptance, not fear. agreedddd |
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Sep 12 2005, 11:32 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 1,450 Joined: Feb 2005 Member No: 98,407 |
don't girls want gay friends to go shopping with or something.
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Sep 12 2005, 11:45 PM
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 Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 187 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 233,590 |
<---- 100% Hetero
now if I found out my bestfriend was Homo wouldnt change the way I feel it would need some adjusting too but if he was cool enough to be your friend then why not now eh. |
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Sep 13 2005, 12:21 AM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 293 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,801 |
i would bail...(maybe) i cant stand gay people, even tho i am in wrestling i dont like guys touching me...
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Sep 13 2005, 07:31 AM
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yan lin♥ Group: Staff Alumni Posts: 14,129 Joined: Apr 2004 Member No: 13,627 |
^ even if your best friend was gay, it doesnt mean that he WOULD touch you.
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Sep 14 2005, 09:45 PM
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I don't know what I would do. I think one of my friends is gay anyway so I guess I'd be find with it.
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Sep 15 2005, 12:55 PM
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QUOTE(WindSorcerous @ Sep 6 2005, 9:15 PM) I'm straight but several of my friends are bi...LoL funny thing was they all told me at once so it was pretty funny. It honestly didn't bother me at all. If you have friends that are gay or bi or whatever it doesn't change the fact that you're still friends...well, it shouldn't anyway. If it does...you're not a very nice person. yeah, im not gay, but as stated in a topic from a while back, not all gay guys are after every guy in the world. just because theyre gay doesnt mean theyre gonna come attack and rape you. they also said what makes you so sure that just because youre a guy and and there is a gay guy around, that they like you just because they like guys. |
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Sep 17 2005, 02:45 AM
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 Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
QUOTE(Kevinxp @ Sep 8 2005, 7:18 PM) if both of u are gay den go out It's like saying .. " if both of u are straight den go out " |
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Sep 17 2005, 10:25 AM
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 *scribble scribble* Group: Member Posts: 1,314 Joined: Mar 2005 Member No: 119,610 |
^hahaha
well i have a friend that's bi and i didn't know until yesterday. it doesn't really matter to me. |
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Sep 17 2005, 04:50 PM
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 Heh, I'm so cool =] Group: Member Posts: 74 Joined: Aug 2005 Member No: 221,660 |
It doesn't matter. I have a really close friend, and he's gay. And this other kid in the same class is bi, and he likes my friend. My friends kinda going through the same thing... He doesn't know whether he should go out with him or not.
But if they both like each other, then sure. Why shouldn't they? |
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Sep 17 2005, 06:21 PM
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Senior Member Group: Posts: 8,274 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 8,001 |
I think you can be their supporters =)
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Sep 17 2005, 07:33 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 293 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 40,801 |
ok how about this..
if he or she is gay.. just dont tell me.. ide feel really wierd.. |
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Sep 17 2005, 08:35 PM
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 cheeeesy like theres no tomorrow Group: Member Posts: 3,316 Joined: Aug 2004 Member No: 37,142 |
QUOTE(PingPong @ Sep 17 2005, 7:33 PM) ok how about this.. if he or she is gay.. just dont tell me.. ide feel really wierd.. yea just because they are gay they are going to hump you. looks like you got a big head, dont flatter yourself. it makes me sad to be a guy sometimes cause those are the thoughts of an ignorant straight guy. just because a guy is gay he is going to go for the first guy in sight. thats so stupid. i bet you go try to hump ever girl you see, yea i thought so, you dont . Do you think the same goes for a guy who is just like you but has the opposite sexual orientation. |
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Sep 17 2005, 09:11 PM
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 Kris is getting bonified. Group: Member Posts: 3,172 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 67,366 |
I don't have any gay friends, but I wish I did.
I want a relationship like Will and Grace has in the show, "Will and Grace". But, if I were gay and she was gay, I don't think I would go out with her for some reason. |
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Sep 18 2005, 01:42 PM
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Newbie Group: Member Posts: 9 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 225,264 |
Me and my best friend are gay and we're going out. It's nice to know someone, find out you're gay, the find out they're gay the fall madly in love! Anywho... 1 thing I've noticed is that if 2 girls are doin it then people don't really seem to mind but if 2 guys do it people cringe and say it makes their skin crawl. It really hurts when they do that.
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Sep 19 2005, 08:45 PM
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 april Group: Member Posts: 84 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 240,662 |
its ok.. no need to freak out. just don't start anything with him. gay ppl actually make good friends (im not gaY)
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Sep 19 2005, 08:46 PM
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Senior Member Group: Member Posts: 479 Joined: Sep 2005 Member No: 223,199 |
QUOTE it's no different than when a guy and girl who are friends both like each other I agree; there's no difference...well...except for the obvious reasons *wink Hehe |
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Sep 19 2005, 09:29 PM
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 cB Assassin Group: Official Member Posts: 10,147 Joined: Mar 2004 Member No: 7,672 |
One of my best friends is bi, I can live with it...
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Sep 21 2005, 11:33 PM
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 tell me more. Group: Official Member Posts: 2,798 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 35,640 |
QUOTE(Lo Mein @ Sep 6 2005, 7:05 PM) Yes because I happen to have a very big crush on him right now Yes I'm gay What do you mean what I would have to go through? Wouldn't be he going through all of this? iiii knew it! but i didnt wanna ask.  thats cool.two gay bestfriends would probably end up going out. like when a guy and a girl are best friends and they secretly like eachother. |
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Sep 29 2005, 01:06 AM
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 Clarinet King <3 Flute Prince Group: Member Posts: 28 Joined: Jul 2004 Member No: 28,914 |
i would. but he isnt gay.
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Sep 29 2005, 03:10 AM
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 "Silly me, I thought this was a free country" Group: Human Posts: 1,666 Joined: Nov 2004 Member No: 60,913 |
I'm not a guy.. but i'm a girl and i'm bi... and no, just becuse my friend is gay doesn't mean i'll go out with her.. thats dumb
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